You're Putting A Rush On Me
Stephanie Mills Lyrics


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You're puttin' a rush on me
But I'd like to know you better
You're puttin' a rush on me
But I'd like to know you better

What kind of girl do you think I am
It's just too soon, can't you understand
I'm not the kind of girl who has to
Lay you down before I fall in love
It's been kind of relaxed here waiting
But baby, you got to slow down

You're puttin' a rush on me
But I'd like to know you better (Maybe next time)
You're puttin' a rush on me
But I'd like to know you better (Baby)

You're puttin' a rush on me
But I'd like to know you better (Maybe next time)
You're puttin' a rush on me
But I'd like to know you better (Baby)

Please just be patient if nothing else, oh, babe
Just know that I respect myself, yes, I do
But I hope I didn't lead you to thinking
Thinking that I was that easy, boy
I know that we're living in the 80s
Yet some things never change

You're puttin' a rush on me
But I'd like to know you better (Maybe next time)
You're puttin' a rush on me
But I'd like to know you better (Baby)

You're puttin' a rush on me
But I'd like to know you better (Maybe next time)
You're puttin' a rush on me
But I'd like to know you better (Baby)

I'm just an old fashioned girl
When it comes down to love
Before I give you some love
I've got to be sure your intentions are pure

(Oh, babe) You're puttin' a rush on me (Take it easy, baby)
But I'd like to know you better (Don't rush it, baby)
You're puttin' a rush on me
But I'd like to know you better (Maybe next time, oh)

You're puttin' a rush on me (Oh, oh, oh, yeah, yeah)

You're puttin' a rush on me (Puttin' a rush on me)
Baby, can't you see (Oh, can't you see)
Puttin' a rush on me (You're puttin' a rush on me)
Yeh, ey, hey, hey

You're puttin' a rush on me (Oh, babe)
But I'd like to know you better (Puttin' a rush on me, don't-don't do it, babe)
You're puttin' a rush on me (I can't stand it, baby)
But I'd like to know you better (Don't you do it, baby, ah oh oh)

You're puttin' a rush on me (Oh oh oh oh)
But I'd like to know you better (Yeah)

You're puttin' a rush on me (You're puttin' a rush on me)
Oh, baby, can't you see (Oh, baby, can't you see)
Puttin' a rush on me (Puttin' a rush on me)
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I'd like to know

You're puttin' a rush on me
But I'd like to know you better (Oh, baby, ooh, ooh, ooh, babe)
You're puttin' a rush on me (Slow down, boy)
But I'd like to know you better (Take it easy)





You're puttin' a rush on me
But I'd like to know you better

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of Stephanie Mills's song "You're Putting A Rush On Me" center around a woman who is hesitant to jump into a relationship too quickly with a man. She tells him that she wants to get to know him better before taking things to the next level, and feels that he is rushing her. She doesn't want to be seen as an easy girl, and believes that he should be patient and understand that she values herself and her boundaries. The song suggests that some things never change, and that even in the modern era, it's important to have respect for oneself and take things slow when it comes to matters of the heart.


The lyrics of the song are reflective of the time period in which it was released, as the 1980s saw a shift in popular culture toward more casual relationships and sexual liberation. However, despite this societal change, many people still hold traditional values when it comes to romance and prefer to take things at a slower pace.


Overall, "You're Putting A Rush On Me" is a cautionary tale about the importance of respecting oneself and not giving into pressure from others. It encourages listeners to take their time when it comes to dating and relationships, and reminds them that it's okay to set boundaries and prioritize their own wellbeing.


Line by Line Meaning

You're puttin' a rush on me
You're pressuring me to get physical with you, and it's making me uncomfortable


But I'd like to know you better
I'm interested in getting to know you on a deeper level before jumping into anything physical


What kind of girl do you think I am
I'm offended that you assume I'm the type of girl who gives it up easily


It's just too soon, can't you understand
I need more time to get to know you before we can take things to the next level


I'm not the kind of girl who has to Lay you down before I fall in love
I don't believe in having sex before forming an emotional connection


It's been kind of relaxed here waiting, But baby, you got to slow down
I've been enjoying taking things slow, and I need you to respect that pace


Please just be patient if nothing else, oh, babe
I'm asking you to be patient with me and respect my boundaries


Just know that I respect myself, yes, I do
I value myself and my worth and won't settle for anything less than what I deserve


But I hope I didn't lead you to thinking Thinking that I was that easy, boy
I don't want you to think that I'm easy or that I'm leading you on


I know that we're living in the 80s Yet some things never change
Even though it's the 80s, some things, like the importance of building a connection before sex, remain the same


I'm just an old fashioned girl When it comes down to love
I have traditional values when it comes to love and relationships


Before I give you some love I've got to be sure your intentions are pure
I won't engage in any physical activity until I'm certain that you genuinely care for me on an emotional level


Baby, can't you see
I need you to understand where I'm coming from


Puttin' a rush on me
Your behavior is making me feel like you're pushing me to do something I'm not ready for


Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I'd like to know
I'm not closed off to the idea of pursuing a relationship with you, but I need to establish trust and emotional intimacy first


Slow down, boy
I need you to slow down physically and emotionally


Take it easy
I need you to respect my boundaries and pace in this relationship




Lyrics © Universal Music Publishing Group, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: PAUL LAURENCE JONES, TIMOTHY MONROE ALLEN

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Can we give this Queen a lifetime achievement award?
Stephanie is a living legend

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@geedawg1946

Never gets old! Her voice is so awesome.

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Queen Stefanie, can sang it now, yessssss she can.

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