The Border Widow's Lament
June Tabor Lyrics


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My love, he built me a bonny bower
And clad it o'er with lily flower
A bonnier bower you ne'er did see
Than my true love he built for me

There came a man by middle day
He spied his sport and went away
And brought the King that very night,
Who broke my bower and slew my knight

He slew my knight to me so dear
He slew my knight and seized his gear
My servants all for life did flee
And left me in extremity

I sewed his shroud, making my moan
I watched his corpse, myself alone
I watched his body night and day
No living creature came that way

I took his body on my back
And whiles I walked and whiles I sat
I digged a grave and laid him in,
And happed him with the turf so green

Oh, don't you think my heart was sore,
As I laid the earth on his yellow hair
Oh, don't you think my heart was woe,
As I turned about, away to go

No living man I'll love again
Since that my lovely knight is slain




With just one lock of his yellow hair
I'll chain my heart forevermore

Overall Meaning

In The Border Widow's Lament, June Tabor sings from the perspective of a woman whose husband was killed by the King. The woman's husband had built her a beautiful bower covered in lilies, but it was destroyed by the King, who also killed her husband and seized his belongings. The woman was left alone and mourning her husband's death. She made his shroud and watched over his corpse, which she eventually buried herself, laying him to rest with a green turf. The woman is heartbroken and swears to never love again, stating that she will always hold onto a lock of her husband's yellow hair as a reminder of their love.


The song is a tragic tale of love, loss, and grief - themes that are commonly found in traditional folk music. Through the woman’s words, we learn about the injustice and pain that can be caused by those in positions of power. The lyrics also reveal the strength and resilience of the human spirit as the woman faces her tragedy with determination.


Line by Line Meaning

My love, he built me a bonny bower
My lover built me a beautiful shelter


And clad it o'er with lily flower
And decorated it with lilies


A bonnier bower you ne'er did see
You would not find a more beautiful shelter


Than my true love he built for me
Than the one built for me by my true love


There came a man by middle day
One day in the middle of the day, a man arrived


He spied his sport and went away
After watching his entertainment, he left


And brought the King that very night,
That very night, he informed the King


Who broke my bower and slew my knight
Who destroyed my shelter and killed my lover


He slew my knight to me so dear
He killed my beloved knight


He slew my knight and seized his gear
He killed my knight and took his possessions


My servants all for life did flee
My servants fled for their lives


And left me in extremity
Leaving me in great difficulty


I sewed his shroud, making my moan
I cried and mourned as I sewed his burial garment


I watched his corpse, myself alone
Alone, I watched over his lifeless body


I watched his body night and day
I kept vigil over his body both day and night


No living creature came that way
No living creature passed by


I took his body on my back
I carried his body on my back


And whiles I walked and whiles I sat
Sometimes walking, sometimes sitting


I digged a grave and laid him in,
I dug a grave and laid him in it


And happed him with the turf so green
Covered him with green sods


Oh, don't you think my heart was sore,
My heart was very sad


As I laid the earth on his yellow hair
When I covered his blonde hair with earth


Oh, don't you think my heart was woe,
My heart was filled with grief


As I turned about, away to go
As I turned away to leave


No living man I'll love again
I will never love another living man


Since that my lovely knight is slain
Since my beloved knight was killed


With just one lock of his yellow hair
With a single lock of his blonde hair


I'll chain my heart forevermore
I will keep my heart forever bound to him




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