That's The Way It Goes
Swing Out Sister Lyrics


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Love passed us by
Before the chance was asked to take
We had to hide behind the vows we couldn't break
More than just friends

But to others we were innocent
We pretend we didn't stop what had to end
Could have been you
But you came around to late

Could have been some good times
We couldn't change the course of fate
Got no remedy
Got no cure

Stop these memories
Cause I can't take no more
We realized too late
That's the way it goes

A love that couldn't wait
That's the way it goes
My loss and your mistake
That's the way it goes

This final twist of fate
That's the way it goes
Missin' you more than ever
That's the way it goes

That's the way it goes
Memories last forever
That's the way it goes
That's the way it goes

Doubts through my mind
Question everything I do
Not satisifed 'til all I think about is you
Though strapped in tight

But would give soley to me
Not mine until you're here to set them free
Could have been you
But you came around to late

Could have been some good times
We couldn't change the course of fate
Got no remedy
Got no cure

Stop these memories
'Cause I can't take no more
I realized too late
That's the way it goes

A love that couldn't wait
That's the way it goes
My loss and your mistake
That's the way it goes

This final twist of fate
That's the way it goes
Missin' you more than ever
That's the way it goes

That's the way it goes
Memories last forever
That's the way it goes
That's the way it goes

We realized too late
That's the way it goes
A love that couldn't wait
That's the way it goes

My loss and your mistake
That's the way it goes
This final twist of fate
That's the way it goes

Missin' you more than ever
That's the way it goes
That's the way it goes
Memories last forever





That's the way it goes
That's the way it goes

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to Swing Out Sister's song "That's The Way It Goes" describe a missed opportunity for love that haunts the singer as she reflects on what could have been. The song explores the regret and pain that come with not taking a chance on love when it presents itself. The opening lines of the song, "Love passed us by, before the chance was asked to take," acknowledge that the opportunity for love was there, but they were unable to act on it at the time. The reference to "vows we couldn't break" suggests that perhaps one or both parties were in relationships, and while they may have had feelings for each other, they were unable to pursue anything further.


The lyrics also touch on the idea of perception, as the singer says that "to others we were innocent," hinting that even if they had acted on their feelings, it may have gone unnoticed or been dismissed. The chorus, "We realized too late, that's the way it goes," speaks to the finality of the situation and the acceptance that the opportunity for love has passed. The line, "Memories last forever," serves as a reminder that even if things didn't work out, the memories and feelings associated with that missed opportunity will remain.


Overall, "That's The Way It Goes" is a reflection on missed chances and the regret that comes with them. It explores the pain of what could have been and the realization that some things, like fate, are beyond our control.


Line by Line Meaning

Love passed us by
We missed a chance at love


Before the chance was asked to take
Before we could even try


We had to hide behind the vows we couldn't break
We had to put our love aside and pretend to be just friends


More than just friends
But we had a deeper connection


But to others we were innocent
But no one knew the truth about us


We pretend we didn't stop what had to end
We acted like we didn't know it wouldn't work out


Could have been you
We could have had something real


But you came around too late
But you missed your chance


Could have been some good times
We could have had some great memories


We couldn't change the course of fate
But fate had other plans for us


Got no remedy
We can't fix what's already happened


Got no cure
We can't make the pain go away


Stop these memories
We can't keep dwelling on the past


Cause I can't take no more
Because it hurts too much to remember


We realized too late
We finally understood, but it was too late


That's the way it goes
That's just how life is sometimes


A love that couldn't wait
Our love wasn't meant to be


My loss and your mistake
We both lost out on something great


This final twist of fate
This was our tragic ending


Missin' you more than ever
I still feel your absence


Memories last forever
But our memories will never fade




Lyrics © BMG Rights Management, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC, Peermusic Publishing
Written by: ANDREW JOHN CONNELL, CORINNE DREWERY, TIM CANSFIELD, DONALD GEORGE JOHNSON, MICHAEL GEORGE LAWRENCE

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Duncan Bleak

That voice
That Baseline
That arrangement
That is Swing Out Sister at their catchy, addictive, rhythmic best!

yankee4649ne

Ive been listening their album over 20 years starting from this album .Message from Japan.

Pablo Sanz

This must be like 1000th time I've listened to this song and it still blows me away! BASS!

JORGE JAUREGUI

estoy totalmente de acuerdo!

aucifer1970

JAMAS ME
CANSARE DE ESCUCHARLOS!! SU MUSICA ES UNICA!!

Randy S

I LOVE THIS GROUP.BEEN A FAN SINCE 1987-TWILIGHT WORLD/SURRENDER DAYS.

Maurice Ngakane

Me2...

Tony F

When i saw Swing Out Sister in Atlanta in 1994 after this album was released...the energy during the song was great...one great song...

Juan Carlos Pagán

Como único podía escuchar jazz era con la voz de Corinne. Fue una gran sorpresa encontrar esta cassette en una tienda de discos en Puerto Rico con sus letras tan pequeñas en el lomo. Luego adquirí la versión en CD y desde entonces no dejo de escucharlo. Excelente música.

Ani Ta

LOVE THAT VOICE!!!

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