Don't
Roy Ayers Lyrics


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I don't know how to love him
What to do, how to move him
I've been changed, yes really changed
In these past few days, when I've seen myself
I seem like someone else
I don't know how to take this
I don't see why he moves me
He's a man, he's just a man
And I've had so many men before
In very many ways
He's just one more
Should I bring him down
Should I scream and shout
Should I speak of love
Let my feelings out
I never thought I'd come to this

What's it all about
Don't you think it's rather funny
I should be in this position
I'm the one who's always been
So calm, so cool, no lover's fool
Running every show
He scares me so
I never thought I'd come to this
What's it all about
Yet, if he said he loved me
I'd be lost, I'd be frightened
I couldn't cope, just couldn't cope
I'd turn my head, I'd back away
I wouldn't want to know
He scares me so




I want him so
I love him so

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Roy Ayers Ubiquity's song "Don" depict a woman's struggle to come to terms with her feelings for a man who scares her. The woman in the song confesses that she doesn't know how to love this man or how to move him. She has been changed in these past few days and in seeing herself, she feels like someone else. The woman has had many men before him but he is just one more. She questions whether she should bring him down, scream, shout or speak of love and let her feelings out. She never thought she'd come to this and wonders what it is all about.


The woman is surprised to find herself in this position as she has always been calm and cool, never a lover's fool, always running every show. This man, however, scares her. She wouldn't know how to cope if he said he loved her. She would be lost and frightened and wouldn't want to know. Despite her fear, she still loves him.


The song speaks to the inherent struggles of love and relationships. It touches on the overwhelming feeling of vulnerability and the innate fear that comes with opening up to someone else. The woman's love for the man is a complex mix of desire, fear, and uncertainty, which is an experience that is common to many people in relationships.


Line by Line Meaning

I don't know how to love him
I don't know how to show my love to him


What to do, how to move him
I'm unsure of how to make him feel my feelings for him


I've been changed, yes really changed
In these past few days, I've undergone a transformation


In these past few days, when I've seen myself
Recently, I've been introspecting and seeing a new side of me


I seem like someone else
I feel like a different person than I used to be


I don't know how to take this
I'm having trouble understanding my own emotions


I don't see why he moves me
I don't know why I'm attracted to him


He's a man, he's just a man
He's human, he's no different than other men I've been with


And I've had so many men before
I've had numerous romantic partners in the past


In very many ways
Each one of them has been unique in their own way


He's just one more
He's just another man that I'm romantically involved with


Should I bring him down
Maybe I should try to ruin his self-esteem


Should I scream and shout
Or perhaps I should express my anger in a loud and aggressive way


Should I speak of love
Alternatively, I could try expressing my feelings of love towards him


Let my feelings out
And let my emotions take over


I never thought I'd come to this
I never expected to find myself in this situation


What's it all about
I'm unsure of the purpose of all of this confusion


Don't you think it's rather funny
Do you find it amusing in any way that I'm going through this?


I should be in this position
This isn't where I expected myself to be


I'm the one who's always been
I'm usually the composed and self-assured person in my relationships


So calm, so cool, no lover's fool
I'm usually able to control my emotions and make rational choices regarding love


Running every show
I'm usually the one in charge in my relationships


He scares me so
However, this man makes me feel vulnerable and intimidated


Yet, if he said he loved me
Despite this, if he were to confess his love towards me


I'd be lost, I'd be frightened
I would feel confused and scared


I couldn't cope, just couldn't cope
I don't think I could handle the intensity of those feelings


I'd turn my head, I'd back away
I would try to avoid those emotions altogether


I wouldn't want to know
I wouldn't want to acknowledge those emotions and their potential impact on me


He scares me so
I'm just too afraid of what could happen if I let myself fall for him


I want him so
Despite all of this, I can't help but have a strong desire for him


I love him so
I have fallen deeply in love with him




Lyrics ยฉ Universal Music Publishing Group
Written by: ANDREW LLOYD WEBBER, TIM RICE

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Comments from YouTube:

@ronnieb1958

1979-80. It was a very good year. This was the joint that got the folks off the wall!. I'm 63 years old now and it will always be a banger!

@alanjaffe2724

Yes. '79-'83ish was the best time in music history. The variety of different kinds of great songs was at its peak.

@dannyboyd9462

No Doubt

@anthonydaniel3554

Classic, remember ๐Ÿ˜Š graduation and going to the Army, I'm 62 and it still sounds just as good.

@fieldahmaposa5935

The best disco track of the late 70s. Danced to this like crazy. Got the nickname Dont Stop. Still struggling to explain how i landed this nickname to my children. They cant believe i was a great dancer during my time

@4cchansemicircle944

Roy Ayers came to Nigeria in 1979 for a music tour. I still remember it like yesterday.

@marym5835

My mom use to wear this song out! Sleep in heavenly peace mommy. <3

@angelafisher299

My Pops did too!! He loved Roy Ayers. R. I. P. Dad.

@johnmilbourn8876

Nice tune

@abdulmuhammad8900

@Angela fisher thats whats up

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