If I Can't Have You
Kelly Clarkson Lyrics


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Hearts break too fast when they're sentimental
Won't stay won't last when it's love at first sight
So why are my convictions blinded by your spotlight

Can't breathe can't sleep with some medication
I'll kiss goodbye to my reservations
I know there's other fish out in the sea
Not for me
I want you

If I can't have you then I don't want anyone (I don't want anyone)
If I can't have you then all the damage has been done baby
You can break these rules if you wanna have some fun (if you wanna have some fun)
Think of all the love that you will lose if I can't have you

Heartbeat cold sweat thoughts slipping under
Can't fight no threat 'cause there's just no use
One look, no hesitation
I'm slipping into you

Forgive these eyes these lips you're tasting
No time to waste on an invitation
My shame my self control has suffered enough
Everybody wants to be loved

If I can't have you then I don't want anyone (I don't want anyone)
If I can't have you then all the damage has been done baby
You can break these rules if you wanna have some fun (if you wanna have some fun)
Think of all the love that you will lose if I can't have you

I haven't seen the best that love has had to offer
They say perfection's always right around the corner
Could be true
But if I can't have you

If I can't have you then I don't want anyone (I don't want anyone)
If I can't have you then all the damage has been done baby




You can break these rules if you wanna have some fun (if you wanna have some fun)
Think of all the love that you will lose if I can't have you

Overall Meaning

In "If I Can't Have You," Kelly Clarkson sings about unrequited love and the intense emotions that come with it. The first verse talks about how hearts tend to break easily when they are too sentimental, and how love at first sight seldom works. However, despite this knowledge, the singer's convictions are blinded by the object of her affection's spotlight. She's addicted to the attention and validation they give her, even though she knows it's not healthy.


In the pre-chorus, Kelly admits that she's struggling to function normally. She can't breathe, she can't sleep and has to rely on medication to help her cope. But she's still willing to abandon her reservations and throw caution to the wind. She acknowledges that there are plenty of other people out there, but she knows that none of them will do. She wants the person she's fixated on, and nobody else.


The chorus is the climax of the song, where it becomes clear just how deeply Kelly feels about this person. She proclaims that if she can't have him, she won't settle for anybody else. She warns him that breaking her heart will have severe consequences for both of them. She finishes by pointing out that if he chooses not to be with her, he will be missing out on all the love that she has to offer.


Line by Line Meaning

Hearts break too fast when they're sentimental
Emotions can cloud our judgment and lead to heartbreak


Won't stay won't last when it's love at first sight
Relationships that start off fast and intense often fizzle out quickly


So why are my convictions blinded by your spotlight
Even though I know better, I can't resist the pull of your attention


Can't breathe can't sleep with some medication
My feelings for you are causing physical distress


I'll kiss goodbye to my reservations
I'm willing to throw caution to the wind for a chance with you


I know there's other fish out in the sea
I acknowledge that there are other potential partners out there


Not for me
But none of them compare to you for me


I want you
My desire for you overrides all other considerations


If I can't have you then I don't want anyone (I don't want anyone)
You are the only one I want, and if I can't be with you, I choose to be alone


If I can't have you then all the damage has been done baby
My heart is already so invested in you that not being able to have you would be devastating


You can break these rules if you wanna have some fun (if you wanna have some fun)
I'm willing to take risks and defy convention to be with you


Think of all the love that you will lose if I can't have you
If we don't give this a chance, we will both miss out on the potential for a great love


Heartbeat cold sweat thoughts slipping under
My obsession with you is affecting me physically and mentally


Can't fight no threat 'cause there's just no use
I'm helpless to resist the pull of my feelings for you


One look, no hesitation
I'm instantly drawn to you without any doubt or reservation


I'm slipping into you
I'm falling deeper and deeper in love with you


Forgive these eyes these lips you're tasting
I know I may be coming on strong, but I can't help the way I feel


No time to waste on an invitation
I don't want to waste any time in pursuing a relationship with you


My shame my self control has suffered enough
My feelings for you have made me abandon my usual restraint and self-control


Everybody wants to be loved
At the heart of it all, my desire for you is just a desire to be loved and to love in return


I haven't seen the best that love has had to offer
Despite my intense feelings for you, I know there may be even greater loves out there


They say perfection's always right around the corner
People say that the perfect partner is always just out of reach


Could be true
It's possible, but I don't want to find out if it means losing you




Lyrics © CONCORD MUSIC PUBLISHING LLC, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Downtown Music Publishing, Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: KELLY BRIANNE CLARKSON, RYAN B TEDDER

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on Since U Been Gone

This song resonates with me the most right now since as recent as last Sunday, I was set free from a relationship with a man like this.

Here's the thing, we started out friends
It was cool but IT WAS ALL PRETEND [on HIS part]

HOW COME I'D NEVER HEAR YOU SAY
"I just wanna be with you"?
Guess YOU never felt that way [(But HE expected me to feel that way)]

Such an amazing song!

Ricky


on Broken & Beautiful (from the movie UGLYDOLLS)

What do they mean with the words:
We're walking on the ocean, turning water into wine
*reference to?*

Ricky


on Broken & Beautiful (from the movie UGLYDOLLS)

We're walking on the ocean, turning water into wineWe bury our emotion and

We're walking on the ocean, turning water into wine. *what is the meaning of this line?

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