He gained success in the 1960s and 1970s with his brand of Southern soul, which mixed the styles of country, gospel and rhythm and blues.
Born in Rogers, Texas, in 1935 and raised in Baytown, TX, Tex's career started after he was signed to King Records in 1955 following four wins at the Apollo Theater. Between that year and 1964, however, Tex struggled to find hits and by the time he finally recorded his first hit, "Hold What You've Got", in 1964, he had recorded thirty prior singles that were deemed failures on the charts. Tex went on to have three million-selling hits, "Hold What You've Got" (1965), "Skinny Legs and All" (1967) and "I Gotcha" (1972).
Joe Tex with the raspy voice & charm of a southern preacher and the linguistic skills of a true street hustler made a string of funky chart topping hits and occasional raps with moral themes. His peak as a hitmaker occured in the mid & late 60's, but extended into the 70's disco era.
His breakthrough 1965 song "Hold What You've Got" topped both the Pop and R&B charts. In 1966 he released "I Believe I'm Gonna Make It", which was the first major pop record associated with the Vietnam War. His style was usually more light hearted fare, like "S.Y.S.L.J.F.M. (The Letter Song)" and his biggest hit "Skinny Legs And All".
His last major record was 1972's funky jam "I Gotcha", a #1 song. It was after this release that he converted to Islam. After the death of Elijah Mohamed in 1975, Joe Tex received the blessing and approval of the Nation of Islam to begin recording and performing again. His career resurgence came as the disco years were in full swing. His late career comeback song was "Ain't Gonna Bump No More (With No Big Fat Woman)".
Don't Make Your Children Pay
Joe Tex Lyrics
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Don't make 'em pay for your mistakes
It ain't right, oh no listen to me, now
Don't make your children
Don't make 'em pay for your mistakes
Because they didn't ask to come here, oh no
Don't make your children
Please, don't make 'em pay
Seems like I can hear some mother
Sayin' to her husband right now
"Don't you know that we're down
To the last cup of flour in the barrel?"
And she said "Man, don't you know
We don't but three or four spoons
Of lard left in the can? And yet, and still
You wanna take the little money we got saved
And stay out all night and drink? You know
You haven't worked in goin' on six months
But I promised myself a long time ago
That I wouldn't leave my
Children on nobody else
I let you stay here and drink up all the rest
Of that little money that we got saved
But I'm gonna stand by my children
Stand by 'em 'til the very"
And I can see that poor
Father and some corner
With four little arms
Mumbling something to himself
And I don't know what he's sayin'
But I can imagine in my mind
I can imagine I hear him say
"I'm gonna get me a job
Early in the mornin'
I'm not gonna make my children
Pay for my mistakes"
Listen, "Because they didn't ask
To come here
And I'd be less than a father if
I made 'em pay for my mistakes"
(They didn't ask to come here) "You see
My children didn't ask to come here"
"And who knows
I might have to turn back on 'em
For a favor one day"
(They didn't ask to come here)
"You see, they they didn't
Ask to come here, oh no
And I'm not gonna make my children, ooh Lord
I'm not gonna make 'em pay, oh
Not gonna pay for my mistakes
It ain't right it ain't right"
"Don't Make Your Children Pay" by Joe Tex is a powerful song that explores the idea of parents burdening their children with the consequences of their own mistakes and poor choices. The lyrics convey a plea to parents to recognize the unfairness of this behavior and to take responsibility for their actions.
The song starts by emphasizing the message through repetition, urging parents not to make their children pay for their mistakes. The lyrics highlight the fact that children did not ask to be brought into this world and therefore should not be made to suffer for their parents' errors. It touches upon the theme of parental neglect and the damaging impact it can have on children's lives.
The second part of the song presents a conversation between a struggling mother and father. The mother confronts the father about their dire financial situation and his irresponsible behavior. She expresses her determination to prioritize their children's well-being, even if it means sacrificing her own needs. This serves as a contrast to the father's apparent indifference or inability to provide for his family.
