I'm Not The Only One
Postmodern Jukebox feat. Casey Abrams Lyrics
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For better or for worse
I can't believe you let me down
But the proof is in the way it hurts
For months on end I've had my doubts
Denying every tear
I wish this would be over now
But I know that I still need you here
You say I'm crazy
Cause you don't think I know what you've done
But when you call me baby
I know I'm not the only one
You've been so unavailable
Now sadly I know why
Your heart is unobtainable
Even though Lord knows you kept mine
You say I'm crazy
Cause you don't think I know what you've done
But when you call me baby
I know I'm not the only one
I have loved you for many years
Maybe I am just not enough
You've made me realise my deepest fear
By lying and tearing us up
You say I'm crazy
Cause you don't think I know what you've done
But when you call me baby
I know I'm not the only one
You say I'm crazy
Cause you don't think I know what you've done
But when you call me baby
I know I'm not the only one
I know I'm not the only one
I know I'm not the only one
I know I'm not the only one
And I know, and I know, and I know, and
I know, and I know, and I know, know
I know I'm not the only one
The lyrics of "I'm Not The Only One" by Postmodern Jukebox ft. Casey Abrams delve into themes of betrayal, heartbreak, and coming to terms with the painful reality of a failing relationship. The song begins with a reflection on a once-promising vow made between two individuals, expressing disbelief and hurt at being let down by the other person. The singer describes their internal struggle of having doubts and denying their tears, hoping for the end of the pain while also acknowledging their continued need for the other person despite the hurt they have caused.
As the lyrics progress, the singer confronts the other person's unavailability and the revelation that their heart is unobtainable, even though they have held onto the singer's heart. This realization deepens the emotional turmoil within the singer, highlighting the sense of being deceived and the fear of not being enough for the person they love. The repeated motif of feeling crazy for understanding the truth of the situation but still longing for the other person's validation adds a layer of emotional conflict and vulnerability to the narrative.
The chorus serves as a poignant reminder of the singer's knowledge of the other person's actions, contrasting the outer facade of endearment with the inner turmoil of betrayal and loneliness. The refrain "I know I'm not the only one" underscores the universal experience of experiencing heartbreak and deceit in relationships, emphasizing the shared pain and emotional complexities that accompany such experiences. The repetition of this line further drives home the singer's realization and acceptance of the situation, culminating in a sense of resignation and self-awareness.
In the final verses, the singer reflects on their enduring love for the other person over the years, juxtaposed with the harsh reality of feeling inadequate and broken by the lies and destructive actions that have torn them apart. The lyrics convey a profound sense of loss, vulnerability, and the struggle to reconcile the deep emotional investment in the relationship with the harsh truths that have come to light. Despite the pain and turmoil, the singer ultimately asserts their awareness of not being the only one to experience such betrayal and heartache, finding solace in the shared human experience of love and loss.
Line by Line Meaning
You and me, we made a vow
Together, we promised to always be there for each other
For better or for worse
In both good times and bad
I can't believe you let me down
I never expected you to disappoint me
But the proof is in the way it hurts
The pain I feel confirms the truth
For months on end I've had my doubts
I have been questioning our relationship for a long time
Denying every tear
Pretending that I am not affected by the pain
I wish this would be over now
I wish we could end this pain and move on
But I know that I still need you here
Despite everything, I still need you by my side
You say I'm crazy
You dismiss my feelings as irrational
Cause you don't think I know what you've done
Because you underestimate my awareness of your actions
But when you call me baby
Even when you try to be affectionate
I know I'm not the only one
I know that I am not the only one you have hurt
You've been so unavailable
You have been emotionally distant
Now sadly I know why
Now I understand the reason for your behavior
Your heart is unobtainable
You are not willing to let me in emotionally
Even though Lord knows you kept mine
Despite the fact that I gave you my heart
I have loved you for many years
I have loved you for a long time
Maybe I am just not enough
Perhaps I am not meeting your expectations
You've made me realise my deepest fear
You have shown me my greatest insecurity
By lying and tearing us up
Through your deceitful actions that have destroyed our relationship
I know I'm not the only one
I am aware that there are others who have been hurt by you as well
And I know, and I know, and I know, and
I am certain, I am certain, I am certain, and
I know, and I know, and I know, know
I am sure, I am sure, I am sure, I know
I know I'm not the only one
I am fully aware that I am not the sole victim of your actions
Lyrics © CONCORD MUSIC PUBLISHING LLC, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Sam Smith, James Napier
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