All Or Nothing
O town Lyrics


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I know when he's been on your mind
That distant look is in your eyes
I thought with time you'd realize
It's over, over

It's not the way I choose to live
And something somewhere's got to give
As sharing this relationship gets older, older
You know I'd fight for you

But how I can fight someone who isn't even there
I've had the rest of you now I want the best of you
I don't care if that's not fair
Cause I want it all

Or nothing at all
There's no where left to fall
When you reach the bottom it's now or never
Is it all or are we just friends

Is this how it ends
With a simple telephone call
You leave me here with nothing at all
There are times it seems to me

I'm Sharing you with memories
I feel it in my heart
But I don't show it, show it
And then there's times you look at me

As though I'm all that you can see
Those times I don't believe it's right
I know it, know it
Don't me make me promises

Baby you never did know how to keep them well
I've had the rest of you
Now I want the best of you
It's time for show and tell

'Cause I want it all
Or nothing at all
There's no where left to fall
When you reach the bottom it's now or never

Is it all or are we just friends
Is this how it ends
With a simple telephone call
You leave me here with nothing

'Cause you and I
Could lose it all if you've got no more room
No room inside for me in your life
'Cause I want it all

Or nothing at all
There's no where left to fall
It's now or never
Is it all or nothing at all

There's no where left to fall
When you reach the bottom it's now or never
Is it all or are we just friends
Is this how it ends

With a simple telephone call
You leave me here with nothing at all
Or nothing at all
There's no where left to fall

When you reach the bottom it's now or never
Is it all or are we just friends
Is this how it ends
With a simple telephone call





You leave me here with nothing at all

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to O-Town's "All or Nothing" describe a situation in which the singer is in a relationship that is not completely fulfilling, but they're not ready to let it go entirely. The other person is preoccupied with someone else, but the singer still wants them, even though they know it might not be the best decision. The chorus drives home the dilemma, as the singer demands "All or nothing at all."


The song explores themes of desire, disappointment, and uncertainty. The verses suggest that the singer has a one-sided relationship with this person, which is causing them pain; they feel like they're sharing their partner with memories of someone else. But even when they are together, the singer is not sure if they are getting the real thing. Despite that, they are searching for some kind of resolution to this ambiguity - either they want everything, or they are willing to walk away with nothing.


Interestingly, the music video for "All or Nothing" features a woman singing the song instead of the band members themselves. The video tells the story of a woman waiting for her love interest to come home, and it proves a poignant complement to the song's lyrics.


Line by Line Meaning

I know when he's been on your mind
I can tell when you've been thinking about him


That distant look is in your eyes
I can see that look in your eyes that tells me you're not fully present


I thought with time you'd realize
I was hoping that over time you would come to the realization that we should be together


It's over, over
Our relationship is over


It's not the way I choose to live
Living in this kind of uncertain relationship is not something I want for myself


And something somewhere's got to give
There needs to be some kind of resolution to this situation


As sharing this relationship gets older, older
As time goes on, the difficulties of sharing this relationship become more and more apparent


You know I'd fight for you
You should know that I would do anything to be with you


But how I can fight someone who isn't even there
It's hard to fight for someone when they are not fully committed to the relationship


I've had the rest of you now I want the best of you
I've had parts of you, but now I want all of you


I don't care if that's not fair
I know it may not seem fair to you, but I want everything from you


'Cause I want it all
I want everything from you


Or nothing at all
I either want everything from you or nothing at all


There's no where left to fall
We're at the point where there's nothing left to salvage


When you reach the bottom it's now or never
It's now or never to make a decision about our relationship


Is it all or are we just friends
Are we more than just friends, or is this not going anywhere?


Is this how it ends
Is this the end of our relationship?


With a simple telephone call
Will this be the way that our relationship ends?


You leave me here with nothing at all
If this is how it ends, I will be left with nothing


There are times it seems to me
There are moments when I feel


I'm Sharing you with memories
I feel like you are still living in the past with your memories of him


I feel it in my heart
These feelings are coming from deep within me


But I don't show it, show it
I don't always express my feelings openly


And then there's times you look at me
But then there are other times when you look at me


As though I'm all that you can see
And in those moments, it seems like I am the only thing on your mind


Those times I don't believe it's right
But in those times, I don't believe that it's right for us to still be in this uncertain relationship


I know it, know it
Deep down, I know that we need to make a decision


Don't me make me promises
Don't promise me something that you can't keep


Baby you never did know how to keep them well
You have a history of not being able to keep your promises


It's time for show and tell
It's time for us to be honest with each other


You and I
You and I


Could lose it all if you've got no more room
We could lose everything if you're not willing to make space for me in your life


No room inside for me in your life
If you don't have room for me in your life, we can't be together




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: BAYLEY COOKE, JASON EDWARDS

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@marycelpangilinan8050

MY ALL TIME FAVORITE.. KIDS OF 90's and 20's

Otown - all or nothing
Backstreet boys - drowning
Weslife - swear it again
A1 - like a rose
Plus one - here in my heart
98'degrees - why we still be friend and my everything
Nsync - this i promise you
Boy II men - think of aliyah



All comments from YouTube:

@phonomenon

It's safe to say, that all of us that are listening to this right now are all in our 30s. I miss the 90s and early 2000s so much. Take me back!

@girlyeveyug5071

DATS NOT SOME OF US ARE 25 YRS BUT HAVE LOVE OFR 90S MUSIC

@samuelhasapes7019

Where did this kind of music? At the age of 28 still like the 90s and 00s

@ernstvanstangl1048

phonomenon Yes! Magical times .

@yana112o92

25 years old here. Ahahha listening to this when I was like. . .9? hahah~

@tokkijangnim1544

phonomenon 19 years old here and young enough to know them ;)

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@dacelutamilekega2586

I'm turning 37 soon and these boys will always be my most treasured youthful memories. Their first album always lifted my spirits when I was down (abused kid)...And their songs still do even today. Thanks fellas, always. 😍🥰😭🥰😍

@judymaepalad1232

What 😂🤣🤣 be able you want to come over after.

@cassiedaniels7855

Ntanga!! ❤

@starlight274

I will be 38 in Feb of 24 and yesssssss chills everytime I hear this song. Hard to believe we creeping into our 40s!!!!!! I do not feel it!!! 😅

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