Helping hand
The Dog Days Lyrics


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You called me once
You called me twice
I wouldn't listen to your advice
As the phone lay off the hook
All my motives you mistook
But I felt your helping hand
There's a saying told by man
You shouldn't catch a falling friend
Why you'd want to fall with me
I don't know but you'll soon see
That there is no promised land

Oh, so don't let it go to waste
We're all too often
Reeled in by fate
I'm just a damaged fool
And you're reaching out too soon

I tore the words from every page
To wear the wisdom of a sage
But the cloak it never fits
I'm always naked under it
Won't you ever understand?
So i'm told that all you need
Is to ask and you'll receive
But the problem never hides
Its the same old foolish pride
And it stops the helping hands

Yeah, so don't let it go to waste
We're all too often reeled in by fate
I'm just a damaged fool
and you're reaching out too soon

So... don't let us go to waste
We're all too often reeled in by fate
I'm just a damaged fool
And I'm reaching out to you...

Still I turn & Still you yearn
For the gesture to be returned
Bridges builtBridges burned




Wonder if we'll ever learn
That it's just a helping hand

Overall Meaning

The song "Helping Hand" by The Dog Days talks about the struggles of a person with their own pride and how it hinders them from receiving the help that they need. The lyrics are written in the perspective of someone who is stubborn and resistant to anyone who tries to lend a helping hand. They portray themselves as a "damaged fool," who tears words from every page to wear the wisdom of a sage but never feels it fits. The singer seems to carelessly throw away the advice and recommendations of their well-meaning friends, causing those friends to become frustrated and eventually give up helping. The singer also reflects on the underlying reasons for their prideful behavior, acknowledging that their foolish pride is the problem that prevents them from receiving help. Despite their reservations, the singer reaches out to the person, acknowledging that the help they received earlier was appreciated, and they want to return the favor.


The lyrics of "Helping Hand" successfully communicate the complicated emotions that someone may experience when it comes to accepting help from others. It portrays the inner battle of wanting to be self-sufficient while struggling simultaneously.


Line by Line Meaning

You called me once
You reached out to me for help


You called me twice
You followed up with me again


I wouldn't listen to your advice
I ignored your suggestions


As the phone lay off the hook
I didn't pick up the phone


All my motives you mistook
You misinterpreted my intentions


But I felt your helping hand
However, I appreciated your offer to help


There's a saying told by man
There's a common expression


You shouldn't catch a falling friend
You shouldn't get too involved with someone who is struggling


Why you'd want to fall with me
I don't understand why you'd want to get involved in my struggles


I don't know but you'll soon see
However, you'll soon realize


That there is no promised land
That there's no guarantee of success or happiness


Oh, so don't let it go to waste
So, don't waste this opportunity to help each other


We're all too often Reeled in by fate
We're often influenced by unpredictable circumstances


I'm just a damaged fool
I'm flawed and struggling


And you're reaching out too soon
And I'm not ready or able to accept your help yet


I tore the words from every page
I tried to gain wisdom from any source available


To wear the wisdom of a sage
To emulate a wise person


But the cloak it never fits
But the wisdom never quite applies to my situation


I'm always naked under it
I'm still vulnerable and exposed


Won't you ever understand?
Can't you see my struggle?


So i'm told that all you need
I've heard that all you have to do


Is to ask and you'll receive
Is to request help and you'll get it


But the problem never hides
But the issue is never that simple


Its the same old foolish pride
It's my stubbornness that prevents me from accepting help


And it stops the helping hands
And it prevents me from receiving assistance


Still I turn & Still you yearn
I continue to refuse help and you want to offer help


For the gesture to be returned
You want me to help you in return


Bridges built Bridges burned
Our relationship is in flux, as we've had positive and negative interactions


Wonder if we'll ever learn
I wonder if we'll ever figure out how to help each other


That it's just a helping hand
That sometimes, all that's needed is a small amount of assistance




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