It's Not What you're Doing
Martika Lyrics


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Why do you touch me, then turn away
Is there something you're afraid to feel
Boy, if you want me, it's getting late
Come and show me if your love is real

Cause I heard it from a friend
Who heard it from another friend
About the good things you do for me
I don't believe it 'cause I've never seen it
Now's the right time, prove it to me

I don't know what you've been told
But love has gotta come from the heart
You better shape up

It's not what you're doing
It's what you're not doing, baby
It's not what you're doing
It's what you're not doing, baby

You've got emotions like everyone else
But you've gotta learn to let 'em show
I can't be in love all by myself
It takes two to make love grow

Make your move, I'm waiting for you
Actions speak louder than words

It's not what you're doing
It's what you're not doing, baby
It's not what you're doing
It's what you're not doing, baby

Come on baby, show me your love is real

It's not what you're doing
It's what you're not doing, baby
It's not what you're doing
It's what you're not doing, baby
Come on

Candlelight and a dance or two
That's all I need from you tonight
Softly whispering, I love you
Can only make me feel so right

Make your move, I'm waiting for you
Actions speak louder than words

It's not what you're doing
It's what you're not doing, baby
It's not what you're doing
It's what you're not doing, baby

It's not what you're doing
It's what you're not doing, baby
Show me real love

It's not what you're doing
It's what you're not doing, baby
Show me real love
(Show me, show me)

It's not what you're doing
It's what you're not doing, baby
Show me real love
(Come on, I know you can do it)

It's not what you're doing
It's what you're not doing, baby
Show me real love
I know that you can do it

It's not what you're doing
It's what you're not doing, baby
Show me real love
(Come on baby, prove it to me)

It's not what you're doing
It's what you're not doing, baby
Show me real love
Prove it to me

It's not what you're doing
Show me real love
Show me

It's not what you're doing
Show me real love




(Show me real love)
It's not what you're doing

Overall Meaning

The song "It's Not What You're Doing" by Martika is about a girl who is waiting for her guy to make a move and show her whether his love is genuine or not. She questions why he touches her but then pulls away, wondering if he is afraid to feel something. She urges him to prove his love for her through his actions, not just words. She has heard from a friend that he does good things for her, but she wants to see it for herself as she does not believe it. Martika stresses that love has to come from the heart, and one must show their emotions.


The chorus "It's not what you're doing, it's what you're not doing, baby" is repeated numerous times in the song, emphasizing the point that the man is not showing enough effort or genuine love towards the girl. Martika sings about the need for a candlelight and a dance or two, whispered words of love, and genuine effort to make a relationship work.


Line by Line Meaning

Why do you touch me, then turn away
You initiate physical contact, but then you distance yourself emotionally. Why?


Is there something you're afraid to feel
Are you scared of experiencing certain emotions, maybe vulnerability or love?


Boy, if you want me, it's getting late
If you truly desire me, you need to act fast before it's too late.


Come and show me if your love is real
Words are not enough, I need to see your love in your actions.


Cause I heard it from a friend
I have heard rumors about your good deeds.


Who heard it from another friend
The rumors about your actions have been circulating around.


About the good things you do for me
People say that you have done good, kind things for me.


I don't believe it 'cause I've never seen it
I am skeptical of these rumors because I have never witnessed them myself.


Now's the right time, prove it to me
This is the moment for you to prove that you are capable of the good things that people say you do.


I don't know what you've been told
I am not sure the rumors I heard are accurate or true.


But love has gotta come from the heart
Love shouldn't be forced or insincere, it needs to come from the heart.


You better shape up
You need to start acting right and show your love through sincere actions.


It's not what you're doing
Your actions alone are not enough to prove your love.


It's what you're not doing, baby
It's the things you are failing to do that are creating doubt about your love.


You've got emotions like everyone else
You are not exempt from feeling emotions like everybody else.


But you've gotta learn to let 'em show
You need to learn to express your emotions and let them show in your actions.


I can't be in love all by myself
I cannot be in a relationship alone, it takes two to make it work.


It takes two to make love grow
Both parties involved need to put in the effort to make the love and relationship grow.


Come on baby, show me your love is real
Stop talking and start doing, prove to me that your love is genuine.


Candlelight and a dance or two
Romantic gestures like candlelight and dancing are all I need from you tonight.


That's all I need from you tonight
I do not ask for much, just a romantic gesture tonight.


Softly whispering, I love you
Expressing love and affection gently through whispers and sweet words.


Can only make me feel so right
These gestures make me feel loved and cherished.


Make your move, I'm waiting for you
I am giving you the chance to make things right, don't waste it.


Actions speak louder than words
What you do has more impact and meaning than what you say.


Show me real love
Prove to me that your love is genuine and sincere.


(Show me, show me)
I need to see your love with my own eyes.


I know that you can do it
I have faith in you, I know you are capable of showing real love.


(Come on baby, prove it to me)
Stop making excuses and prove to me that you really love me.




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: MICHAEL (MARGULES) JAY, ROBERT ETOLL, ROBERT J. ETOLL

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