It's You
PJ Harvey Lyrics


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Oh dear sweet mama
I'm not feeling well
Can I step out
For a little while?
But I go missing
I steal away
And I go kissing
In the alleyway
All I want to do
And all I want to grow up to be
Is all caught up with you

Look what you're doing to me

Oh dearest young man
Teach me sweetheart
How to love you
I'm a clever girl
You've got me lying
You've got me leaving home
You've got me crying
When I'm alone

When I'm not with you my dreams are so very dark
When I'm not with you I dream of my hair falling out
When I'm not with you I walk dark tunnels of my heart
When I'm not with you everything comes apart

When I was younger
I spent my days
Wondering to whom
I was supposed to pray





It's you

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of PJ Harvey's song "It's You" are an emotional and complex reflection on love, desire, and dependency. The first stanza describes the singer feeling unwell and wanting to step out for a little while. However, despite knowing that it's not the right thing to do, she steals away to kiss someone in the alleyway. The repeated line "All I want to do, And all I want to grow up to be, Is all caught up with you" highlights the depth of her infatuation and the hold that this person has over her.


The second verse introduces a new character, a young man, who she addresses as "dearest". She wants him to teach her how to love him, despite already considering herself a clever girl. He has her lying, leaving home, and crying when she's alone, showing the power he has over her. The chorus is repeated, emphasizing the importance of this person in her life, reinforces the fact the singer is reliant on this person for her emotional wellbeing.


The final verse explores the singer's past, where she recounts spending her days wondering who she was supposed to pray to. This uncertainty is replaced by a certainty that it is this person that she wants and needs in her life. The song ends with "It's you" repeated, confirming that this person is the only one for her, and she is dependent on them for fulfillment.


Line by Line Meaning

Oh dear sweet mama
Addressing an affectionate figure to pour out her concerns


I'm not feeling well
Expressing a negative state of being or emotions


Can I step out
Asking for permission to leave temporarily


For a little while?
Specifying the duration of the absence


But I go missing
Confessing to disappearing without explanation


I steal away
Using evocative imagery to describe the act of sneaking away


And I go kissing
Describing the action of engaging in romantic activity with someone


In the alleyway
Indicating the location where the romantic activity often takes place


All I want to do
Expressing one's desires and ambitions


And all I want to grow up to be
Referencing one's aspirations and objectives for the future


Is all caught up with you
Acknowledging that one's desires revolve around a specific person


Look what you're doing to me
Expressing the effects that the person has on the singer


Oh dearest young man
Addressing someone as a term of endearment


Teach me sweetheart
Asking someone to guide the singer in a loving way


How to love you
Seeking knowledge on how to express feelings of love towards someone


I'm a clever girl
Acknowledging one's intelligence and resourcefulness


You've got me lying
Revealing the impact that the person has on the singer's behavior


You've got me leaving home
Describing the singer's desire to be with the person at the expense of leaving home


You've got me crying
Revealing the emotional toll that the person has on the singer


When I'm alone
Referencing a specific situation where the emotions are more pronounced


When I'm not with you my dreams are so very dark
Describing the negative impact that the person's absence has on the singer's mental state


When I'm not with you I dream of my hair falling out
Referencing a specific dream that causes anxiety and discomfort


When I'm not with you I walk dark tunnels of my heart
Using evocative imagery to describe the emotional state during the person's absence


When I'm not with you everything comes apart
Acknowledging that the person is the source of stability and happiness


When I was younger
Referencing a time in the past


I spent my days
Describing how time was used during that period


Wondering to whom
Asking a rhetorical question about identity or purpose


I was supposed to pray
Referencing a religious practice that provides guidance or comfort


It's you
Declaring that the person is the source of happiness, love, and inspiration




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: POLLY JEAN HARVEY

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