Not a Love Song
The Bones Lyrics


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Goddamn it
You said it
Said to me that I had nothing to lose
Got pissed on
And you gave me the blues

Bad morning
All alone
Waking up from a barfight, lost my comb
Got cheated on
Well I piss on you
'cause you gave me the blues

The loving was bad
The loving I had wasn't mine
There was something about it
Something about it
That made me lose my mind
Love is unkind
The loving I had wasn't mine
There was something about it
Something about it
That made me lose my mind

Tried hating
Tried dating
Made mistakes that I'll never do again
Got shit on, well I piss on you
'cause you gave me the blues

The loving was bad
The loving I had wasn't mine
There was something about it
Something about it
That made me lose my mind
Love is unkind
The loving I had wasn't mine
There was something about it
Something about it
That made me lose my mind

Got stepped on
Got pissed on
Don't ever fuck with me again
Well I've got news
News for you
I'll give you the blues

The loving was bad
The loving I had wasn't mine
There was something about it
Something about it
That made me lose my mind
Love is unkind
The loving I had wasn't mine
There was something about it
Something about it
That made me lose my mind

The loving was bad
The loving was bad
The loving I had
The loving that wasn't mine




I lost my mind
I lost my mind

Overall Meaning

The Bones' song "Not a Love Song" tells the story of a failed and toxic relationship, with the singer feeling angry and hurt by their partner's behavior. The opening lines set the tone for the rest of the song, with the singer feeling fed up and frustrated with their situation. They feel like they have nothing left to lose and have been pushed to the brink by their partner's actions. The line "Got pissed on and you gave me the blues" is a metaphor for the way the partner has treated the singer, making them feel low and unhappy.


The rest of the song describes the aftermath of the failed relationship, with the singer waking up alone after a bar fight and feeling like they've lost something important to them. They try to move on, but their attempts at dating and hating their ex backfire, leaving them feeling even more desperate and upset. The chorus repeats the idea that the loving they had wasn't real or genuine, and that they've lost their mind over it.


Overall, "Not a Love Song" is a raw and emotional reflection on a failed relationship, with the singer feeling hurt, angry, and rejected. The lyrics are honest and vulnerable, and the driving beat and electric guitar create a sense of tension and energy that matches the emotion of the words.


Line by Line Meaning

Goddamn it
Expression of frustration/anger


You said it
Acknowledgement of something previously said


Said to me that I had nothing to lose
Told me that I had nothing to lose in a situation


Got pissed on
Was mistreated/betrayed


And you gave me the blues
Feeling sad or depressed due to said mistreatment


Bad morning
A rough start to the day


All alone
Feeling lonely or isolated


Waking up from a barfight, lost my comb
Recalling a negative incident (barfight) and an inconsequential item (lost comb)


Got cheated on
Was betrayed by someone I was in a relationship with


Well I piss on you
A retaliation against the person who cheated


'cause you gave me the blues
Feeling sad or depressed due to said mistreatment


The loving was bad
The romantic relationship was negative


The loving I had wasn't mine
The romantic relationship wasn't healthy or fulfilling


There was something about it
An unknown factor contributing to the negative nature of the relationship


Something about it
An unknown factor contributing to the negative nature of the relationship


That made me lose my mind
The relationship was so negative that it affected my mental stability


Love is unkind
The experience of love can be painful


Tried hating
Attempted to feel hatred towards someone


Tried dating
Attempted to start a new romantic relationship


Made mistakes that I'll never do again
Learned from previous experiences and won't make the same mistakes again


Got shit on
Was mistreated/betrayed


Well I piss on you
A retaliation against the person who mistreated me


'cause you gave me the blues
Feeling sad or depressed due to said mistreatment


Got stepped on
Was mistreated/betrayed


Don't ever fuck with me again
A warning to the person who mistreated me not to do so again


Well I've got news
I have something to say


News for you
A message directed towards the person who betrayed me


I'll give you the blues
I'll make you feel sad or depressed


The loving was bad
The romantic relationship was negative


The loving I had wasn't mine
The romantic relationship wasn't healthy or fulfilling


There was something about it
An unknown factor contributing to the negative nature of the relationship


Something about it
An unknown factor contributing to the negative nature of the relationship


That made me lose my mind
The relationship was so negative that it affected my mental stability


Love is unkind
The experience of love can be painful


The loving was bad
The romantic relationship was negative


The loving was bad
The romantic relationship was negative


The loving I had
The romantic relationship I experienced


The loving that wasn't mine
The romantic relationship that wasn't healthy or fulfilling


I lost my mind
The relationship was so negative that it affected my mental stability




Writer(s): Marcus Karl Petersson, Anders Waldemarsson, Jonas Andersen, Fredrik Andersen

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