By My Side
Soja Lyrics


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I act like I left her, but I really beg her to stay.
And the more that I press her is the more she slips away.
Act like I don't need her but...Yo, you're necessary...
Like ten days from now I won't see your face when I sleep.

Act like I can hear, but Jah knows I'm deaf.
Act like I can see but now, yo, from me sight has left.
Act like I don't know but, I know these things...
Act like I don't feel it but I'm gonna feel it, every morning now on

Each morning, on each night
when I need you by my side
on each morning and on each night
when I need you

Like I don't care but each and every time
your face comes across it never ever leaves my mind.
Oh, like I don't know but...I know your thing


like I don't feel it, but I'm gonna feel it every evening now on -

Each morning, on each night
when I need you by my side
on each morning and on each night
when I need you

I act like I left her, but the truth is I beg her, beg her to stay...
And the more that I press her, means all the more that she slips away.
Act like I don't need her, but I'm here to tell you that you're necessary.
Like ten days from now I won't see your face when I'm on -

Each morning, on each night
when I need you by my side
on each morning and on each night
when I need you by my side.





- On each morning and on each night when I need you so desperately

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Soja's song "By My Side" speak about a man's struggle to admit that he needs his partner. He acts nonchalant and distant, pretending like he can live without her, but in reality, he can't bear the thought of being without her. He realizes that no matter how much he may push her away, she is necessary for his wellbeing. The more he tries to act like he doesn't need her, the more she slips away. He acknowledges that he may act like he doesn't care, but her presence always lingers in his mind. He also admits that even though he may act like he is unaffected, eventually, he will feel the impact of her absence every day.


The song is about the fear of vulnerability and the struggle to communicate one's true feelings. It highlights the importance of being honest with oneself and one's partner. The man in the song realizes that pretending to not need his partner is not the answer, but admitting that he needs her is the first step in keeping her by his side.


Line by Line Meaning

I act like I left her, but I really beg her to stay.
I pretend that I left her, but in reality, I plead with her to stay.


And the more that I press her is the more she slips away.
The more I try to hold onto her, the more she distances herself from me.


Act like I don't need her but...Yo, you're necessary...
I act as if I don't need her, but the truth is that she is important to me.


Like ten days from now I won't see your face when I sleep.
I know that in ten days, I won't have her by my side when I go to sleep.


Act like I can hear, but Jah knows I'm deaf.
I act like I can hear, but in reality, I cannot.


Act like I can see but now, yo, from me sight has left.
I act like I can see, but I have lost my ability to.


Act like I don't know but, I know these things...
I pretend that I don't know, but the truth is that I am aware.


Act like I don't feel it but I'm gonna feel it, every morning now on
I act like I don't feel it, but I will feel the pain every morning from now on.


Each morning, on each night when I need you by my side
Every morning and every night, when I long for her presence.


on each morning and on each night when I need you
When I am desperately seeking her comfort, day and night.


Like I don't care but each and every time your face comes across it never ever leaves my mind.
I act like I don't care, but her face remains etched in my memory every time I think of her.


Oh, like I don't know but...I know your thing
I pretend that I am not aware, but I know all about her.


like I don't feel it, but I'm gonna feel it every evening now on -
I act as though I don't feel anything, but the pain will hit me every evening from now on.


Each morning, on each night when I need you by my side
Every morning and every night, when I long for her presence.


on each morning and on each night when I need you by my side.
When I am desperately seeking her comfort, day and night.


I act like I left her, but the truth is I beg her, beg her to stay...
Although I pretend that I left her, the reality is that I beg her to stay.


And the more that I press her, means all the more that she slips away.
My attempts to hold onto her only push her further away.


Act like I don't need her, but I'm here to tell you that you're necessary.
Despite my façade, I acknowledge that I need her by my side.


Like ten days from now I won't see your face when I'm on -
I know that in ten days, I won't have her by my side when I'm going through...


Each morning, on each night when I need you by my side
Every morning and every night, when I long for her presence.


on each morning and on each night when I need you by my side.
When I am desperately seeking her comfort, day and night.




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Tara Mashay


on Here I Am

This guy is in love with a girl and tries pushing her away. They both care a lot about each other, for her own well being he tries to ignore her. But due to his life style of traveling she knows when he's around (tour dates posted online,etc) "she sees on her screen I am so here I am, here I am" he can't keep from seeing her because deep down they both want to be there so here he is. Neither of them care if they date other people normally because they both know they can't be together (maybe distance? Or he cares more about his passion for music?) "She don't call me one and only no she just calls me when she gets lonely" she gets lonely when she's not getting attention from other people where she is so she calls him to feel better because she's lonely and be gives in a lot to talk to her because he enjoys it. "I'm just a passing plan" sometimes he's able to stay away because he doesn't want her to be dependent on him when she's lonely. She knows he's always come back.

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