How Was I To Know
Reba McEntire Lyrics


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My world revolved around you
Every word was a promise I was hangin' on
Swept up inside a whirlwind
I just couldn't see the end till you were gone

I thought I would fall apart
(With) shattered dreams and a broken heart
Scramblin' in the dark

How was I to know
That I'd be ok
Thought I'd lose it all when you walked away
How was I to know
I would be this strong
I had what it takes all along
How was I to know

What I was so afraid of
Turned out to be my freedom in disguise
Now i know what I'm made of
Guess it just took some time to realize

I was blind, I couldn't tell
I put too much faith in someone else
Gave up on myself

How was I to know
That I'd be ok
Thought I'd lose it all when you walked away
How was I to know
I would be this strong




I had what it takes all along
How was I to know

Overall Meaning

Reba McEntire's song "How Was I To Know" is a powerful anthem about finding strength within oneself after the end of a failed relationship. In the verses, Reba sings about how much her life revolved around her partner, and how every word he said was a promise she clung to. She was swept up in the excitement of the relationship, unable to see the end until he was gone. When the relationship inevitably ended and she was left alone, Reba thought that she would fall apart. She was left with shattered dreams and a broken heart, scrambling in the dark to try to pick up the pieces of her life.


But as the chorus comes in, Reba's tone shifts. She asks, "How was I to know that I'd be OK?" She realizes that she had the strength within her all along to overcome the pain and heartbreak. What she was so afraid of - being alone - turned out to be the one thing that set her free. Now that she has had time to reflect on the relationship, Reba knows that she put too much faith in someone else and gave up on herself. But in learning that lesson, she has become stronger and more resilient than ever before.


Line by Line Meaning

My world revolved around you
I centered my life around you


Every word was a promise I was hangin' on
I trusted every word you said


Swept up inside a whirlwind
I was caught up in a frenzy


I just couldn't see the end till you were gone
I was blinded to the outcome until you left me


I thought I would fall apart
I believed I would crumble


(With) shattered dreams and a broken heart
My hopes were destroyed, and my heart was shattered


Scramblin' in the dark
I was struggling blindly


What I was so afraid of
My fear was unwarranted


Turned out to be my freedom in disguise
My fear was actually liberation in disguise


Now i know what I'm made of
Now I realize my own strength


Guess it just took some time to realize
I needed time to comprehend it all


I was blind, I couldn't tell
I was ignorant to the truth


I put too much faith in someone else
I relied on someone else too heavily


Gave up on myself
I lost faith in myself


How was I to know
How could I have known


That I'd be ok
That I would be fine


Thought I'd lose it all when you walked away
I believed everything would crumble when you left me


I would be this strong
That I would possess the strength I have


I had what it takes all along
I had the strength and ability within myself all along


How was I to know
How could I have known




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Reservoir Media Management, Inc., Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: CATHY MAJESKI, STEPHONY SMITH, SUNNY RUSS

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