You Don't Know Me
Syl Johnson Lyrics


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You give your hand to me
And you said hello
I can't hardly speak
My heart is beating so
And anyone can tell
You think you know me well
But you don't know me
No, you don't know the one
Who dreams of you at night
And longs to kiss your lips
Longs to hold you tight
Oh, I'm just a friend
That's all I've ever been
But you don't know me
I never knew the art of making love
Though my heartaches with love for you
Afraid and shy I've let my chance go by
A chance that you might love me too

No, you don't know the one
Who dreams of you at night
And longs to kiss your lips
Longs to hold you tight
Oh, I'm just a friend
That's all I've ever been
But you don't know me
I never knew the art of making love
Though my heartaches with love for you
Afraid and shy I've let my chance go by
A chance that you might love me too

No, you don't know the one
Who dreams of you at night
And longs to kiss your lips
And just wanna to hold you tight
Oh, anyone can tell
You think you know me well
But you don't know me
Oh, anyone can tell




You think you me well
But you don't know me.

Overall Meaning

In Syl Johnson's "You Don't Know Me," the singer croons about being hopelessly in love with someone who doesn't see him as anything more than a friend. He begins by describing the moment when they met, with the other person extending their hand for a greeting. Johnson's heart is so full of emotion that he can barely bring himself to speak. He notes that, despite their pleasantries, the other person doesn't really know him at all: they may think they do, but there's so much more depth to him that they haven't yet discovered.


The song then dives into a classic unrequited love story, with Johnson admitting that he dreams of the other person every night and longs to hold them and kiss them. However, he is too shy and fearful to express his true feelings; instead, he remains a mere friend, unable to act on his desires. He notes that he's never really known how to make love or how to put his feelings into words, and he worries that he's already missed his chance to be with the one he loves. The song ends with a repetition of the chorus, driving home the idea that the other person may think they know Johnson, but they can't truly see the depth of his emotions.


Overall, "You Don't Know Me" is a poignant and emotional ballad about longing for someone who may not feel the same way. It speaks to the universal themes of unrequited love and the pain of hidden desire, making it a track that has resonated with listeners for decades.


Line by Line Meaning

You give your hand to me
You offer your hand as a greeting


And you said hello
You greeted me with a hello


I can't hardly speak
I'm so overcome with emotion that I can barely speak


My heart is beating so
My heart is racing with excitement


And anyone can tell
It's obvious to anyone


You think you know me well
You believe you understand me fully


But you don't know me
But you don't truly know who I am


No, you don't know the one
You're not aware of the person


Who dreams of you at night
Who dreams about being with you at night


And longs to kiss your lips
And desires to kiss your lips


Longs to hold you tight
And wishes to hold you close


Oh, I'm just a friend
Oh, I'm only a friend


That's all I've ever been
That's the only role I've played in your life


But you don't know me
But you're not familiar with my deepest desires and feelings


I never knew the art of making love
I never learned how to be romantic


Though my heart aches with love for you
Even though my heart is filled with love for you


Afraid and shy I've let my chance go by
I've been too scared and timid to pursue you


A chance that you might love me too
A possibility that you might have feelings for me as well


And just wanna to hold you tight
And simply want to hold you close


Oh, anyone can tell
Oh, it's clear to anyone


You think you know me well
You're convinced that you have a deep understanding of me


But you don't know me
But you don't truly comprehend who I am


Oh, anyone can tell
Oh, it's obvious to anyone


You think you me well
You believe you have me completely figured out


But you don't know me.
But you have no idea who I truly am.




Writer(s): Cindy Walker, Eddy Arnold

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