Over Under and Around
Reba McEntire Lyrics


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You've been treating me like a candle
You put me out and light me as you please
But I ain't never gonna be your handle
So you can hold me and hurt me when you squeeze
And bring me to my knees

[Chorus]
I got over you long ago
I ain't under your spell
I've been around here too long
I've been over under around and now I'm gone

You carried me away with your blue eyes
Now I'm heading back for those blue skies
You cut me way too hard and way too deep
You're looking at what a fool used to be
Take a look at me





[Chorus: x2]

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Reba McEntire's "Over Under And Around" depict a relationship that is tumultuous and unhealthy. The singer is speaking directly to her partner, who has been treating her like a candle that can be lit and extinguished according to his wishes. She metaphorically states that she is not his "handle," which means she refuses to be controlled by him anymore. She refuses to be his puppet, to be treated unfairly, and to be manipulated or hurt by him. Despite his attempts to make her feel small, she declares that she will not be brought to her knees.


In the chorus, the singer emphasizes her independence from her partner, declaring that she has already moved on and is no longer under his spell. She has also been around long enough to know her worth and refuses to be mistreated any further. She is no longer going to subject herself to the cycle of pain, manipulation, and control, and has decided to move on from this toxic relationship.


Overall, the song's message is empowering, encouraging listeners to stand up against mistreatment in relationships and to take control of their lives. It's a reminder that no one should be treated as a possession or toy, and that everyone deserves respect and love that is genuine and healthy.


Line by Line Meaning

You've been treating me like a candle
You have been using me only when needed and leaving me aside when not required.


You put me out and light me as you please
You extinguish me when you don't require my presence and ignite me whenever you need my assistance.


But I ain't never gonna be your handle
But I am not going to be used as a prop or tool to handle and manipulate you.


So you can hold me and hurt me when you squeeze
So that you could hold me and use your power to hurt me.


And bring me to my knees
And bring me down to my lowest point.


I got over you long ago
I moved on from you a long time ago.


I ain't under your spell
I am not under your influence or control.


I've been around here too long
I have been present and enduring for far too much time.


I've been over under around and now I'm gone
I have been everywhere, done everything and now I am moving on.


You carried me away with your blue eyes
You captivated me with your blue eyes and made me lose my senses.


Now I'm heading back for those blue skies
Now I am going back to a happier and more free life.


You cut me way too hard and way too deep
You have hurt me immensely and deeply.


You're looking at what a fool used to be
You are seeing the past version of a person who was foolishly in love with you.


Take a look at me
Look at me now and see how I have moved on and grown stronger.




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