You Can't Forget
The Dream Syndicate Lyrics


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She says she's changing everything you knew her as
I see she even dyed her hair but the roots still show
cause you can't rip the claws from your back
when you've watched them grow under your skin
but she takes the bus crosstown to avoid all her friends
throws her moneydown and forgets about ends
says she's starting new but I think there's nothing left
cause you can wipe the slate but
you can't forget

she tore up all the pictures and ripped all the notes
and threw out all the things that reminded
her of him

but she takes the bus.....etc.

and now she's almost dead because you can't describe her
she's not taking any weight, ...she's certainly learned by now

you can't forget




you can't forget
(6X)

Overall Meaning

The Dream Syndicate's song "You Can't Forget" is a haunting and melancholic portrayal of a woman's attempt to start over after a failed relationship. The lyrics depict her desperate need for change, but also her inability to completely let go of the past. The opening line, "She says she's changing everything you knew her as," suggests that she is trying to turn over a new leaf and leave behind the person she was when she was with her ex-partner. However, the line that follows, "I see she even dyed her hair but the roots still show," indicates that she is still struggling with remnants of her old self.


The verse "cause you can't rip the claws from your back when you've watched them grow under your skin" speaks to the idea that changing deeply ingrained behaviors and patterns is incredibly difficult. The line "throws her money down and forgets about ends" suggests a recklessness or impulsiveness that may have contributed to her failed relationship. The repetition of the phrase "you can't forget" in the chorus emphasizes the theme of the song and the woman's inability to fully move on.


Overall, "You Can't Forget" is a poignant meditation on the difficulty of change, the enduring grip of the past, and the struggle to rebuild after heartbreak.


Line by Line Meaning

She says she's changing everything you knew her as
She claims to be transforming and revamping her entire identity


I see she even dyed her hair but the roots still show
Despite dyeing her hair, the natural roots that contradict her transformation are still visible


cause you can't rip the claws from your back
It's difficult to remove the deeply embedded issues that have attached to you over time


when you've watched them grow under your skin
It's almost impossible to get rid of problems that you have ignored and allowed to fester over time


but she takes the bus crosstown to avoid all her friends
She strategically avoids running into her friends by taking a bus going in the opposite direction


throws her money down and forgets about ends
She spends money recklessly without paying attention to the financial consequences


says she's starting new but I think there's nothing left
She claims to be embarking on a new beginning, but there's nothing significant left to change in her life


cause you can wipe the slate but
You can erase something from your life, but


you can't forget
It's impossible to make the memories and past experiences vanish completely


she tore up all the pictures and ripped all the notes
She destroyed all physical objects that reminded her of her past relationship


and threw out all the things that reminded her of him
She discarded anything that could connect her to her former partner


and now she's almost dead because you can't describe her
The woman has become a shell of her former self as the changes she attempted to make have failed to provide her any relief


she's not taking any weight, ...she's certainly learned by now
She realizes that the burdens that she's been carrying around can't simply be ignored and are still present in her life


you can't forget
No matter how much you try to alter the circumstances, certain memories and experiences will never fully disappear


you can't forget
The message is repeated as a reminder that some things can't truly be erased from your mind


(6X)
The phrase is repeated six times to emphasize its significance throughout the song




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