Don't Ask Don't Tell
K-Ci & JoJo Lyrics


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How is it that I love yo
But wanna only for one day
Be that as it may
Believe me when I say
I love to love you baby
Respecting how I feel
To be human nature
Cause I know you ?

That's why I play it cool
That's why, never asked about you
She never ever, she never, she never ever
She never asked about you

And they say don't ask don't tell
She ain't going nowhere
And I ain't going nowhere
Even though we're going nowhere fast
And they say don't ask don't tell
She ain't going nowhere
And I ain't going nowhere
And thought she don't ask I don't tell

Now I'm a adjust to how I plan to be
Baby girl you gotta believe
But it don't matter now cause
How it worked out, we were doing the same
And I never lied o you
I never felt the need
And went here to give
Cause you never tripped
This is how it had to be

That's why I never called your phone
That's why you never called my home
I let you do you
You let me do me we both know

And they say don't ask don't tell
She ain't going nowhere
And I ain't going nowhere
Even though we're going nowhere fast
And they say don't ask don't tell
She ain't going nowhere
And I ain't going nowhere
And thought she don't ask I don't tell

One day baby won't be a thing
You made me put a ring on her finger
Girl you can see it wouldn't be grand
Btu until that day
You know what they say

And they say don't ask don't tell
She ain't going nowhere
And I ain't going nowhere
Even though we're going nowhere fast
And they say don't ask don't tell
She ain't going nowhere
And I ain't going nowhere
And thought she don't ask I don't tell

And they say don't ask don't tell
She ain't going nowhere
And I ain't going nowhere
Even though we're going nowhere fast
And they say don't ask don't tell
She ain't going nowhere




And I ain't going nowhere
And thought she don't ask I don't tell

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of K-Ci & JoJo's song "Don't Ask Don't Tell" explore the complexities of a relationship that lacks communication and transparency. The singer expresses their love for their partner but acknowledges that they only wish to stay with them for a short period of time. Despite this, they still claim to love them deeply. The line "Be that as it may, believe me when I say I love to love you baby" highlights the conflicting emotions the singer experiences.


The lyrics also touch upon the concept of human nature and the need for respect in a relationship. The singer acknowledges that it is in their nature to feel love but does not explicitly state why. The line "Cause I know you" suggests that maybe the other person's characteristics or behavior make the singer feel this way.


The refrain, "That's why I play it cool, that's why, never asked about you," reveals that the singer adopts a nonchalant attitude and avoids asking their partner personal questions. There seems to be a mutual understanding between them that they do not need to inquire about each other's lives. This lack of curiosity could be seen as a means to protect themselves from becoming too emotionally involved.


The chorus reinforces the idea that neither person is going anywhere, despite the relationship going nowhere fast. The phrase "don't ask don't tell" implies an agreement to not discuss certain aspects of their relationship or their individual lives. Both parties seem content with this situation, even though they acknowledge that it may not be the ideal or sustainable dynamic.


In the final verse, there is a mention of a future event where the singer will commit to someone else by putting a ring on their finger. This further emphasizes the temporary nature of their current relationship. The repetition of the chorus at the end reinforces the idea that both parties have accepted the "don't ask don't tell" arrangement and are willing to continue in this manner.


Overall, the lyrics of "Don't Ask Don't Tell" depict a relationship characterized by a lack of communication, yet both individuals involved appear to be content with this arrangement for the time being. It reflects the complexities and nuances that can exist within relationships and explores themes of love, human nature, and acceptance of a less-than-ideal situation.


Line by Line Meaning

How is it that I love you
I am confused about how I can love you


But wanna only for one day
I only want to be with you for a short period


Be that as it may
Regardless of that fact


Believe me when I say
Trust me when I tell you


I love to love you baby
I enjoy expressing my love for you


Respecting how I feel
Acknowledging my emotions


To be human nature
It is a common trait among humans


Cause I know you ?
Because I understand you


That's why I play it cool
I act nonchalant


That's why, never asked about you
That is why I never inquired about you


She never ever, she never, she never ever
She never questioned, she never, she never questioned


She never asked about you
She never inquired about you


And they say don't ask don't tell
People advise not to ask or reveal


She ain't going nowhere
She is not leaving


And I ain't going nowhere
And I am not going anywhere


Even though we're going nowhere fast
Although we are not progressing


And thought she don't ask I don't tell
Even if she doesn't ask, I won't disclose


Now I'm a adjust to how I plan to be
Now I will adapt to my intended behavior


Baby girl you gotta believe
My dear, you need to trust


But it don't matter now cause
But it doesn't matter now because


How it worked out, we were doing the same
Regardless of the outcome, we acted similarly


And I never lied to you
I never told you any lies


I never felt the need
I never had the urge


And went here to give
And came here to offer


Cause you never tripped
Because you were never bothered


This is how it had to be
This is the way it had to happen


That's why I never called your phone
That is why I never contacted you


That's why you never called my home
That is why you never reached out to me


I let you do you
I allowed you to be yourself


You let me do me we both know
You allowed me to be myself, we both understand


One day baby won't be a thing
One day, being together won't matter


You made me put a ring on her finger
You influenced me to propose to someone else


Girl you can see it wouldn't be grand
Girl, you can see it wouldn't be amazing


Btu until that day
But until that day


You know what they say
You know what people say


And they say don't ask don't tell
People advise not to ask or reveal


She ain't going nowhere
She is not leaving


And I ain't going nowhere
And I am not going anywhere


Even though we're going nowhere fast
Although we are not progressing


And thought she don't ask I don't tell
Even if she doesn't ask, I won't disclose


And they say don't ask don't tell
People advise not to ask or reveal


She ain't going nowhere
She is not leaving


And I ain't going nowhere
And I am not going anywhere


Even though we're going nowhere fast
Although we are not progressing


And thought she don't ask I don't tell
Even if she doesn't ask, I won't disclose




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: JEROME PERKINS, MICHAEL BELL, WILLIE JAMES STEPHENS III

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Comments from YouTube:

@lillianlloyd6457

this is one of my favs on this project love this and everything they have done #diehardfan

@tyronemuhammad813

They Sound Better Together Than Apart To Me. True Real Music

@giorgighudushauri5056

გ 9?⁰მლ

@jrio1238

Im really loving this CD by these brothers

@biglukeybaby

these boys still the truth

@adg_87

Best song on the album....

@terrellkelley9456

I am glade this young man are back there is no other R&B true artist put down the real Music . all those new cat dont know how to sing like kci &jojo. I would love to see jojo do an album by he self like kci did i would realy love to see that he have a smooth voice?

@evaluv43

jojo  do  have  a  smooth  voice I would like to hear them come out with some more songs I am a fan I would like to be on a track with them good group!

@tyronemuhammad813

The Truest R&B Group Til This Very Day in 2019 They Still The Bomb. Keep It Coming With That Real Shit KCi And JoJo. Cause This Bull Shit Artist And Song's Ain't Nothing But Straight Trash For The Garbage Man To Pick Up In The Trash Can. Holla

@curtisjohnson1103

Now this sounds like kci and jojo smh waited for this sound

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