Love Don't Bother Me
Stage Dolls Lyrics


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And we're dancing to the beat of the drum, baby
Dancing in the morning sun, baby
Like the moon, we've been up all night
Pretending everythings all right
Heaven knows we're like fire and light, baby
You hold me like I would run away, baby
I can't give you a promise i'll stay, baby
When you tell me I don't really care
And how I treat you is so unfair
Girl I have taken more than I can bare
I know I love you
I tell you I now

Love don't bother me, don't bother me
(love don't bother me)
Love don't bother me, don't bother me
love don't bother me, don't bother me
(don't bother me at all)

In a while I'm gonna leave you alone.
You say time will kill the pain when I'm gone, baby
From the moment I woke up and you're gone
hoping for some miracle cure
You say boy with this you can't be sure
This means forever, it's now or never

Love don't bother me, don't bother me
(don't bother me)
Love don't bother me, don't bother me
Love don't bother me, don't bother me
(don't bother me at all)

And we're dancing to the beat of the drum, baby
dancing in the morning sun
And I'm fighting with a worried man
There's a moment when you cross the line
Is it love? I've got a feeling this time
Nothing's forever, it's now or never

love don't bother me, don't bother me
Love don't bother me, dont bother me
Love don't bother me, don't bother me
(don't bother me at all)





Love don't bother me,don't bother me
Love don't bother me, don't bother me at all...

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Stage Doll's Love Don't Bother Me could be perceived as a bittersweet love song that explores the complexities of love and the struggles of committing to a relationship, yet being afraid of the possibility of hurt and pain. The opening lines set the tone for the song, as the singer describes dancing to the beat of the drum with their lover, basking in the morning sunlight. However, by the sixth line, the truth seeps out: they are pretending everything is okay, and the relationship is almost like fire and light, unpredictable and dangerous.


In the second verse, the singer admits to their fear of commitment, telling their lover that they cannot promise they will stay. This vulnerability is immediately followed by the lover blaming them for not caring and treating them unfairly. The singer comes clean, admitting that they have taken more than they can bear, and acknowledging that they love the other person, but they cannot be certain of what the future holds. They continue to repeat the refrain, "Love don't bother me, don't bother me," emphasizing their nonchalance towards the idea of love.


The bridge is a turning point, expressing the tension between coming and going in a relationship. The singer acknowledges that they will be leaving soon and understands that time will help their lover heal, but the uncertainty of the future remains. The song ends with the question of whether or not what they feel is love or just a fleeting feeling. It is a poignant and honest depiction of the complicated nature of relationships, where love can both uplift and terrify a person.


Line by Line Meaning

And we're dancing to the beat of the drum, baby
We are enjoying the rhythm of the drum while we dance.


Dancing in the morning sun, baby
We dance under the sun in the morning.


Like the moon, we've been up all night
We stayed up all night, just like the moon.


Pretending everythings all right
We fake that everything is okay.


Heaven knows we're like fire and light, baby
Our passion is like the intensity of fire and the brightness of light.


You hold me like I would run away, baby
You hold me tightly like I'm going to flee.


I can't give you a promise i'll stay, baby
I cannot promise to stay with you.


When you tell me I don't really care
When you say I don't care about you.


And how I treat you is so unfair
You claim that I'm treating you unjustly.


Girl I have taken more than I can bare
I've endured more than I can handle.


I know I love you
I am aware that I love you.


Love don't bother me, don't bother me
Love doesn't affect me negatively.


(love don't bother me)
Love doesn't trouble me.


In a while I'm gonna leave you alone.
Soon, I will leave you by yourself.


You say time will kill the pain when I'm gone, baby
You believe that with time, the pain will subside.


From the moment I woke up and you're gone
As soon as I woke up, you were no longer there.


hoping for some miracle cure
I wish for a miraculous remedy.


You say boy with this you can't be sure
You assert that you cannot be certain about this.


This means forever, it's now or never
This event is perpetual; nothing can change it, and it should happen now.


And I'm fighting with a worried man
I confront a troubled person.


There's a moment when you cross the line
There is a time when boundaries are violated.


Is it love? I've got a feeling this time
Is it love? I sense it this time.


