Better Man
Solo Lyrics


Jump to: Overall Meaning ↴  Line by Line Meaning ↴

Could have been a better man
A better lover and a better friend
I could have been what I was told to be

Could have been what you wanted to
But I never do the things I should
Will I become what I have been all along
It takes time to find your life
And a life to find that time
It takes as little as we know
It takes passion, it takes peace
Fights and disbelief
But where life leads you, you must go

Could have been a poet or
Simply be the boy next door
Off to war, a soldier smoking roses

I have had my money’s worth
Bought and sold and feinted hurt
But destiny is the ground beneath our feet

It takes time to find your life
And a life to find that time
It takes as little as we know
It takes passion, it takes peace
Fights and disbelief
But where life leads you, you must go

When it all comes down
When it all blows up
When the choices have been made
When it all blows up
When it all comes down

It takes time to find your life
And a life to find that time
It takes as little as we know
It takes passion, it takes peace




Fights and disbelief
But where life leads you, you must go

Overall Meaning

The first two lines of the verse in Solo's song Better Man suggest that the singer could have been a better man, lover, and friend. He acknowledges that he could have taken the path that society urged him to, but he did not adhere as it is evident from when he sings "...But I never do the things I should." This implies that he did not conform to societal expectations and chose to be true to himself. However, he ponders whether he will ever discover his identity and finally become who he was meant to be.


In the chorus, Solo emphasizes that life is a journey that requires time, patience, and commitment. It involves experiencing high and low moments, moments of joy as well as fighting doubts, disbelief, and uncertainty. He is acknowledging the importance of persevering to find a purposeful existence. He advises that everyone should follow their path in life, regardless of the challenges they face on their way.


Line by Line Meaning

Could have been a better man
I had the potential to be a better person


A better lover and a better friend
I could have been more caring and devoted to those I love


I could have been what I was told to be
I had the option to live up to others' expectations of me


Could have been what you wanted to
I had the opportunity to be the person you wished for


But I never do the things I should
I had trouble fulfilling my responsibilities


Will I become what I have been all along
I wonder if I will always stay the same


It takes time to find your life
Discovering your path takes patience


And a life to find that time
It can take an entire lifetime to figure it out


It takes as little as we know
We often start off with very little knowledge


It takes passion, it takes peace
We need both drive and tranquility to succeed


Fights and disbelief
We will face challenges and moments of doubt


But where life leads you, you must go
We must follow our life's journey no matter where it may take us


Could have been a poet or
I could have pursued a creative path


Simply be the boy next door
I could have led a more ordinary life


Off to war, a soldier smoking roses
I might have gone to battle, or taken a dangerous route


I have had my money’s worth
I have experienced what I paid for, but is it enough?


Bought and sold and feinted hurt
I've been manipulated and pretended to be wounded


But destiny is the ground beneath our feet
Fate is the unchanging foundation of our existence


When it all comes down
When everything falls apart


When it all blows up
When things explode and get out of control


When the choices have been made
When decisions have already been set in stone


It takes time to find your life
Discovering your path takes patience


And a life to find that time
It can take an entire lifetime to figure it out


It takes as little as we know
We often start off with very little knowledge


It takes passion, it takes peace
We need both drive and tranquility to succeed


Fights and disbelief
We will face challenges and moments of doubt


But where life leads you, you must go
We must follow our life's journey no matter where it may take us




Contributed by Caroline T. Suggest a correction in the comments below.
To comment on or correct specific content, highlight it

Genre not found
Artist not found
Album not found
Song not found
Comments from YouTube:

Evan Hall

Thanks Ryan!! Your the man, I really appreciate this! Been trying to figure this out for years.

Ryan Lendt

I'm so glad to help! thank you for the request, that was a fun one :)

Dave Norman

Thanks brotha'....your freakin' awesome with your lessons. This one is exactly what i was looking for....been wondering for years how to play it.
Mucho appreciated !

Ryan Lendt

wow thanks for watching this one Dave! I'm really glad that was here for you :)

Gareth Roberts

Another AA+ lesson ryano liono! Nice simple explanation, thanks! This is a great blueprint to play along with someone else! p.s. hope the new home is going well!

Ryan Lendt

glad you liked it Gareth! The home search has FINALLY concluded and I'll have a nice place to narrowcast from shortly here :)

Nick Anderson

Thanks Ryan, obscure request for a rainy day. From touring band DVD foldback/harmony/thunderclap instrumental from the extras. Also the Puzzle and games demo for light years as found on YouTube. Good demo if you haven't heard it. Shares the light years solo.

Ryan Lendt

fantastic - then that's two for puzzles and games :)

Nick Anderson

I have not requested it before, I accidentally stumbled across it a week ago. YouTube was on auto play and never even had heard of it. Definitely worth a listen. Basically light years lyrics with different music except for solo. Thanks again for the channel definitely keeping me busy.

Ryan Lendt

did you request puzzles and games before or was that someone else?? I haven't heard it but it's on my list and I look at it from time to time and think 'maybe i should do this one...' and then I don't of course lol, but I will! And wow way to pull that one out, I'll be popping in that disc to address that sometime!

More Comments

More Versions