Line by Line Meaning
Don't make your children
Refusing to burden your own children
Don't make 'em pay for your mistakes
Do not hold them accountable for your errors
It ain't right, oh no listen to me, now
Such actions are unjust and require attention
Because they didn't ask to come here, oh no
Because they did not choose to be born
Please, don't make 'em pay
I implore you, refrain from making them suffer
For your mistakes oh no, oh no
Due to the errors you have made, this must not happen
Seems like I can hear some mother
It appears as though I can hear a mother
Sayin' to her husband right now
Speaking to her spouse in this moment
"Don't you know that we're down
"Are you aware that we are in a state of
To the last cup of flour in the barrel?"
Having only one cup of flour left in the container?"
And she said "Man, don't you know
Addressing him, she exclaimed, "Sir, are you not aware
We don't but three or four spoons
That we possess only three or four spoons
Of lard left in the can?
Of lard remaining in the container?
And yet, and still
Despite this scarcity
You wanna take the little money we got saved
You desire to spend the small amount of money we have managed to save
And stay out all night and drink?
Engaging in late-night drinking escapades?
You know
You are aware
You haven't worked in goin' on six months
You have not been employed for nearly six months
But I promised myself a long time ago
However, I made a vow to myself a while back
That I wouldn't leave my
That I would not abandon my
Children on nobody else
Offspring to the care of anyone else
I let you stay here and drink up all the rest
I allowed you to remain here and consume all the remaining
Of that little money that we got saved
Available funds we had saved
But I'm gonna stand by my children
Nevertheless, I will support my children
Stand by 'em 'til the very"
Be there for them until the very end"
And I can see that poor
And I can envision that unfortunate
Father and some corner
Father in a secluded place
With four little arms
With four small embracing arms
Mumbling something to himself
Muttering to himself
And I don't know what he's sayin'
And I am uncertain of his exact words
But I can imagine in my mind
However, I can envision in my thoughts
I can imagine I hear him say
I can imagine hearing him express
"I'm gonna get me a job
"I will find employment
Early in the mornin'
As soon as morning arrives"
I'm not gonna make my children
I will not force my children
Pay for my mistakes"
To bear the consequences of my errors"
Listen, "Because they didn't ask
Listen, because they did not request
To come here
To exist in this world
And I'd be less than a father if
And I would be an inadequate father if
I made 'em pay for my mistakes"
I held them accountable for my mistakes"
(They didn't ask to come here) "You see
(They did not choose to be born) You understand
My children didn't ask to come here"
My children did not choose to be born"
"And who knows
"Besides, who knows
I might have to turn back on 'em
I may need their assistance in the future
For a favor one day"
For a favor at some point"
(They didn't ask to come here)
(They did not choose to be born)
"You see, they they didn't
"You see, they did not
Ask to come here, oh no
Choose to exist in this world, oh no
And I'm not gonna make my children, ooh Lord
And I refuse to make my children, oh Lord
I'm not gonna make 'em pay, oh
I will not make them suffer, oh
Not gonna pay for my mistakes
They will not bear the consequences of my errors
It ain't right it ain't right
Such actions are unjust, they are unjust
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@bennyjazzful
WOW WOW WOW !!!!!!!!!!!!11
GOD--What an incredible voice & performer.
From a mad keen 76yo Aussie fan.
@eubdeandavis871
AMEN ! AMEN ! I LOVE THIS SONG CAUSE JOE TEX IS SAYING A MOUTH FULL & THE TRUTH ♥♥♥ R.I.P. JOE TEX ♥♥♥ MY BROTHER GONE BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN HEAR ON EARTH ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ !!!!!!! 5/17/2017
@marshallthomas1533
True song all the way...that's why I love all of mines.
@jamelcrowell6942
I LOVE JOE TEX MUSIC
@gregorysavary7841
memories of great soul music
@sudan4012
Damn he teaching on this song
@dianegiles6694
Good lesson Joe, no jive just facts, thank God
@TyroneDavisBiggDav
All Joe Tex do is tell the truth !!!
@dorothybennett6504
god help some of us because of our parents.the word sad it all .
@InLoveWivBlue
i understand what you are saying