Big Girls Don't Cry
Jordan McCoy Lyrics


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The smell of your skin lingers on me now
You're probably on your flight back to your hometown
I need some shelter of my own protection baby
to be with myself in center, clarity
Peace, Serenity

I hope you know, I hope you know
That this has nothing to do with you
It's personal, myself and I
We got some straightening out to do
And I'm gonna miss you like a child misses their
blanket
But I've gotta move on with my life
It's time to be a big girl now
And big girls don't cry
Don't cry,
Don't cry,
Don't cry

The path that I'm walking, I must go alone
I must take the baby steps till I'm full grown,full
grown
Fairy tales don't always have a happy ending do they
And I for seek the dark ahead if I stay

I hope you know, I hope you know
That this has nothing to do with you
It's personal, myself and I
We got some straightening out to do
And I'm gonna miss you like a child misses their
blanket
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But I've gotta move on with my life
It's time to be a big girl now
And big girls don't cry

Like a little school mate in the school yard
We'll play jacks and unicorns
I'll be your best friend and you'll be mine
Valentine
Yes you can hold my hand if you want to
'cause I wanna hold yours too
We'll be playmates and best friends and share our secret
words
But it's time for me to go home
It's getting late, dark outside
I need to be with myself in center, clarity
Peace, Serenity

I hope you know, I hope you know
That this has nothing to do with you
It's personal, myself and I
We got some straightening out to do
And I'm gonna miss you like a child misses their
blanket
But I've gotta get a move on with my life
It's time to be a big girl now
And big girls don't cry
Don't cry,
Don't cry,
Don't cry





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Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Jordan McCoy's song "Big Girls Don't Cry" depict a woman who is reflecting on the end of a relationship and the need to move on. The first verse speaks of the lingering scent of the partner's skin and their departure, with the singer recognizing that she needs some "shelter" and time to focus on herself, seeking "clarity" and "serenity." She emphasizes that although she will miss her partner like a child misses their blanket, it is time for her to "be a big girl" and move forward.


The second verse further emphasizes the necessity for the singer to take the difficult path of going it alone and growing up, as fairy tales do not always have happy endings. She then speaks of a fantasy in which she and her partner remain close, playing like schoolmates and sharing secrets. However, even in this playful vision, she recognizes that it is time to go home and focus on herself, with the phrase "It's getting late, dark outside," suggesting a sense of urgency.


Throughout the lyrics, the singer asserts that the breakup has nothing to do with her partner, but rather is something she needs to work through for her own personal growth. The phrase "big girls don't cry" serves as a kind of mantra throughout the song, although it is contradicted by the singer's declaration that she will indeed miss her partner.


Overall, "Big Girls Don't Cry" is a song that speaks to the need to prioritize oneself and focus on personal growth, even in the midst of heartbreak.


Line by Line Meaning

The smell of your skin lingers on me now
I can still feel your presence with me, but it's time to move on.


You're probably on your flight back to your hometown
You're leaving and I'm left here to figure things out on my own.


I need some shelter of my own protection baby
I need some space to clear my head and protect my heart.


To be with myself in center, clarity, peace, serenity
I need to find inner peace and clarity by focusing on myself.


I hope you know, I hope you know, that this has nothing to do with you
This is not about blaming you, it's something I have to work through on my own.


It's personal, myself and I, we got some straightening out to do
I need to sort out my own personal issues, it's not about us as a couple.


And I'm gonna miss you like a child misses their blanket
I'll miss you, but I need to move on with my life.


But I've gotta move on with my life, it's time to be a big girl now, and big girls don't cry
It's time for me to grow up and be strong, and not let my emotions hold me back.


The path that I'm walking, I must go alone
I need to take this journey on my own, even if it's scary.


I must take baby steps till I'm full grown, full grown
I have to take small steps to grow and become stronger.


And I foresaw the dark ahead, if I stay
I know that staying in this situation will only lead to more pain.


Like a little school mate in the school yard
We used to be so close, like childhood friends.


We'll play jacks and unicorns, I'll be your best friend and you'll be mine Valentine
We had good times together, but it's time for me to move on and find new friends and love.


Yes you can hold my hand if you want to, 'cause I wanna hold yours too
We can still be friends, but I need to move on from our relationship.


We'll be playmates and best friends and share our secret words
We had a strong connection, but it's time for me to focus on myself.


But it's time for me to go home, it's getting late, dark outside
It's time for me to move on and leave this behind.


I need to be with myself in center, clarity, peace, serenity
I need to find inner peace and clarity by focusing on myself.


But I've gotta get a move on with my life, it's time to be a big girl now, and big girls don't cry
It's time for me to grow up and be strong, and not let my emotions hold me back.




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Comments from YouTube:

@Zahine

Foi sacanagem o que a Fergie fez com a garota. Não tem como defender.

@victorvittoria

Diego Pereira vey que merda. "Pisa","autora","essa merda". Vc conseguiu ler oq escreveu? Sei q quis lacrar. Mas falava sobre pessoas. Se vc for assim na vida real. Q vida hein!

@SaraF000007

Brenda Olivey acabou com a carreira da menina 😭

@cleilton147

Karma is a bish. Cade Fergie atualmente? Cadê a voz dela também?

@Zenexfriend

cleilton araujo honorio pelo menos a Fergie hitou em uma fase mana, diferente da Jordan que aqui jaz

@geovannalps

@Diego Pereira como se a voz da Fergie fosse maravilhosa! Já viu a apresentação dela no super bowl e rock in Rio 2017?

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@geovannalps

Essa versão é puro teen pop 2000, estou apaixonada

@veridianacelta8805

Só brasileiro nos comentários depois do vídeo do Anderson.

@trendorina

Sim. Gostei dessa versão da música...

@vlogdojotta

Ficou muito melhor na voz dela 😍
Sacanagem da Fergie hein e Obrigado Anderson por me apresentar essa versão maravilhosa!

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