The Sorrowful Wife
Nick Cave & The Bad Seeds Lyrics


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I married my wife on the day of the eclipse
Our friends awarded her courage with gifts
Now as the nights grow longer and the season shifts
I look to my sorrowful wife
Who is quietly tending her flowers
Who is quietly tending her

The water is high on the beckoning river
I made her a promise I could not deliver
And the cry of the birds sends a terrible shiver
Through me and my sorrowful wife
Who is shifting the furniture around
Who is shifting the furniture around

Now we sit beneath the knotted Yew
And the bluebells bob up around our shoes
The task of remembering the telltale clues
Goes to my sorrowful wife
Who is counting the days on her fingers
Who is counting the days on her

Come on and help me baby
Come on now
Come on and help me baby
I was blind
The grass here grows long and high
Twists right up to the sky
White clouds roll on by
Come on now and help me babe
I was blind
I was a fool babe
I was blind
A loose wind last night blew down
Black trees bent to the ground
Their blossoms made such a sound
That I could not even hear myself think babe
I was blind
I was a fool babe
I was a blind fool, babe
I was a fool babe
I was blind babe
I was a fool babe
I was a blind fool, babe
I was a fool

Blind babe




Blind babe
Blind babe

Overall Meaning

The Sorrowful Wife by Nick Cave & The Bad Seeds is a haunting and melancholic song that tells the story of a man looking to his wife to help him through a difficult time. The opening lines describe their wedding day, which happened to coincide with a solar eclipse. The couple's friends applauded the wife's bravery, but from the very beginning of the song there is a sense of foreboding and unease that is palpable. As the seasons shift and the nights grow longer, the wife becomes increasingly withdrawn and sad. She buries herself in her gardening, moving furniture around the house, and counting the days on her fingers. The husband, in turn, becomes more and more aware of his own shortcomings and failures. He made a promise to his wife that he couldn't keep, and the cry of birds in the background sends a shiver down his spine.


The chorus of the song is a call-and-response between the husband and wife, with the former admitting his blindness and foolishness, and asking the latter for help. The final verse is perhaps the most striking, with the husband describing a loose wind blowing down black trees and causing the blossoms to make such a sound that he couldn't even hear himself think. The repetition of "I was a fool, babe" and "blind babe" underscores the sense of regret and pain that runs throughout the entire song.


Overall, The Sorrowful Wife is a deeply evocative and poignant work that captures the essence of human relationships, both the joy and the heartbreak.


Line by Line Meaning

I married my wife on the day of the eclipse
On the day of the eclipse, I married my wife


Our friends awarded her courage with gifts
Our friends gave my wife gifts to award her courage


Now as the nights grow longer and the season shifts
As the nights grow longer and the season changes


I look to my sorrowful wife
I see my wife who is full of sorrow


Who is quietly tending her flowers
My wife is taking care of her flowers quietly


The water is high on the beckoning river
The river is high and inviting


I made her a promise I could not deliver
I promised her something I couldn't fulfill


And the cry of the birds sends a terrible shiver
The bird's cry sends a terrible shiver down my spine


Through me and my sorrowful wife
We both feel this way


Who is shifting the furniture around
My wife is moving the furniture around


Now we sit beneath the knotted Yew
We are sitting under a knotted Yew tree


And the bluebells bob up around our shoes
Bluebells are blooming around us and at our feet


The task of remembering the telltale clues
My wife is responsible for recalling important information


Goes to my sorrowful wife
My wife is the one responsible


Who is counting the days on her fingers
She is counting the number of days on her fingers


Come on and help me baby
Please help me


I was blind
I didn't see clearly


The grass here grows long and high
The grass here is long and tall


Twists right up to the sky
It twists and grows tall


White clouds roll on by
The white clouds keep moving


A loose wind last night blew down
Last night, the wind was strong and knocked things down


Black trees bent to the ground
The trees were bent over by the wind


Their blossoms made such a sound
The trees made a sound with their blossoms falling


That I could not even hear myself think babe
It was so loud that I couldn't even think


I was a fool babe
I made a mistake


Blind babe
I couldn't see what was happening


Blind babe
I was blind


Blind babe
I couldn't see




Lyrics © Kobalt Music Publishing Ltd.
Written by: Nicholas Cave

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