She Ain't a Child No More
Sharon Jones and the Dap-Kings Lyrics


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She'd just run when you raised a hand
She ain't a child no more
(She ain't a child no more)
She was just too young then to understand
She ain't a child no more
(She ain't a child no more)

Came home drunk in the middle of the night
Screaming and swinging with all of your might
But a child couldn't put up a fight
She ain't a child no more
(She ain't a child no more)

Poor little girl she had to grow up quick
She ain't a child no more
(She ain't a child no more)
Her heart's still soft, but her skin got thick
She ain't a child no more
(She ain't a child no more)

How could a mother be so reckless and wild?
Put your kid through such torture and trial
You could only have the love of your child
She ain't a child no more
(She ain't a child no more)

(She ain't a child no more)
(She ain't a child no more)

You could only have the love of your child
She ain't a child no more
She ain't a child no more

Now listen, used to think she done something wrong
She ain't a child no more
(She ain't a child no more)

Now her body and her mind has grown strong
She ain't a child no more
(She ain't a child no more)

I bet you never thought she'd grow up so tall
Stand eye to eye, toe to toe with her ma
You know you never thought she toed the law
She ain't a child no more
(She ain't a child no more)

She ain't a child no more
No, no, no, she ain't a child
No, no, no, she ain't a child
No, no, no, she ain't a child

No, no, no, she ain't a child




No, no, no, she ain't a child
No, no, no, she ain't a child

Overall Meaning

The song She Ain't a Child No More by Sharon Jones and the Dap-Kings is a powerful commentary on the experiences of a woman who has grown up in an abusive household. The first verse describes how the woman had to deal with physical violence from her father - a violent drunk - when she was just a child. She might have been too young to understand what was happening then, but she is now a grown woman who can fight back. The second verse suggests that her mother knew about the abuse but did nothing to intervene, leaving the girl no choice but to grow up too quickly.


The chorus repeats the phrase 'She ain't a child no more' multiple times to underline the central theme of the song. The woman who once ran away in fear, now stands up to her abusers and is no longer controlled by them. The third verse speaks of how the woman had to deal with feelings of guilt and blame for a long time, even though she was not responsible for the abuse she suffered. The final verse suggests that the woman has now grown into a strong adult who can stand up to her mother and confront her about her failures as a parent.


In conclusion, the song She Ain't a Child No More is a poignant reflection on the impact of domestic violence on a young girl's life, and her eventual transformation into a woman who can fight back and take control of her own life.


Line by Line Meaning

She'd just run when you raised a hand
When you used to hit her, she would run away in fear


She ain't a child no more
She has grown up and is no longer a child


She was just too young then to understand
At the time, she was too young to comprehend the abuse


Came home drunk in the middle of the night
You would come home intoxicated in the middle of the night


Screaming and swinging with all of your might
You would scream and hit violently


But a child couldn't put up a fight
As a child, she was defenseless and could not fight back


Poor little girl she had to grow up quick
Due to the abuse, she had to mature quickly


Her heart's still soft, but her skin got thick
Despite the hardships, she remains kind-hearted, but has developed emotional resilience


How could a mother be so reckless and wild?
How could a parent behave so irresponsibly and aggressively?


Put your kid through such torture and trial
Subjecting your child to such abuse is a form of torture and hardship


You could only have the love of your child
Despite the abuse, she still loves her mother


Now listen, used to think she done something wrong
She used to blame herself for the abuse


Now her body and her mind has grown strong
She has grown physically and mentally stronger


I bet you never thought she'd grow up so tall
You probably did not think she would grow up to be so tall and strong


Stand eye to eye, toe to toe with her ma
She can now stand up to her mother and confront her


You know you never thought she toed the law
You probably did not think she would ever stand up to you or report the abuse


No, no, no, she ain't a child
She is no longer a child and can defend herself against abuse




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