Ice Cream Man.
RAYE Lyrics


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So, this producer hit me up on the DM
He told me, "Hey, I really like what you are doing"
He told me, "Come 'round to the studio, let's cook it"
He told me, "Come to catch a vibe and make some music"

But when I got there, should've heard what he was saying
Tryna touch me, tryna fuck me, I'm not playing
I should have left that place as soon as I walked in it
How goddamn dare you do that to me, really?

Coming like the ice cream man
'Til I felt his ice-cold hands
And how I pay the price now, damn
Goddamn, no, what the? Goddamn
Everything you did, it left me in a ruin
And, no, I didn't say a word
I guess that proves it
I'm a woman, oh, yes

'Cause I'm a woman
I'm a very fucking brave strong woman
And I'll be damned if I let a man ruin
How I walk, how I talk, how I do it
Man, I've been broken for a moment
I've been through it, no
It's even harder to be brave alone
Was a girl, now I'm grown
I'm a woman
A very fucking strong woman

And I was seven
Was twenty-one, was seventeen and was eleven
It took a while to understand what my consent means
If I was ruthless, they'd be in the penitentiary
But all the stress of being honest wouldn't help me
I pushed it down but it was living in me rent-free
And then I fell into some things that were unhealthy
A place where no one heard me, asking them to help me

Coming like the ice cream man
'Til I felt his ice-cold hands
And how I pay the price now, damn
Goddamn
Everything you did, it left me in a ruin
And no, I didn't say a word
I guess that proves it
I'm a woman

'Cause I'm a woman
I'm a very fucking brave strong woman
And I'll be damned if I let a man ruin
How I walk, how I talk, how I do it
Man, I've been broken for a moment
I've been through it, no
It's even harder to be brave alone
I was a girl, now I'm grown
I'm a woman
A very fucking strong woman, mm

I wish I could say how I feel
How I felt and explain why
I'm silently blaming myself
'Cause I put on these faces pretending I'm fine
Then I go to the bathroom
And I press "rewind" in my head
Always going 'round and 'round in my head
Your fingerprints stuck a stain on my skin
You made me frame myself for your sin
You pathetic, dead excuse of a man

Ooh, ooh
Oh, I'm a brave strong woman, oh, yeah
Yeah
Oh





And I'll be damned if I let a man ruin, oh
I'm a very fucking brave strong woman, yeah

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Raye's song "Ice Cream Man" tell a powerful story of a woman's experience with sexual harassment and abuse. It starts with the singer receiving a message from a producer, praising her work and inviting her to the studio. However, upon arriving, she realizes that the producer has ulterior motives and attempts to touch and take advantage of her. The lyrics express her anger and frustration at being treated in such a manner, highlighting the violation she feels. The title "Ice Cream Man" is used metaphorically to represent the initial charm and allure, which quickly turns into a cold and exploitative situation.


The song further explores the singer's journey towards healing and empowerment. She asserts her strength as a woman and refuses to allow any man to ruin her self-perception or control her actions. The lyrics recognize the struggles the singer faced in understanding consent and dealing with the trauma of her experiences. It sheds light on the silence and self-blame that survivors often carry, as well as the difficulty in seeking help and voicing their pain. Ultimately, she embraces her resilience and growth, declaring herself as a very strong woman who has overcome her brokenness.


Line by Line Meaning

So, this producer hit me up on the DM
I received a message from a producer expressing interest in my work


He told me, 'Hey, I really like what you are doing'
He complimented my work and showed admiration


He told me, 'Come 'round to the studio, let's cook it'
He invited me to the studio to collaborate and create music together


He told me, 'Come to catch a vibe and make some music'
He encouraged me to come and experience the creative energy, and work on music


But when I got there, should've heard what he was saying
However, upon arrival, I should have paid attention to his true intentions


Tryna touch me, tryna fuck me, I'm not playing
He attempted to touch me inappropriately, disregarding my boundaries


I should have left that place as soon as I walked in it
In hindsight, I should have immediately left the studio upon realizing his intentions


How goddamn dare you do that to me, really?
I am outraged and deeply offended by his actions


