Hard To Get
Rich Mullins & the Ragamuffin Band Lyrics


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You who live in heaven
Hear the prayers of those of us who live on earth
Who are afraid of being left by those we love
And who get hardened by the hurt

Do you remember when You lived down here where we all scrape
To find the faith to ask for daily bread
Did you forget about us after You had flown away
Well I memorized every word You said

Still I'm so scared, I'm holding my breath
While you're up there just playing hard to get

You who live in radiance
Hear the prayers of those of us who live in skin
We have a love that's not as patient as Yours was
Still we do love now and then

Did You ever know loneliness
Did You ever know need
Do You remember just how long a night can get?
When You were barely holding on
And Your friends fall asleep
And don't see the blood that's running in Your sweat

Will those who mourn be left uncomforted
While You're up there just playing hard to get?

And I know you bore our sorrows
And I know you feel our pain
And I know it would not hurt any less
Even if it could be explained

And I know that I am only lashing out
At the One who loves me most
And after I figured this, somehow
All I really need to know

Is if You who live in eternity
Hear the prayers of those of us who live in time
We can't see what's ahead
And we can not get free of what we've left behind
I'm reeling from these voices that keep screaming in my ears
All the words of shame and doubt, blame and regret

I can't see how You're leading me unless You've led me here
Where I'm lost enough to let myself be led




And so You've been here all along I guess
It's just Your ways and You are just plain hard to get

Overall Meaning

The song "Hard to Get" by Rich Mullins & the Ragamuffin Band is a poignant reflection on the longing and struggles of faith. The lyrics start by acknowledging the distance between heaven and earth and the fear that people on earth feel of losing loved ones. The singer then questions if Jesus remembers what it is like to live on earth and feel the pain and hardship of daily life. The refrain of the song, "playing hard to get," suggests a feeling of frustration or confusion on the part of the singer about Jesus' seeming absence or lack of response.


The middle section of the song shifts to focus on the singer's own feelings of loneliness and need. The singer asks if Jesus ever felt these things and questions the silence and isolation that the singer feels. The line "Will those who mourn be left uncomforted" highlights a fear of abandonment or despair that the singer wishes to avoid. The third and final section of the song then turns to a sense of resolution and acceptance. The singer acknowledges that Jesus has borne the sorrows and pains of humanity and that even if it cannot be explained, they know that Jesus loves them. The final lines emphasize the mystery of faith and the difficulty of understanding why things happen as they do.


Overall, "Hard to Get" is a song that wrestles with the difficulties of faith, the feelings of distance and abandonment that people can experience, and the ultimate mystery of God's ways. Through the questions and struggles of the lyrics, however, there is a sense of hope and trust that comes through in the end.


Line by Line Meaning

You who live in heaven
Addressing God who lives in heaven


Hear the prayers of those of us who live on earth
Asking God to listen to the prayers of the people on the earth


Who are afraid of being left by those we love
People on the earth are afraid of being left alone by their loved ones


And who get hardened by the hurt
People on the earth start to become tough because of the pain they bear


Do you remember when You lived down here where we all scrape
Asking God if He remembers the time when He lived among the people on earth


To find the faith to ask for daily bread
Referencing the struggle of people to have enough faith to ask God for their daily needs


Did you forget about us after You had flown away
Asking God if He has forgotten the people on the earth after going back to heaven


Well I memorized every word You said
Expressing the devotion of memorizing every word that God said


Still I'm so scared, I'm holding my breath
Despite memorizing every word of God, still scared and fearful


While you're up there just playing hard to get
Questioning God's actions of playing hard to get


You who live in radiance
Addressing the radiance and glory of God in heaven


Hear the prayers of those of us who live in skin
Asking God to listen to the prayers of the people on the earth who are mere mortals


We have a love that's not as patient as Yours was
Comparing the impatient human love with the patient and enduring love of God


Still we do love now and then
Acknowledging the existence of love among humans


Did You ever know loneliness
Asking God if He ever experienced loneliness


Did You ever know need
Asking God if He ever needed something


Do You remember just how long a night can get?
Asking God if He remembers the agony of long nights


When You were barely holding on
Remembering the times when God Himself was struggling to hold on


And Your friends fall asleep
Referencing the story of Jesus' disciples falling asleep while He was praying in the garden of Gethsemane


And don't see the blood that's running in Your sweat
Referring to the blood that Jesus shed while praying in the garden that His disciples didn't see


Will those who mourn be left uncomforted
Asking if those who are mourning on the earth will be left without comfort


While You're up there just playing hard to get?
Questioning God's actions once again


And I know you bore our sorrows
Acknowledging that God understands and shares the pain and sorrows of humanity


And I know you feel our pain
Reaffirming that God knows and understands the pain of humanity


And I know it would not hurt any less
Knowing that the pain wouldn't reduce even if explained


Even if it could be explained
Acknowledging that the pain might not be understandable


And I know that I am only lashing out
Admitting that the frustration is directed towards God


At the One who loves me most
Acknowledging that God is the one who loves the most


And after I figured this, somehow
After realizing God's love, there is a realization


All I really need to know
Understanding that there is only one thing that is needed to know


Is if You who live in eternity
Asking if God in eternity hears the prayers of people living in the momentary time on the earth


Hear the prayers of those of us who live in time
Asking God to listen to the prayers of mere mortals


We can't see what's ahead
Acknowledging the inability to see what's ahead


And we cannot get free of what we've left behind
The past still lingers in the present


I'm reeling from these voices that keep screaming in my ears
The inner voices scream making the person feel uneasy


All the words of shame and doubt, blame and regret
Listing the negative thoughts that surface in the mind


I can't see how You're leading me unless You've led me here
Confessing that one cannot see the road ahead unless God is guiding


Where I'm lost enough to let myself be led
Being lost is a requirement to be led by God


And so You've been here all along I guess
Realizing that God was always present


It's just Your ways and You are just plain hard to get
Accepting that God works in different ways and is a mystery to the human mind




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Comments from YouTube:

R U

A beautiful rendition of an already beautiful song. Thank you for this crystal clear version.

ExaltHIMvdo

One of the most profound songs on the album it is featured on. :) GBY.

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