How Can I
The Aardvarks Lyrics


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In the morning

I am gonna take over mars, i am gonna be a better man
I am gonna show you the best of this world, while holding your hand
It might not mean something now, but it'll mean something later
After dinner i'll get the bill, and you can tip the waiter

Can't walk right up to you, and say you're lovely ("You're lovely")
So i'll wander this club, and hope you'll walk up to me ("To me")
Get no sense of this dance floor, fall into your eyes ("Or your lies")
Take me home tonight, and i'll move down between your thighs

I can hardly believe that you want me in your bed
I can hardly believe that you want me to know you there
I can hardly believe that you want me in the morning
I can hardly believe that you want me here at all

My friends say you're too good for the likes of me
But few friends i got and only a few friends i need
So i'll take you out, to where you want to go
I'll do the things you like and put on a private show

We get drunk in public restrooms, and run through public parks
After dark we swim in water holes, and then try to find our clothes
Lost our bikes and our frisbee in the woods
So we walk on home between raindrops on our tip toes

I can hardly believe that you want me in your bed
I can hardly believe that you want me to know you there
I can hardly believe that you want me in the morning
I can hardly believe that you want me here at all





It takes time getting use to it but i am getting use to it, alright

Overall Meaning

The lyrics of The Aardvarks's song "How Can I" depict a narrative of infatuation and disbelief in a romantic relationship. The singer expresses their desire to impress and cherish their partner, promising to showcase the beauty of the world while holding hands. The lyrics suggest a sense of optimism and determination, with the singer vowing to make a positive impact and create lasting memories. The mention of taking responsibility for the bill and encouraging the partner to tip the waiter reflects a sense of equality and consideration in the relationship.


The second verse delves into the insecurity and nervousness of the singer as they navigate a social setting, hoping for a chance encounter with the object of their affection. The imagery of a crowded club and the longing for connection convey a sense of vulnerability and yearning for reciprocation. The lyrics touch on themes of self-doubt and the desire for validation, as the singer fantasizes about intimacy and closeness with the partner.


Despite the doubts and external judgments from friends, the singer remains steadfast in their commitment to the relationship. The lyrics reveal a rebellious spirit as the couple engages in spontaneous and adventurous activities, symbolizing a sense of freedom and uninhibited passion. The imagery of getting lost in nature and embracing spontaneity conveys a sense of abandon and living in the moment with a sense of joy and exhilaration.


The final lines of the song hint at a gradual acceptance of the reality of the relationship, acknowledging the initial disbelief and uncertainty. The singer acknowledges the process of adjusting to a new dynamic and expresses a sense of acceptance and understanding. The song captures the journey of falling in love, overcoming insecurities, and embracing vulnerability to forge a genuine connection with another person.




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Written by: Christopher Stott-Rigsbee

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