Don't Make Your Children Pay
Joe Tex Lyrics


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Don't make your children
Don't make 'em pay for your mistakes
It ain't right, oh no listen to me, now
Don't make your children
Don't make 'em pay for your mistakes
Because they didn't ask to come here, oh no
Don't make your children
Please, don't make 'em pay
For your mistakes oh no, oh no

Seems like I can hear some mother
Sayin' to her husband right now
"Don't you know that we're down
To the last cup of flour in the barrel?"
And she said "Man, don't you know
We don't but three or four spoons
Of lard left in the can? And yet, and still
You wanna take the little money we got saved
And stay out all night and drink? You know
You haven't worked in goin' on six months
But I promised myself a long time ago
That I wouldn't leave my
Children on nobody else
I let you stay here and drink up all the rest
Of that little money that we got saved
But I'm gonna stand by my children
Stand by 'em 'til the very"
And I can see that poor
Father and some corner
With four little arms
Mumbling something to himself
And I don't know what he's sayin'
But I can imagine in my mind
I can imagine I hear him say
"I'm gonna get me a job
Early in the mornin'
I'm not gonna make my children
Pay for my mistakes"
Listen, "Because they didn't ask
To come here
And I'd be less than a father if
I made 'em pay for my mistakes"
(They didn't ask to come here) "You see
My children didn't ask to come here"
"And who knows
I might have to turn back on 'em
For a favor one day"
(They didn't ask to come here)
"You see, they they didn't
Ask to come here, oh no
And I'm not gonna make my children, ooh Lord
I'm not gonna make 'em pay, oh




Not gonna pay for my mistakes
It ain't right it ain't right"

Overall Meaning

"Don't Make Your Children Pay" by Joe Tex is a powerful song that explores the idea of parents burdening their children with the consequences of their own mistakes and poor choices. The lyrics convey a plea to parents to recognize the unfairness of this behavior and to take responsibility for their actions.


The song starts by emphasizing the message through repetition, urging parents not to make their children pay for their mistakes. The lyrics highlight the fact that children did not ask to be brought into this world and therefore should not be made to suffer for their parents' errors. It touches upon the theme of parental neglect and the damaging impact it can have on children's lives.


The second part of the song presents a conversation between a struggling mother and father. The mother confronts the father about their dire financial situation and his irresponsible behavior. She expresses her determination to prioritize their children's well-being, even if it means sacrificing her own needs. This serves as a contrast to the father's apparent indifference or inability to provide for his family.


Line by Line Meaning

Don't make your children
Refusing to burden your own children


Don't make 'em pay for your mistakes
Do not hold them accountable for your errors


It ain't right, oh no listen to me, now
Such actions are unjust and require attention


Because they didn't ask to come here, oh no
Because they did not choose to be born


Please, don't make 'em pay
I implore you, refrain from making them suffer


For your mistakes oh no, oh no
Due to the errors you have made, this must not happen


Seems like I can hear some mother
It appears as though I can hear a mother


Sayin' to her husband right now
Speaking to her spouse in this moment


"Don't you know that we're down
"Are you aware that we are in a state of


To the last cup of flour in the barrel?"
Having only one cup of flour left in the container?"


And she said "Man, don't you know
Addressing him, she exclaimed, "Sir, are you not aware


We don't but three or four spoons
That we possess only three or four spoons


Of lard left in the can?
Of lard remaining in the container?


And yet, and still
Despite this scarcity


You wanna take the little money we got saved
You desire to spend the small amount of money we have managed to save


And stay out all night and drink?
Engaging in late-night drinking escapades?


You know
You are aware


You haven't worked in goin' on six months
You have not been employed for nearly six months


But I promised myself a long time ago
However, I made a vow to myself a while back


That I wouldn't leave my
That I would not abandon my


Children on nobody else
Offspring to the care of anyone else


I let you stay here and drink up all the rest
I allowed you to remain here and consume all the remaining


Of that little money that we got saved
Available funds we had saved


But I'm gonna stand by my children
Nevertheless, I will support my children


Stand by 'em 'til the very"
Be there for them until the very end"


And I can see that poor
And I can envision that unfortunate


Father and some corner
Father in a secluded place


With four little arms
With four small embracing arms


Mumbling something to himself
Muttering to himself


And I don't know what he's sayin'
And I am uncertain of his exact words


But I can imagine in my mind
However, I can envision in my thoughts


I can imagine I hear him say
I can imagine hearing him express


"I'm gonna get me a job
"I will find employment


Early in the mornin'
As soon as morning arrives"


I'm not gonna make my children
I will not force my children


Pay for my mistakes"
To bear the consequences of my errors"


Listen, "Because they didn't ask
Listen, because they did not request


To come here
To exist in this world


And I'd be less than a father if
And I would be an inadequate father if


I made 'em pay for my mistakes"
I held them accountable for my mistakes"


(They didn't ask to come here) "You see
(They did not choose to be born) You understand


My children didn't ask to come here"
My children did not choose to be born"


"And who knows
"Besides, who knows


I might have to turn back on 'em
I may need their assistance in the future


For a favor one day"
For a favor at some point"


(They didn't ask to come here)
(They did not choose to be born)


"You see, they they didn't
"You see, they did not


Ask to come here, oh no
Choose to exist in this world, oh no


And I'm not gonna make my children, ooh Lord
And I refuse to make my children, oh Lord


I'm not gonna make 'em pay, oh
I will not make them suffer, oh


Not gonna pay for my mistakes
They will not bear the consequences of my errors


It ain't right it ain't right
Such actions are unjust, they are unjust




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@bennyjazzful

WOW WOW WOW !!!!!!!!!!!!11
GOD--What an incredible voice & performer.
From a mad keen 76yo Aussie fan.

@eubdeandavis871

AMEN ! AMEN ! I LOVE THIS SONG CAUSE JOE TEX IS SAYING A MOUTH FULL & THE TRUTH ♥♥♥ R.I.P. JOE TEX ♥♥♥ MY BROTHER GONE BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN HEAR ON EARTH ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ !!!!!!! 5/17/2017

@marshallthomas1533

True song all the way...that's why I love all of mines.

@jamelcrowell6942

I LOVE JOE TEX MUSIC

@gregorysavary7841

memories of great soul music

@sudan4012

Damn he teaching on this song

@dianegiles6694

Good lesson Joe, no jive just facts, thank God

@TyroneDavisBiggDav

All Joe Tex do is tell the truth !!!

@dorothybennett6504

god help some of us because of our parents.the word sad it all .

@InLoveWivBlue

i understand what you are saying

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