I'm Losing You
Murray Head Lyrics


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Here in some stranger's room
Late in the afternoon
What am I doing here at all?
Ain't no doubt about it
I'm losing you

Somehow the wires have crossed
Communication's lost
Can't even get you on the telephone
Just got to shout about it
I'm losing you

Here in the valley of indecision
I don't know what to do
I feel you slipping away
I feel you slipping away
I'm losing you
I'm losing you

You say you're not getting enough
But I remind you of all that bad stuff
So what the hell am I supposed to do?
Just put a band-aid on it?
And stop the bleeding now
Stop the bleeding now

I know I hurt you then
But that was way back when
And well, do you still have to carry that cross?
Don't want to hear about it




I'm losing you
I'm losing you

Overall Meaning

In Murray Head’s “I’m Losing You,” the singer is reflecting on being in a stranger’s room and wondering how he got there. He’s in the midst of a breakup and trying to understand where communication has broken down between him and his partner. The wires have become crossed, and he can no longer get in touch with her. He’s feeling lost, uncertain, and stuck in a place of indecision. He realizes that he’s losing her and she’s slipping away. The singer is at a loss as to what to do since he’s aware that she’s not getting enough, and he’s reminded of all the bad stuff that happened between them. He questions himself by asking if it’s enough to just put a band-aid on the situation and stop the bleeding now. He also acknowledges that he hurt her in the past but doesn't want to hear about it anymore. However, he’s mindful that he’s still losing her.


The song creates an atmosphere of sadness and hopelessness with the lyrics and the slow tempo of the music. The verse "here in the valley of indecision, I don’t know what to do, I feel you slipping away,” creates a powerful image of the singer being stuck in a valley with no clear way out. It’s likely an open-ended metaphor for the broader emotions of the breakup.


Line by Line Meaning

Here in some stranger's room
I find myself in an unfamiliar place.


Late in the afternoon
The day is almost over.


What am I doing here at all?
I am questioning why I'm in this situation.


Ain't no doubt about it
There is no uncertainty.


I'm losing you
I am slowly losing you.


Somehow the wires have crossed
There is a miscommunication happening.


Communication's lost
We have lost the ability to communicate effectively.


Can't even get you on the telephone
You are not answering the phone.


Just got to shout about it
I feel like I need to yell to be heard.


Here in the valley of indecision
I am undecided about what to do.


I don't know what to do
I am unsure of what actions I should take.


I feel you slipping away
I sense that you are becoming distant.


I'm losing you
I am losing your love.


You say you're not getting enough
You are not getting what you need from me.


But I remind you of all that bad stuff
I point to negative things in the past.


So what the hell am I supposed to do?
I am frustrated and unsure of how to fix things.


Just put a band-aid on it?
Should I just ignore it and move on?


And stop the bleeding now
Should I try to stop the damage and pain?


I know I hurt you then
I acknowledge that I hurt you in the past.


But that was way back when
The past is behind us now.


And well, do you still have to carry that cross?
I question if you are still holding onto the hurt from the past.


Don't want to hear about it
I do not want to discuss past hurts anymore.


I'm losing you
I know that I am losing you for good.




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: John Lennon

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