Nothing's forever, it's now or never
Everything is temporary; the opportunity must be seized now or it will be lost.


Love don't bother me, don't bother me
Love does not cause me any distress.


Love don't bother me, dont bother me
Love does not annoy me at all.


Love don't bother me, don't bother me
Love doesn't affect me negatively.


(don't bother me at all)
It does not affect me in any way.




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@matipach6155

And we're dancing to the beat of the drum, baby
Dancing in the morning sun, baby
Like the moon, we've been up all night
Pretending everythings all right
Heaven knows we're like fire and light, baby
You hold me like I would run away, baby
I can't give you a promise i'll stay, baby

When you tell me I don't really care
And how I treat you is so unfair
Girl I have taken more than I can bare
I know I love you
I tell you I now

Love don't bother me, don't bother me
(love don't bother me)
Love don't bother me, don't bother me
Love don't bother me, don't bother me
(don't bother me at all)

In a while I'm gonna leave you alone
You say time will kill the pain when I'm gone, baby
From the moment I woke up and you're gone
Hoping for some miracle cure
You say boy with this you can't be sure
This means forever, it's now or never

Love don't bother me, don't bother me
(don't bother me)
Love don't bother me, don't bother me
Love don't bother me, don't bother me
(don't bother me at all)

And we're dancing to the beat of the drum, baby
Dancing in the morning sun
And I'm fighting with a worried man
There's a moment when you cross the line
Is it love? I've got a feeling this time
Nothing's forever, it's now or never

Love don't bother me, don't bother me
Love don't bother me, dont bother me
Love don't bother me, don't bother me
(don't bother me at all)



All comments from YouTube:

@patrickreeves4650

This song found me in 1996 during my senior year of high school. This song said all the words I felt about a girl I liked a lot. To this day, it still takes me back to that place when I hear it. Incredible song. How was this not the biggest song in America back in 1991?

@ThomRock

Nirvana and grunge

@roberthawk7085

I've always said this was one of the most underrated songs of that time period. Great lyrics. Great sound. Great melody. Great story in the song. Yet, Stage Dolls didn't get much airplay. Such a shame. They really could have been something special in America.

@chaddeez8446

MTV and the times. They had to depress us. Well Bush Sr. was in office and trying to take out sadam for oil and territory. Very depressing times like right now and all the propaganda repeating again...

@jtmichaelson

Found these guys working at a Florida FM rock station in 1989. We'd gotten the promo CD for "Lorraine" and I fell instantly in love with the song. However, they never made our playlist. "Love Cries" got an on-air spin for just a week. When we were doing our annual clearout of music, my PD gave us the abandoned CDs and I took home the "Lorraine" CD promo single and their self-titled (apparent US Debut) disc on Chrysalis Records, and since then I've collected all things Stage Dolls. But Stripped is my favorite album. "Life In America" is my second favorite on that one after "Love Don't Bother Me". But their most amazing song is "Hard To Say Goodbye". Why they never took off here in North America is both a mystery and a shame. These guys are the best at what they do.

One side note: As a huge "All Things Springsteen" fan, I watched Little Stevie's "Lilyhammer" series and in one scene at a nightclub this very song was playing in the club. It was a tiny shock to my system hear that on a relatively known TV show here in the U.S.

@shawnpooley

A travesty they weren't bigger. I discovered them in 1989 too with the Love Cries video on MTV. I wore that tape and album out. Love Cries is my favorite song, killer riff. I'm in radio too, and I have spinned them three times on my show this year.

@pettergrnlien2825

#JTMichaelson Did you know that Torstein, the singer
formed Stage Dolls after be in another Norwegian band, called The Kids? The Kids singer, Dag Ingebritsen is the founder of TNT, where Tony Harnell was vocalist. What a great voice Tony had btw.

@rodrigodevon1152

i realize Im kind of randomly asking but do anyone know of a good place to stream newly released tv shows online ?

@davionjasper9179

@Rodrigo Devon Ehh I watch on Flixportal. Just google for it :P -davion

@rodrigodevon1152

@Davion Jasper thank you, I signed up and it seems like they got a lot of movies there :D Appreciate it !!

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