Don't Judge Me
Rita Ora Lyrics


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Don't say you miss me when you don't call
And don't say you're hurting
Without the scars
Don't promise me tonight without tomorrow too
Don't say you love me unless you do

We've been close, but inconsistent
You hold my heart at a safer distance, yeah
You think words can ease the tension
But you can't deny that something's missing

I need a little bit more
I need a little bit more
You gotta know what it's like
I know you been here before
I've been waiting, I've been patient
But I need a little bit more

Don't say you miss me when you don't call
Don't say you're hurting without the scars
Don't promise me tonight without tomorrow too
Don't say you love me unless you do

How am I supposed to take it
When weeks go by and I'm still waiting? yeah
I'll say I'm okay but I can't fake it, yeah
Even when I try, yeah, something's missing

I need a little bit more
I need a little bit more
You gotta know what it's like
I know you been here before
I've been waiting, I've been patient
But I need a little bit more

So don't say you miss me when you don't call
Don't say you're hurting without the scars
Don't promise me tonight without tomorrow too
Don't say you love me unless you do
Unless you do

Don't say you love me unless you do
Don't say you love me, don't say you love me
Don't promise me tonight without tomorrow too
Don't say you love me, unless you do

I need a little bit more
I need a little bit more
You gotta know what it's like
I know you've been here before
I've been waiting, I've been patient
But I need a little bit more (More)

So don't say you miss me when you don't call
Don't say you're hurting without the scars




Don't promise me tonight without tomorrow too
Don't say you love me unless you do

Overall Meaning

In "Don't Judge Me" by Rita Ora, the lyrics explore the frustration and disappointment in a one-sided relationship. The singer is tired of empty promises and insincere actions from their partner. They express their longing for more effort, genuine love, and commitment.


The opening lines set the tone for the song, highlighting the hypocrisy of the partner who claims to miss them but fails to reach out. The singer challenges the partner not to pretend to be hurting without visible scars, suggesting that mere words are not enough to sustain a relationship. They also demand sincerity when it comes to love, stating that the partner should not say they love them unless they truly mean it.


The lyrics further illustrate the inconsistencies in the relationship. The partner keeps the singer at a distance, holding their heart "at a safer distance." The singer acknowledges that the partner may believe that words can smooth things over but insists that something crucial is missing.


Throughout the song, the recurring line "I need a little bit more" emphasizes the singer's desire for more effort, commitment, and authenticity. They have been patient and waiting for the partner to step up, but they're realizing that it's not enough. The bridge of the song reflects their frustration, expressing how the passing weeks without change make it harder to pretend everything is okay.


In conclusion, "Don't Judge Me" by Rita Ora delves into the frustration of a one-sided relationship and the longing for more effort, sincerity, and commitment from a partner.


Line by Line Meaning

Don't say you miss me when you don't call
Don't pretend to long for me if you don't even bother to reach out


And don't say you're hurting without the scars
Don't claim to be in pain when there are no visible signs of it


Don't promise me tonight without tomorrow too
Don't make empty promises of a fleeting moment without a future


Don't say you love me unless you do
Don't say those three words if you don't genuinely mean them


We've been close, but inconsistent
Our connection has been strong, yet unstable


You hold my heart at a safer distance, yeah
You keep my emotions at a distance for your own security


You think words can ease the tension
You believe that mere words can resolve the underlying turmoil


But you can't deny that something's missing
However, you cannot deny that there is an undeniable void


I need a little bit more
I require a bit more effort and dedication from you


You gotta know what it's like
You must understand the experience I am going through


I know you been here before
I am aware that you have faced similar situations in the past


I've been waiting, I've been patient
I have been waiting and showing restraint


But I need a little bit more
But I need you to step up and give more of yourself


How am I supposed to take it
How should I interpret your actions


When weeks go by and I'm still waiting? yeah
When weeks pass and I am still left waiting for a response


I'll say I'm okay but I can't fake it, yeah
I may claim to be fine, but I cannot pretend any longer


Even when I try, yeah, something's missing
Even when I make an effort, something feels incomplete


So don't say you miss me when you don't call
Therefore, refrain from expressing longing when you don't make an effort to communicate


