Love's Not A Competition But Im Winning
Kaiser Chiefs Lyrics


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I won't be the one to disappoint you anymore,
I know, I've said all this and that you've heard
It all before,
The trick is getting you to think that all this was your idea.
And that this was everything you've ever wanted out of here,
Love's not a competition but I'm winning.
I'm not sure what's truly altruistic anymore,
When every good thing that I do is listed and you're keeping score,

Love's not a competition but I'm winning
Love's not a competition but I'm winning
At least I thought I was but there's no way of knowing,
At least I thought I was but there's no way of knowing,
You know what it's like when you're new to the game but I'm not,




I won't be the one to disappoint you,
I won't be the one to disappoint you anymore

Overall Meaning

In the first verse of Kaiser Chiefs’s song Love Is Not A Competition But I'm Winning, the lead singer is acknowledging that he has let his partner down in the past, but he’s trying to make amends now. He knows that he has said these things before, but he’s genuine in his efforts to not disappoint her anymore. He reveals his manipulative mindset, saying that he’s trying to make her believe that everything he’s doing is for her benefit and that everything she’s ever wanted is right here. In the chorus of the song, the singer repeats the title line, “Love’s not a competition, but I'm winning,” referring to his feelings of being ahead in the relationship as he tries to please her. He goes on to admit that he doesn’t know what true altruism is anymore, as he feels like he’s constantly being monitored and rated for his actions.


The second verse of the song highlights the confusing game-like nature of relationships, where everything you do is weighed and measured against past actions. The singer is unsure if his actions are truly selfless or if he’s doing them to score points, saying that he’s lost track of what’s genuine and what’s not. He repeats the chorus, adding the line “At least I thought I was, but there’s no way of knowing,” illustrating his uncertainty about whether he’s really winning or not, despite his efforts. The song ends with the singer promising not to let his partner down again, indicating that he’s trying to make this relationship work despite the challenges.


Line by Line Meaning

I won't be the one to disappoint you anymore,
I've let you down before, but I'm promising to be better from now on


I know, I've said all this and that you've heard It all before,
I'm aware that I've made promises before and broken them


The trick is getting you to think that all this was your idea.
I want you to believe that the changes I'm making are because of your influence and not my own shortcomings


And that this was everything you've ever wanted out of here,
I want you to feel satisfied with our relationship and that everything is going the way you want it to


Love's not a competition but I'm winning.
Love shouldn't be a contest, but I feel like I'm doing better than I have in the past


I'm not sure what's truly altruistic anymore,
I'm starting to question my own motives and whether I'm being truly selfless


When every good thing that I do is listed and you're keeping score,
I feel like you're keeping track of every good deed I do and it's starting to feel like a competition


At least I thought I was but there's no way of knowing,
I thought I was doing well in our relationship, but I'm not sure if that's actually the case


You know what it's like when you're new to the game but I'm not,
I know how it feels to be inexperienced in a relationship, but I'm not new to this anymore


I won't be the one to disappoint you,
I'm trying my best to not let you down again


I won't be the one to disappoint you anymore
I'm committed to making our relationship work and not causing any more disappointment




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: ANDREW ROBERT WHITE, CHARLES RICHARD WILSON, JAMES RIX, NICHOLAS BAINES, NICHOLAS HODGSON

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Lyrics
I won't be the one to disappoint you anymore
And I know I've said all this and that you've heard it all before
The trick is getting you to think that all this was your idea
And that this was everything you've ever wanted out of here
Love's not a competition but I'm winning
I'm not sure what's truly altruistic anymore
When every good thing that I do is listed and you're keeping score
Love's not a competition but I'm winning
Love's not a competition but I'm winning
At least I thought I was
But there's no way of knowing
At least I thought I was
But there's no way of knowing
You know what it's like when you're new to the game but I'm not
I won't be the one to disappoint you
I won't be the one to disappoint you anymore
I won't be the one to disappoint you
I won't be the one to disappoint you anymore
I won't be the one to disappoint you
I won't be the one to disappoint you anymore



All comments from YouTube:

@hakuna1164

one of the most underrated songs/music videos ever in my opinion

@bartstaal6698

Ik kan het er niet nog meer mee eens zijn. Super liedje.

@Epinerf

overrated you mean ?

@florenciaponce566

Infravalorado

@TarnishUK

Thanks to Chris Moyles for highlighting this and the single camera and take on his show yesterday.

@kastigere

He played it again today, that's what brought me here!

@andydavies906

I heard Chris too

@jijst5

The memories!!! Magical atmosphere in this song :)

@n-d

Época de ouro ❤

@xumeni730

I really love his voice.

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