I Can't Make You Love Me
Kenny Rogers Lyrics


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Turn down the lights,
Turn down the bed
Turn down these voices inside my head
Lay down with me,
Tell me no lies
Just hold me close, don't patronize
Don't patronize me
'Cause I can't make you love me if you don't
You can't make your heart feel something it won't
Here in the dark, in these final hours
I will lay down my heart and I'll feel the power
But you won't, no you won't
'Cause I can't make you love me,
If you don't

I'll close my eyes,
Then I won't see
The love you don't feel when you're holding me
Morning will come and I'll do what's right
Just give me till then to give up this fight
And I will give up this fight

'Cause I can't make you love me if you don't
You can't make your heart feel something it won't
Here in the dark, in these final hours
I will lay down my heart and I'll feel the power
But you won't, no you won't




'Cause I can't make you love me,
If you don't

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "I Can't Make You Love Me" by Kenny Rogers express the pain and frustration of unrequited love. The singer is pleading with their partner to be honest and not patronize them by pretending to feel something they don't. They know that love cannot be forced, and they can't make their partner love them if they don't feel it. Despite this, the singer is willing to lay down their heart in these final moments of desperation, hoping that their partner will feel the power of their love. However, they also acknowledge that the morning will come, and they will have to do what's right by giving up the fight.


The song explores the universal theme of unrequited love and the heartbreak that comes with it. The singer is vulnerable, honest, and raw, and their pain is palpable in the lyrics. The repetition of "I can't make you love me" emphasizes the helplessness of the situation and the heartbreaking realization that some things are beyond our control. The chords and melody of the song add to the melancholic mood, creating a sense of longing and sadness.


Overall, "I Can't Make You Love Me" is a powerful and emotional song that captures the pain of unrequited love. The lyrics, melody, and vocals combine to create a haunting and beautiful masterpiece that has resonated with audiences for decades.


Line by Line Meaning

Turn down the lights,
Dim the lights,


Turn down the bed
Prepare the bed for sleeping,


Turn down these voices inside my head
Silence my thoughts and worries,


Lay down with me,
Lie down next to me,


Tell me no lies
Be honest with me,


Just hold me close, don't patronize
Embrace me genuinely, not insincerely,


Don't patronize me
Don't treat me with superficial kindness,


'Cause I can't make you love me if you don't
I cannot force you to love me,


You can't make your heart feel something it won't
You cannot force yourself to love someone,


Here in the dark, in these final hours
In the darkness, towards the end of our relationship,


I will lay down my heart and I'll feel the power
I will be vulnerable and exposed, feeling emotional strength,


But you won't, no you won't
You won't love me in return,


'Cause I can't make you love me,
I cannot control your feelings,


If you don't
If you simply do not love me,


I'll close my eyes,
I'll shut my eyes,


Then I won't see
So I can avoid seeing,


The love you don't feel when you're holding me
The emptiness and lack of affection you show when you hold me,


Morning will come and I'll do what's right
When the morning arrives, I will make the correct decision,


Just give me till then to give up this fight
Just allow me some time to stop fighting for a love that will not be reciprocated,


And I will give up this fight
I will stop struggling in vain,




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Unison Rights S.L., AMPLIFIED ADMINISTRATION, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Allen Shamblin, Michael Reid

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