02Please Don't Do This
Plain White T's Lyrics


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You call me in the middle of the night
Saying that you just got home
You're lucky I'm even still awake
Awake enough to answer the phone
But I knew it would be you'cause I was hoping that you'd call
Hoping you'd say that you were sorry
But you don't apologize at all
And it's not ok and it's not alright
What have you been doing with those guys all night?

If they're really just friends
Why wouldn't you choose me over them?
Please don't do this again
I try to give you the space you need
But you end up walking all over me
Please don't do this to me
Oh no, please don't do this to me

You call me in the middle of the night
So drunk you're ready to pass out
Tellin' me you had a great time
Except for that hour you blacked out
Now you're surprised that I'm pissed
You think I'm acting all tough
Well I think you're acting like a bitch
And I swear this time I've had enough

Why do you have to push me so hard?
You're pushing me away
I ask, please don't do this to me
But you're doing it anyway

And it's not OK and it's not alright
You can't fool me, so don't even try




And it's not OK and it's not alright
What have you been doing with those guys all night?

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of "Please Don't Do This" by Plain White T's describe the frustration and confusion of a person in a troubled relationship who is constantly being let down and disrespected by their partner. The song begins with the partner calling in the middle of the night, having just returned home after presumably spending time with other people, and failing to apologize for their actions. The singer is waiting for an apology and an explanation, but instead, they are met with defensive behavior and dishonesty. They are left feeling hurt and wondering why their partner chooses to spend time with others instead of choosing them.


The second half of the song continues the theme of disappointment, as the partner calls again, this time drunk and barely coherent. They are dismissive of the singer's feelings and seem oblivious to the hurt they have caused. The singer is tired of being treated poorly but still tries to find a way to make things work. They give their partner space, but instead of appreciating it, the partner continues to disregard their feelings and do things that hurt them.


Overall, this song captures the frustration of being in a one-sided relationship where one person is constantly disregarding the other's feelings. It's a plea for communication and mutual respect in a relationship, and a warning that if things don't change, it's time to move on.


Line by Line Meaning

You call me in the middle of the night
You contact me during odd hours


Saying that you just got home
Informing me that you just came back


You're lucky I'm even still awake
I am still up and around


Awake enough to answer the phone
Awake to receive your call


But I knew it would be you'cause I was hoping that you'd call
I anticipated your call because I wanted to hear from you


Hoping you'd say that you were sorry
Expecting an apology


But you don't apologize at all
You don't express remorse


And it's not ok and it's not alright
I don't approve of it at all


What have you been doing with those guys all night?
What did you perform with those guys throughout the night?


If they're really just friends
If those guys are solely your friends


Why wouldn't you choose me over them?
Why won't you prioritize me over them?


Please don't do this again
Please abstain from doing this again


I try to give you the space you need
I strive to provide you with the personal room you require


But you end up walking all over me
But you eventually take advantage of me


Please don't do this to me
Please don't subject me to this


Oh no, please don't do this to me
Oh no, please don't repeat this


So drunk you're ready to pass out
Drunk enough to fall asleep soon


Tellin' me you had a great time
Informing me that you enjoyed yourself


Except for that hour you blacked out
Excluding the interval when you lost consciousness


Now you're surprised that I'm pissed
Now you're astonished that I'm offended


You think I'm acting all tough
You assume that I'm attempting to show off that I'm strong


Well I think you're acting like a bitch
But I believe that you're behaving horribly


And I swear this time I've had enough
I declare that this time I've reached my limit


Why do you have to push me so hard?
Why do you have to strain me so much?


You're pushing me away
You're driving me away


I ask, please don't do this to me
I plead with you to avoid doing this to me


But you're doing it anyway
But you're still doing it


You can't fool me, so don't even try
You can't deceive me, so don't attempt it




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: TOM HIGGENSON

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