It's On You
Megan Rochell Lyrics

Before your life with me was simple
You didn't have any problems before we started dating

But it's been crazy for a while
Our relationship has been difficult and tumultuous lately

Now it if wasn't for your ego
Our problems are because of your inflated sense of self-importance

We wouldn't be doin' this here right now
We wouldn't be fighting and arguing if you weren't so arrogant

To busy frontin' for you people
You're too concerned with impressing others

That's exactly what I'm talkin' bout
That's the root of our issues

Boy how am I suppose to be your equal
I can't be your partner when you constantly talk down to me

When you be steady talkin' down
You're always belittling me

What if, what if I started lyin'
What if I stopped being honest with you

And stopped apologizin'
What if I stopped saying sorry even when I did nothing wrong

What if I, I flipped the script
What if I acted the way you do

And acted just like you
What if I became arrogant and argumentative

Be no apologizin'
There would be no more apologies

We never stopped the fightin'
We would continue to argue

Now it's your chance to walk up in my shoes
Now it's your turn to experience how I feel

I'm leavin' this one up to you
It's your decision to make

Tellin' you that this one, it's on you
You're responsible for fixing our relationship

Lately we've been just gettin' by
Our relationship has been mediocre at best

And lately I'm the only one tryin'
I'm the only one putting in effort to make things better

Cuz the last time it was me
The last argument was my fault

And the first time it was me
The first argument was also my fault

Damn, I'm feelin' like it's always me
I'm constantly taking the blame

If you ain't gon' make this thing work
If you're not going to put in any effort to improve our relationship

Then why don't you just say it's over
You should just end things if you're not committed to making it work

Tell me who's the one who listens
I'm always there to listen to you

Everytime you got somethin' to say
Whenever you need to vent or talk about something

Tell me who's the one who's givin'
I'm always the one giving in or compromising

But never gettin' it the same
But I never receive the same treatment from you

Back then I must've been just trippin'
I must have been mistaken or naive in the past

Was thinkin' maybe you was gonna change
I believed that you would change for the better

Another day & nothings different
But nothing has changed and the problems persist

Can't keep goin' on this way
We can't continue with our relationship like this

2 years, since we got together boy
It's been two years since we started dating

It's been 2 years, & things ain't got no better boy
But things haven't improved since then

I can't take it no more
I can't tolerate our problems and fighting anymore

Won't play it off like everythings okay
I won't pretend that everything is alright

Now sorry ain't gon' cut it
An apology won't be enough to fix our problems

It's not gon' be enough
We need to do more to improve our relationship

Yeah, I love you but I,
I still love you, but

I can't keep drivin' if it's only gonna go one way
I can't continue putting in all the effort if you're not willing to do the same

Cuz I gave it to you on my first one
I gave you my all from the beginning

And I've put of with all the shit you've done
And I've put up with all the bad things you've done

And every argument you make it my fault
And you always blame me for every argument

And every argument you never got caught
And you never take responsibility for your actions