That's When I Knew
Reba McEntire Lyrics


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It wasn't when you walked out, wasn't when you said goodbye
It wasn't when I sat down and had myself a real good cry
Oh, it wasn't when I tore your picture from the frame
Threw it in the fire and sent it up in flames
I still felt the same

Oh, but then tonight, I met someone
We went out and we had fun
He made me laugh, we danced all night
And I didn't see your face when I was looking in his eyes
That's when I knew
I was over you

I was staying busy, trying to keep you off my mind
Baby, but your memory, it put up a real good fight
Oh, I went out with friends to have a drink or two
They tried to cheer me up, there was nothing they could do
I was missing you

But then tonight, there with him
It felt so good to feel good again
He took my hand and I didn't mind
And I didn't try to stop him when he kissed me goodnight
That's when I knew
I was over

Crying in my pillow
Praying that you'd come home
Waiting for the phone to ring
Wondering where it went wrong
Wishing I could move on
Thought I'd never feel this way
I thought I'd never see this day

Oh, but then tonight, I met someone
We went out and we had fun
He made me laugh and we danced all night
And I didn't see your face 'cause I was looking in his eyes
That's when I knew




I was over you
I was over you

Overall Meaning

In "That's When I Knew," Reba McEntire reflects on the process of moving on from a past relationship. The lyrics depict the various stages of healing and reaching a point of emotional closure.


In the first verse, she talks about the initial aftermath of the breakup. It wasn't when the person left or said goodbye that she started to feel free from the pain. Even when going through the cathartic act of tearing the ex's picture and burning it, her feelings remained the same. This suggests that the physical gestures of trying to let go didn't have an immediate impact on her emotions.


However, in the chorus and second verse, the turning point comes when she meets someone new and they have a great time together. The new person makes her laugh and they share an enjoyable experience, and she realizes that she doesn't see her ex's face when she looks into this person's eyes. This signifies a shift in her emotional attachments and a recognition that she is moving on.


The third verse offers a glimpse into the times she spent trying to distract herself and keep her mind off her ex. Despite her attempts to stay busy and go out with friends, his memory remains strong and she still misses him. But then, in the chorus, she meets someone who makes her feel good again, and she allows herself to be open to his affection and kisses.


The final excerpt demonstrates the depth of her pain during the healing process. She describes the moments of intense sadness, yearning, and hoping for the ex to come back or make amends. However, the chorus reiterates that meeting this new person and experiencing happiness with him has solidified her realization that she is truly over her ex.


Overall, "That's When I Knew" narrates the journey from heartbreak to acceptance and moving on. Through meeting someone new who brings joy and laughter into her life, the singer is able to recognize that she has reached a place where her ex no longer has a hold on her emotions.


Line by Line Meaning

It wasn't when you walked out, wasn't when you said goodbye
I didn't realize it when you left or when you told me it's over


It wasn't when I sat down and had myself a real good cry
Even after I cried my heart out, I still felt the same


Oh, it wasn't when I tore your picture from the frame
Ripping your picture and burning it didn't change my feelings


Threw it in the fire and sent it up in flames
I tried to let go of the memories by destroying the picture


I still felt the same
But deep down, my emotions remained unchanged


Oh, but then tonight, I met someone
But tonight, I encountered someone new


We went out and we had fun
We went on a fun outing together


He made me laugh, we danced all night
He brought joy to my heart and we danced throughout the night


And I didn't see your face when I was looking in his eyes
When I looked into his eyes, I couldn't see your presence anymore


That's when I knew
At that moment, I realized


I was over you
I had finally moved on from you


I was staying busy, trying to keep you off my mind
I kept myself occupied, attempting not to think about you


Baby, but your memory, it put up a real good fight
However, your memory fought hard to stay in my thoughts


Oh, I went out with friends to have a drink or two
I went out with my friends to have a couple of drinks


They tried to cheer me up, there was nothing they could do
Though they tried their best to uplift my spirits, it didn't work


I was missing you
I still longed for you


But then tonight, there with him
However, this evening, in the company of someone else


It felt so good to feel good again
I experienced the joy of feeling happy once more


He took my hand and I didn't mind
I allowed him to hold my hand without hesitation


And I didn't try to stop him when he kissed me goodnight
When he kissed me goodnight, I didn't resist or push him away


That's when I knew
That's when I realized


I was over
I had gotten over


Crying in my pillow
Weeping into my pillow


Praying that you'd come home
Hoping and praying for your return


Waiting for the phone to ring
Anticipating your call


Wondering where it went wrong
Pondering where our relationship took a turn for the worse


Wishing I could move on
Desiring to move forward


Thought I'd never feel this way
Believed I would never experience these emotions


I thought I'd never see this day
I never imagined this day would come


I was over you
I had moved on from you




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Written by: ASHLEY GORLEY, JIM COLLINS

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