I Don't Know How To Love Him
Roger Williams His Piano And Orchestra Lyrics


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I don't know how to love him.
What to do, how to move him.
I've been changed, yes really changed.
In these past few days, when I've seen myself,

I seem like someone else.
I don't know how to take this.
I don't see why he moves me.
He's a man. He's just a man.

And I've had so many men before,
In very many ways,
He's just one more.
Should I bring him down?

Should I scream and shout?
Should I speak of love,
Let my feelings out?
I never thought I'd come to this.

What's it all about?
Don't you think it's rather funny,
I should be in this position.
I'm the one who's always been

So calm, so cool, no lover's fool,
Running every show.
He scares me so.
I never thought I'd come to this.

What's it all about?
Yet, if he said he loved me,
I'd be lost. I'd be frightened.
I couldn't cope, just couldn't cope.

I'd turn my head. I'd back away.
I wouldn't want to know.
He scares me so.
I want him so.





I love him so.

Overall Meaning

The song "I Don't Know How to Love Him" by Roger Williams His Piano And Orchestra is a heartfelt and introspective expression of confusion and vulnerability in a romantic relationship. The singer grapples with various conflicting emotions and uncertainties about her feelings towards the person she loves.


The lyrics portray a sense of inner transformation and self-discovery. The singer confesses to feeling changed and like a different person after encountering this individual. This sudden change in her perspective and emotions leaves her unsure of how to approach the situation and how to express her love. She questions her own ability to love and wonders what actions or words can make the other person realize her feelings.


The singer reflects on her past experiences with different men and how this new person seems to be just another addition to that list. However, she is torn between whether to bring down her emotional barriers and openly express her love or to remain guarded and distant. She acknowledges her surprise and finds it funny that she, who has always been composed and in control, is now in a position of uncertainty and fear.


The song illustrates the singer's fear of reciprocated love. She admits that if the person she loves were to confess his love, she would be thrown off balance and overwhelmed. Unable to cope with such vulnerability, she contemplates turning away and avoiding the situation altogether. Nonetheless, her longing for him is strong, and despite her fears, she truly desires him and loves him.


Overall, "I Don't Know How to Love Him" conveys the complexity and internal struggles one faces when navigating love and uncertainty in a relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

I don't know how to love him.
I am unsure of how to express my affection for him.


What to do, how to move him.
I am uncertain about the actions and gestures that would capture his attention and affection.


I've been changed, yes really changed.
I have undergone a significant transformation within myself.


In these past few days, when I've seen myself,
During recent times, as I reflect upon my own identity,


I seem like someone else.
I feel as though I have become a different person.


I don't know how to take this.
I am unsure of how to interpret or handle this situation.


I don't see why he moves me.
I struggle to understand why he affects me so deeply.


He's a man. He's just a man.
He is a human being, nothing more than an ordinary man.


And I've had so many men before,
I have encountered numerous romantic partners in the past,


In very many ways,
Each with their own distinct qualities and experiences.


He's just one more.
He is simply another addition to that list.


Should I bring him down?
Should I lower his status or diminish his importance?


Should I scream and shout?
Should I express my emotions through loud and intense outbursts?


Should I speak of love,
Should I openly discuss my feelings of love,


Let my feelings out?
Allowing my emotions to be revealed and expressed?


I never thought I'd come to this.
I never anticipated finding myself in this situation.


What's it all about?
What is the meaning or purpose of all of this?


Don't you think it's rather funny,
Do you not find it somewhat ironic or amusing,


I should be in this position.
That I would find myself in such a circumstance.


I'm the one who's always been
I am the individual who has consistently been


So calm, so cool, no lover's fool,
Collected, composed, not easily swayed by love,


Running every show.
Having control over every aspect of my life and relationships.


He scares me so.
He fills me with fear and apprehension.


Yet, if he said he loved me,
However, if he were to declare his love for me,


I'd be lost. I'd be frightened.
I would feel confused and overwhelmed. I would experience fear.


I couldn't cope, just couldn't cope.
I would be incapable of dealing with the situation, completely overwhelmed.


I'd turn my head. I'd back away.
I would instinctively avoid facing the situation. I would retreat.


I wouldn't want to know.
I would deliberately choose to remain ignorant of his feelings.


He scares me so.
His presence and emotions continue to instill fear within me.


I want him so.
Despite my fears and uncertainties, I desire him deeply.


I love him so.
I have strong feelings of affection and love for him.




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Warner Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: Andrew Lloyd Webber, Tim Rice

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