The Lover
Medeski Martin and Wood Lyrics


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How did I figure I was gonna drive home like that?
So I parked on the highway and slept, one hand on a baseball bat
That was back when I knew what to call it
That was back when she still would'a fought me for it

But it's over now
I had a good run but I lucked it out
The neighbors clocked it, they know I been cleanin' out
That tiny house
Where we could settle for each other
If I was a good lover
If I was a good lover
If I was a good lover

How did we both get so damn old so fast?
From a basement apartment to a time I can't seem to sleep in past?
That was back when I ain't have much to sing about
Way back when I wrote a thousand songs no one cared about

But it's over now
We had a good run but I lucked it out
The neighbors clocked it and then we were cleanin' out
That tiny house
Where we were gonna settle for each other
If I was a good lover
If I was a good lover
If I was a good lover
If I was a good lover
If I was a good lover
If I was a good lover




If I was a good lover
If I was a good lover

Overall Meaning

The song "The Lover" by Medeski Martin and Wood is a melancholic reflection on a failed relationship and the passing of time. The opening lines suggest the singer had been drinking and was in no state to drive home, leading them to park on the highway and sleep with a baseball bat as protection. The lyrics then shift to a sense of nostalgia for a time when the singer and their partner were still in love and would fight for each other, suggesting that something has gone wrong and they are now alone.


The repeated refrain "If I was a good lover" underscores the singer's sense of regret and self-blame for the failure of the relationship. They wonder what might have been different if they had been a better partner, while also acknowledging that the passage of time has taken its toll on both themselves and the relationship. The lines "From a basement apartment to a time I can't seem to sleep in past? / That was back when I ain't have much to sing about / Way back when I wrote a thousand songs no one cared about" suggest that the singer's life has not turned out as they hoped, and they feel a sense of disappointment and disillusionment.


Overall, "The Lover" is a poignant and introspective song that speaks to universal themes of love, regret, and the passing of time. The haunting melody and sparse instrumentation emphasize the sense of loneliness and isolation conveyed in the lyrics.


Line by Line Meaning

How did I figure I was gonna drive home like that?
I was so drunk that I couldn't even make it to my car. How did I think I was going to drive home?


So I parked on the highway and slept, one hand on a baseball bat
I had to pull over on the highway and sleep there because I couldn't make it all the way home. I kept the baseball bat with me for protection.


That was back when I knew what to call it
That was back when I knew what to call my relationship with her.


That was back when she still would'a fought me for it
That was back when she still cared about our relationship enough to argue with me about it.


But it's over now
Our relationship is over now.


I had a good run but I lucked it out
I had a good relationship for a while, but I feel like I lucked into it.


The neighbors clocked it, they know I been cleanin' out
The neighbors saw me moving out and now they know our relationship is over.


That tiny house
We used to live together in a small house.


Where we could settle for each other
We were willing to be with each other long-term, even if we weren't perfect together.


If I was a good lover
If I could have been a better partner for her.


How did we both get so damn old so fast?
It feels like we went from young and in love to old and broken up so quickly.


From a basement apartment to a time I can't seem to sleep in past?
We used to live in a small, cramped apartment and now I can't seem to get a good night's sleep.


That was back when I ain't have much to sing about
That was back when my life felt more simple and I didn't have much to write songs about.


Way back when I wrote a thousand songs no one cared about
I used to write so many songs, but no one really paid attention to them.


If I was a good lover
If I could have been a better partner for her.


If I was a good lover
If I could have been a better partner for her.


If I was a good lover
If I could have been a better partner for her.


If I was a good lover
If I could have been a better partner for her.


If I was a good lover
If I could have been a better partner for her.


If I was a good lover
If I could have been a better partner for her.


If I was a good lover
If I could have been a better partner for her.


If I was a good lover
If I could have been a better partner for her.




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Donovan Woods

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