Raised in Velma, Oklahoma, Diffie worked in a foundry while playing local nightclubs in Oklahoma and moved to Nashville in 1986 to work for Gibson Guitar Corporation.
His first album arrived in 1990 when country music was thriving commercially and creatively. His first single, a sensitive traditional country ballad, Home, reached No. 1, although Diffie quickly counted on novelty hits to sustain his career. For instance, his other No. 1 hits are Pickup Man, Bigger Than the Beatles, Third Rock From the Sun and If the Devil Danced (In Empty Pockets). Toward the end of the 1990s, Diffie lost his chart momentum and left Epic Records following his 2001 album, In Another World. Subsequently, he toured with Mark Chesnutt and Tracy Lawrence on the Rockin' Roadhouse tour.
In 2013, Diffie collaborated with Aaron Tippin and Sammy Kershaw on the album All in the Same Boat, and cut the single "Girl Riding Shotgun" with D Thrash of the Jawga Boyz. This was followed in 2019 by a vinyl album called Joe, Joe, Joe Diffie.
Diffie passed away from complications of coronavirus (COVID-19) on March 29, 2020.
Ships Thats Don't Come In
Joe Diffie Lyrics
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By the way he sat and stared
And me, I'd come to push and shove
So I pulled up a chair
We talked of roads untraveled
We talked of love untrue
Of strings that come unraveled
And just when I'd hit bottom
That old man raised his glass
And said at least we've had our chances
There's those who never have
So here's to all the soldiers
Who have ever died in vain
The insane locked up in themselves
The homeless down on Main
To those who stand on empty shores
And spit against the wind
And those who wait forever
For ships that don't come in
He said it's only life's illusions
That bring us to this bar
To pick up these old crutches
And compare each others scars
'Cause the things we're calling heartache
Hell, they're hardly worth our time
We bitch about a dollar
When there's those without a dime
As he ordered one last round
He said I guess we can't complain
God made life a gamble
And we're still in the game
So here's to all the soldiers
Who have ever died in vain
The insane locked up in themselves
The homeless down on Main
To those who stand on empty shores
And spit against the wind
And those who wait forever
For ships that don't come in
And those who wait forever
For ships that don't come in
The Joe Diffie's song "Ships That Don't Come In" is a reflection on life and the struggles that people face every day. The lyrics tell the story of a man who is down on his luck and feels like he has hit rock bottom. He meets an old man in a bar who has also had a tough life, and they share their experiences.
The old man raises his glass and toasts to the soldiers who have died in vain, the insane locked up in themselves, the homeless down on Main street, and those who wait forever for ships that don't come in. The song is a reminder to be thankful for what we have and not to take life for granted. The old man and the singer understand that life is a gamble, and we're all still in the game.
The lyrics also talk about how people often focus on small problems in their lives while ignoring the bigger issues affecting others. The singer reflects on how people complain about small heartaches and a dollar, while there are others without a dime. Through the song, he encourages people to be more compassionate and understanding towards each other.
Overall, "Ships That Don't Come In" is a poignant reminder that life is full of struggles, but through connection and empathy, we can get through these moments together.
Line by Line Meaning
Well, I could tell he'd had a tough life
I could see from his appearance that he had faced many difficulties in his life
By the way he sat and stared
His sitting posture and gaze conveyed his sorrows and struggles
And me, I'd come to push and shove
I had intentionally arrived to be confrontational and aggressive
So I pulled up a chair
Despite my initial intentions, I chose to sit down and have a conversation with him
We talked of roads untraveled
We discussed the paths in life that we had not taken
We talked of love untrue
We discussed experiences with love that had not been genuine
Of strings that come unraveled
We talked about things in life that can fall apart and become difficult to fix
We were kings and kindred fools
Despite our hardships, we still saw ourselves as strong and worthy individuals
And just when I'd hit bottom
Right when I had reached my lowest point in the conversation
That old man raised his glass
The elderly gentleman picked up his glass of spirits
And said at least we've had our chances
He pointed out that we had opportunities in life that some people never had
There's those who never have
Some individuals never get a chance to succeed or improve their lives
So here's to all the soldiers
Let's appreciate and raise a toast to the soldiers who lost their lives fighting for their country
Who have ever died in vain
Many soldiers lost their lives without achieving their expected goals
The insane locked up in themselves
We must not forget those who are struggling with mental illness and are confined to their own minds
The homeless down on Main
Let's not ignore the homeless population living on the streets
To those who stand on empty shores
We must appreciate the courage of those who are facing great struggles with no support or hope
And spit against the wind
These individuals are fighting against the odds and resisting their difficult situations
And those who wait forever
We must also remember those who are waiting indefinitely for something that might never come
For ships that don't come in
They are waiting on a dream or goal that may never be realized
He said it's only life's illusions
The old man suggested that many of our struggles are just our own fabricated illusions or misconceptions
That bring us to this bar
These illusions bring us to this place of sorrow and pain
To pick up these old crutches
We cling to our old vices and unhealthy coping mechanisms in the face of our troubles
And compare each others scars
We seek out empathy and support by comparing our pain and suffering with others'
'Cause the things we're calling heartache
Many of the problems we describe as heartbreak or tragedy are actually insignificant in the grand scheme of things
Hell, they're hardly worth our time
Our problems are not even worth our attention or energy
We bitch about a dollar
We often complain about trivial things, like small amounts of money
When there's those without a dime
We forget that some people do not even have basic necessities like shelter and food
As he ordered one last round
Before leaving, he ordered one final drink
He said I guess we can't complain
The old man suggested that even though we have problems in life, we still have a lot to be thankful for
God made life a gamble
Life is unpredictable and full of risks, which are outside our control
And we're still in the game
But despite this, we are still alive and must keep going
And those who wait forever
We must not forget the people who are still waiting for something that will never come
For ships that don't come in
These individuals are waiting on something they will never receive or achieve
Lyrics © CONCORD MUSIC PUBLISHING LLC, Peermusic Publishing
Written by: Dave Gibson, Paul Nelson
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Abe Lincoln
RIP Joe Diffie. Your ship has docked. Now you can drop the anchor and watch the sunset from above. You left a legacy the world will remember.
Rusty Whitfield
Amen!
Wayne Kelley
Cool
ShadowAmongstTheMasses
🖤🙏😞❤️
John Humble
Amen 🙏🏼
Clint Sprague
@Anthony Horton same here
Leashes Off!
"We bitch about a dollar when there's those without a dime"--one of the best lines of any song of all time. RIP Joe
Paulette Reed
Thts a great song...I still can't believe he's gone 😪
JT Petty
For sure I also like "God made life a gamble, and we're still in the game"
Leashes Off!
@James Gentry me too James