Don't say you're hurting without the scars
Avoid claiming pain when there is no evidence of its existence


Don't promise me tonight without tomorrow too
Do not make promises for the present without considering the future


Don't say you love me unless you do
Do not utter declarations of love unless they are genuine


I need a little bit more
I require a higher level of commitment and dedication from you


So don't say you miss me when you don't call
Hence, do not claim to miss me if you do not bother to contact me


Don't say you're hurting without the scars
Refrain from proclaiming pain without any visible signs of suffering


Don't promise me tonight without tomorrow too
Avoid making empty promises of fleeting moments without considering the future


Don't say you love me unless you do
Do not express love unless it genuinely exists


Unless you do
Only if you truly love me


Don't say you love me unless you do
Do not claim to love me if your feelings are not genuine


Don't say you love me, don't say you love me
Do not profess love, do not pretend


Don't promise me tonight without tomorrow too
Do not make commitments for the present without considering the future


Don't say you love me unless you do
Do not declare love unless it truly exists


I need a little bit more
I require a greater amount of effort and dedication from you


I need a little bit more
I am in need of a slightly higher level of commitment from you


You gotta know what it's like
You must understand the challenges and experiences I go through


I know you've been here before
I acknowledge that you have faced similar situations in the past


I've been waiting, I've been patient
I have been waiting and displaying patience


But I need a little bit more
However, I need you to offer a bit more of yourself


So don't say you miss me when you don't call
Therefore, refrain from claiming to miss me if you do not make the effort to contact me


Don't say you're hurting without the scars
Do not assert pain if there is no evidence of the wounds


Don't promise me tonight without tomorrow too
Avoid making commitments for the present without considering the future


Don't say you love me unless you do
Do not express love unless it truly exists




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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@makyralee7706

Come, let me kiss you right there
Wake you up like sunrise
On the backs of your thighs
I'm gonna pray you this prayer
That I keep in my mind
As a lovely reminder

Even though you tell me you love me
I'm afraid that you just love my disguise
Taste my fears and light your candle to my raging fire
Of broken desire

But don't judge me
I know I got issues
But they drown when I kiss you
Don't judge me
Baptize me with ocean
Recognize my devotion

The water's perfectly good
Let's reintroduce ourselves
From a free point of view
If I'm gon' sin, it's with you
Tattoo your love on my heart
Let the rumors be true

Even though you tell me you love me
I'm afraid that you just love my disguise
Taste my fears and light your candle to my raging fire
The dirty desire

But don't judge me
I know I got issues
But they drown when I kiss you
Don't, don't judge me
Baptize me with ocean
Recognize my devotion

What if I, what if, what if I touched you right there?

Even though you say that you love me
Is it me or do you love my disguise?
If I missed you, would you think I was lonely
If I say what's on my mind?

Even though you say that you love me
Is it me or do you love my disguise?
If I kissed you, would you think I was lonely
If I let you inside?

Come, let me kiss you right there
What if I kissed you right there?
Would you tremble inside, or just call it a night?
What if I gave you a show?
You could touch if you like
Right there
If I kissed you would you think I was lonely?
If I

It feels so good
Come, let me kiss you right there
Just say that you love me (just tell me you love me)



All comments from YouTube:

@jamievolosin2804

How does this song feel like a throwback and feel futuristic at the same time? I love it.

@billyretrogamer

Elena Volosin it’s called “timeless”

@EYELOVEMUSICSOUL

Also Tony Toni Tone- anniversary

@queenteireigns6212

It's our anniversary sample maybe?

@ChanellJWilson

Always

@luieluu

I don’t like to compare people, but even though they have a different sound, I believe Chloe x Halle have a very timeless sound as well

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@crowndrip1892

Prince would be so proud! His spirit is definitely living throughout this album. ❤

@nikkidillard922

totally agree.

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@zoecooke4082

This is one of the best, rawest, most evocative songs on the album. A throwback to early 90s r&b, lauryn hill, etc., but it incorporates some jazz and blues as well and blends them all symphonically. The mumbled lyrics at the end paired with the sensual jadedness of the refrain make the song both vulnerable and fierce. THIS. This is Janelle Monae at her peak. This song is music.

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