I'm Not the One
Teen Idols Lyrics


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Last night I saw you crying
In the arms of another guy and
Each lonely teardrop was for me
His hand was on your shoulder
Somehow you looked much older
New love has changed you totally

Each day it feels so strange
Since our closet's rearranged
I'm not feeling quite the same
Cuz I'm alone

I'm not the one
I'm not the one
I'm not the one who said
I don't want to be with you

I remember reading your letters
And the nights I slept with your sweater
The only thing you left behind
You said that you'd outgrown me




You were tired of feeling lonely
Now it's too late to change your mind

Overall Meaning

The song I'm Not The One by Teen Idols explores the emotions of heartbreak and betrayal. The lyrics suggest that the singer, who was once in a relationship with the person they are singing about, feels hurt and forgotten after seeing their ex-partner with someone else. The choice of words in the first few lines, "Last night I saw you crying/In the arms of another guy," immediately establishes a sense of conflict and loss.


The lyrics continue to depict the singer's sense of confusion and loneliness, implying that the break-up was not mutual, and that they were not prepared for it. The lines "Each day it feels so strange/Since our closet's rearranged/I'm not feeling quite the same/Cuz I'm alone" suggest that they are still coming to terms with the fact that their relationship has ended. The chorus, "I'm not the one/I'm not the one/I'm not the one who said/I don't want to be with you," highlights the singer's belief that they were willing to continue the relationship, while their ex-partner was the one who called things off.


The bridge of the song, "I remember reading your letters/And the nights I slept with your sweater/The only thing you left behind/You said that you'd outgrown me/You were tired of feeling lonely/Now it's too late to change your mind," emphasizes the singer's attachment to their ex-partner, and how they have been left with nothing but memories of the past. Overall, the song I'm Not The One is a poignant expression of the emotions that come with heartbreak, and the feeling of not being able to move on.


Line by Line Meaning

Last night I saw you crying
I witnessed you shedding tears last night


In the arms of another guy and
You were being comforted by a different man


Each lonely teardrop was for me
Each tear was an expression of your grief for our relationship


His hand was on your shoulder
He was consoling you physically by placing his hand on your shoulder


Somehow you looked much older
I noticed sudden changes in your appearance that made you look older than your age


New love has changed you totally
Your new relationship has brought about a complete transformation in your personality


Each day it feels so strange
Every day feels bizarre and unfamiliar


Since our closet's rearranged
Since you emptied our shared closet of your belongings


I'm not feeling quite the same
My emotions have changed and I am not the same person I used to be


Cuz I'm alone
Because I am now by myself


I'm not the one
I am not the person you are searching for


I'm not the one
I am not the partner you are looking for


I'm not the one who said
I did not say


I don't want to be with you
I do not wish to continue our relationship


I remember reading your letters
I recall reading the letters you had written to me in the past


And the nights I slept with your sweater
I recall sleeping with the sweater that belonged to you


The only thing you left behind
The only object you left in my possession


You said that you'd outgrown me
You claimed that you had grown too mature for our relationship


You were tired of feeling lonely
You were exhausted from being alone


Now it's too late to change your mind
It is currently past the point where you can change your decision




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Justin Nuckolls

Bought this CD straight from the band at The NEW DAISY Memphis TN in 1998 (senior year of HS) MY GOD HEATHER was F'N HOT on that mike! I got to meet all of them though after the Offspring show but Ironically I fell more in love w/ southern punk than anything else after that... I.E. Random Conflict (Huntsville AL) - PEZZ (Memphis, TN) and AVAIL (Richmond, VA) !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :)

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