Coming like the ice cream man
He initially appeared inviting and enjoyable, like an ice cream man


'Til I felt his ice-cold hands
Until I experienced his unwanted physical contact, which made me feel violated


And how I pay the price now, damn
I am now facing the consequences of this traumatic encounter


Goddamn, no, what the? Goddamn
I am expressing shock, disbelief, and frustration at what occurred


Everything you did, it left me in a ruin
All of his actions have caused significant damage and distress in my life


And, no, I didn't say a word
I didn't vocalize my discomfort or voice my objections


I guess that proves it
This lack of response confirms the power dynamics and fear in such situations


I'm a woman, oh, yes
I identify as a woman, facing the challenges and struggles associated with it


'Cause I'm a woman
And the fact that I am a woman


I'm a very fucking brave strong woman
Makes me a resilient and powerful individual


And I'll be damned if I let a man ruin
I refuse to allow any man to destroy


How I walk, how I talk, how I do it
My confidence, my expression, and my way of living


Man, I've been broken for a moment
I have experienced emotional and mental pain recently


I've been through it, no
I have endured various struggles


It's even harder to be brave alone
It is more challenging to exhibit courage without support


Was a girl, now I'm grown
I have transitioned from being a girl to an adult


I'm a woman
Now, I am a fully-grown woman


A very fucking strong woman
A woman who possesses immense strength and resilience


I wish I could say how I feel
I desire the ability to express my emotions openly


How I felt and explain why
To articulate my emotions and provide reasoning behind them


I'm silently blaming myself
Internally, I am holding myself accountable for the situation


'Cause I put on these faces pretending I'm fine
Due to societal pressures, I often wear a mask, pretending to be okay


Then I go to the bathroom
In moments of solitude, I find myself seeking refuge in the bathroom


And I press 'rewind' in my head
I replay the past events in my mind, wishing I could change them


Always going 'round and 'round in my head
These thoughts constantly circulate in my mind, causing turmoil


Your fingerprints stuck a stain on my skin
Your actions have left a lasting mark and impact on me


You made me frame myself for your sin
You manipulated the situation, making me feel responsible for your wrongdoing


You pathetic, dead excuse of a man
I am addressing him as a worthless, despicable man


Ooh, ooh
Expressing vocalization or emotional intensity


Oh, I'm a brave strong woman, oh, yeah
I reaffirm my identity as a courageous and resilient woman


Yeah
A simple affirmation or agreement


Oh
An exclamation or expression of emotion


And I'll be damned if I let a man ruin, oh
I am determined not to allow any man to destroy or harm me


I'm a very fucking brave strong woman, yeah
I proudly embrace my strength and resilience as a woman




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Rachel Agatha Keen, Bloodpop, Mike Sabath

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All comments from YouTube:

@ruben4788

Can we take a minute to appreciate how brave Raye is for sharing her story with the world. This song is not only heartbreaking but also empowering to so many people. Her music and artistry is so inspiring, Raye deserves everything in this world.

@jessw.6250

Ikr I love her style, I like her words, I like her music… she’s always beautiful. May she keep thriving!!! 🤍

@ruben4788

​@@jessw.6250 I'm so so proud of her and how far she has come. She's a star ⭐❤️

@ytlurker220

@@funkystuf23 dude... This is about sexual violence, not your typical adversity, and a story about overcoming the demons victims face. RAYE is one of the most listened-to singers globally and addressing her own experience of such a sensitive topic is a huge deal.

@ArianaZ6

EXACTLY

@morsonpet

I was to her concert in Copenhagen this Monday. She got tears in her eyes to this song. It was so beautiful. 😢. I was in tears to. Perfect concert.❤

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@alliebaysore

“You made me frame myself for your sin”
“Took a while to understand what my consent means”
“If i was ruthless they’d be in the penitentiary,
But all the stress of being honest wouldn’t help me”
So real, so raw, so relatable. I FEEL these lyrics.

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@chrismoss9060

Being honest and trying to seek help for your assault very rarely ever works in a woman's favor. Never did for me.

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