If You Don't Know
Queen Latifah Lyrics


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Oh I don't know
And it makes me scared
Because I'm falling in love
And I don't know if you feel the same

I'm taking this time to write you this letter
Cause what we got is good but want to make it better
Yo boo, I'm digging you, you got all of the equipment
Now I'm ready for a commitment

I'm not trying to rush things
Not looking for an engagement ring
But the queen needs a king
And I choose you, cause what we got is in tune
Since you promised me the moon I hope to see it soon
(see it soon)

I want make this official man, I miss you
I feign for your touch and your kiss too
Listen I hope I'm not being to blunt
Don't wanna scare you away, it's a game I want to play but

Oh I don't know
And it makes me scared
Because I'm falling in love
And I don't know if you feel the same

(hey)
Oh I don't know
(I don't know)
And it makes me scared
(so scared)
Because I'm falling in love
(falling in love)
And I don't know if you feel the same
(falling in love, hey)

I know you love it when I call you big poppa
My thoughts are pure
I heard you left your last cause she was insecure
I'm not tryin' to compare myself but
I got health and wealth
And now you dealing w/ the top shelf
My orgasmic thoughts need support
Thinking of positions you taught
While I stare at the gifts you bought

The things you do for me make you my number one
When you're around I have a lot of fun
Check me now
Like the time we went to six flags
Boostin', tearin' off tags
And sticking souvenirs into our bags
Slipped up, almost got caught then tried again
You're more than a lover you my best friend

Do you remember the first time I let cha get it
I was nervous you were too but wouldn't admit it
You were the best I had that's why I want all of you
Now tell them hookers to stop calling you
I'm dead up I want to wear your name
So I pray and ask god to make you feel the same

(hey)
Oh I don't know
(don't know)
And it makes me scared
(It makes me so scared)
Because I'm falling in love
(I'm falling in love again again)
And I don't know if you feel the same
(baby baby baby baby)

(hey)
Oh I don't know
(I don't know)
And it makes me scared
(makes me scared)
Because I'm falling in love
(falling in love again)
And I don't know if you feel the same
(baby baby, oh oh oh yeah)

Is there a place to ease my mind
(place to ease my mind)
(think about you all the time, yeah)
Show me a sign and wish that you would offer me a sign
Relax my mind

Let me close by saying stop delaying our fate
Let go your fear I'm here come hold your soul make
I want more but I don't want push
It's never to late so be straight
Don't beat around the bush

I'm all woman if you don't feel like I feel that's fine
Let's stay friends but I want you to be mine now check it
But I'll take what I can take it can't get no plainer
With love sincerely yours your boo dana

Oh p.s. guess who's back around
My ex he called me said he bought a house up town
But I told him that my love for you was too strong
Write back and don't make me wait to long

Oh I don't know
Oh I don't know
(I don't know)
And it makes me scared
(makes me so scared)
Because I'm falling in love
(falling in love)
And I don't know if you feel the same
(I want to know, wanna know)

(just me and my queen
Do you know what I mean
Hey hey hey




Falling in love
Tell me if it's good enough for you)

Overall Meaning

Queen Latifah's song "If You Don't Know" is an emotional and heartfelt track that delves into the uncertainty and fear surrounding falling in love. The opening lines of the song express the singer's confusion and anxiety around the situation. She is scared that she might be falling in love with someone but is unsure if the feeling is reciprocated.


The lyrics then progress into the main message of the song, where the singer writes a letter to her lover, expressing her feelings for him and her desire to make this relationship work. She assures him that she is not in a rush to get engaged or married, but that she longs for a commitment from him. She reminisces about the good times they've shared and hopes to create more memories together. The singer also talks about her own desires and hints at her sexual attraction towards her lover.


Throughout the song, the singer is vulnerable and open about her feelings, demonstrating the bravery it takes to expose oneself emotionally. The chorus repeatedly highlights the uncertainty and fear that comes with falling in love, and the listener can feel the singer's apprehension through the music and lyrics.


Overall, "If You Don't Know" is a beautiful and relatable song that captures the essence of what it's like to fall in love.


Line by Line Meaning

Oh I don't know
I'm unsure about what you feel


And it makes me scared
I'm nervous and scared


Because I'm falling in love
I'm falling in love with you


And I don't know if you feel the same
I'm unsure if you feel the same way


I'm taking this time to write you this letter
I'm writing this letter to express my feelings


Cause what we got is good but want to make it better
Our relationship is good, but I want to improve it


Yo boo, I'm digging you, you got all of the equipment
I really like you and everything about you


Now I'm ready for a commitment
I'm ready to commit to our relationship


I'm not trying to rush things
I'm not in a hurry to move forward


Not looking for an engagement ring
I'm not asking for an engagement right now


But the queen needs a king
I want a partner who is good for me


And I choose you, cause what we got is in tune
I want to be with you because our relationship works


Since you promised me the moon I hope to see it soon
I'm excited to see what our future holds based on what you've promised me


I want make this official man, I miss you
I want to make our relationship official because I miss you


I feign for your touch and your kiss too
I really want to kiss and touch you


Listen I hope I'm not being too blunt
I hope I'm being clear without being too forceful


Don't wanna scare you away, it's a game I want to play but
I don't want to push you away, but I do want to pursue our relationship


I know you love it when I call you big poppa
I know you like it when I call you affectionate names


My thoughts are pure
My intentions are sincere


I heard you left your last cause she was insecure
I heard you left your last partner because of her insecurities


I'm not tryin' to compare myself but
I'm not trying to put myself above others


I got health and wealth
I'm healthy and have financial stability


And now you dealing w/ the top shelf
I'm the best you can get


My orgasmic thoughts need support
I need your attention and affection


Thinking of positions you taught
I'm thinking about sexual positions you've taught me


While I stare at the gifts you bought
While I admire the gifts you've given me


The things you do for me make you my number one
Everything you do for me makes you important to me


When you're around I have a lot of fun
I enjoy spending time with you


Let go your fear I'm here come hold your soul make
Don't be afraid, I'm here to support you and be there for you


I want more but I don't want push
I want more from this relationship, but I won't force anything


It's never too late so be straight
It's never too late to be honest with me


I'm all woman if you don't feel like I feel that's fine
If you don't feel the same way, I understand


But I want you to be mine now check it
I want you to be my partner


I'll take what I can take it can't get no plainer
I'll accept what I can get from this relationship


With love sincerely yours your boo dana
I love you and sincerely hope we can make this work


Oh p.s. guess who's back around
By the way, my ex has come back into my life


My ex he called me said he bought a house up town
My ex called and said he bought a house


But I told him that my love for you was too strong
I told him that I'm committed to you


Write back and don't make me wait to long
Please respond soon


Is there a place to ease my mind
Is there somewhere I can go to feel calm


Show me a sign and wish that you would offer me a sign
Give me a sign that our relationship is going well


Let me close by saying stop delaying our fate
Let's stop putting off our relationship


Don't beat around the bush
Don't avoid talking about our relationship




Lyrics © Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: QUEEN LATIFAH, NEVELLE HODGE

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