Don't Ever Change
The Jesus and Mary Chain Lyrics


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Well I guess I never saw her in that way
Well I guessed everything always ends that way
Oh I guess I should have tried to make her stay
Keep on coming
Keep on coming

Some people live their lives to understand
Some people live their lives to take command
But the day has come when I must make my stand
Keep on coming
Keep on coming

Don't ever change
Don't ever change
Change
Change
If I can't get to you

It's just the way you tried to hold me down
You got a hold on me and I'm scared to make a sound
And you know everything I ever tried to say




Come on keep on coming please don't walk away
You got a hold on me and I'm scared to let you go

Overall Meaning

The lyrics to The Jesus and Mary Chain's song "Don't Ever Change" appear to be about a person who regrets not seeing someone in a romantic way before, but now acknowledges it and wishes they had tried to keep that person around. The first stanza seems to acknowledge the singer's past mistakes and how they failed to keep the person close.


The next stanza seems to suggest that different people have different priorities in their lives, with some wanting to lead and others just wanting to understand. The singer admits they must make their own decisions and take a stand. The repeated line "keep on coming" could be both a plea for the person they lost not to leave, and to encourage themselves to move forward and pursue their own desires.


In the chorus, the singer repeats "don't ever change," perhaps suggesting that they want the person they lost to always stay the same and not disappear from their life. The final lines seem to confirm this, with the singer feeling trapped by the hold the person has on them, but also scared to let them go.


Overall, the song portrays a sense of regret mingled with determination as the singer tries to hold onto someone who they let slip away.


Line by Line Meaning

Well I guess I never saw her in that way
I never realized my feelings for her until it was too late


Well I guessed everything always ends that way
My pessimistic attitude made me believe that all good things must come to an end


Oh I guess I should have tried to make her stay
I regret not fighting for the relationship and making an effort to keep her by my side


Keep on coming
I still hope that she will come back to me


Some people live their lives to understand
Some people seek knowledge and understanding in life


Some people live their lives to take command
Others strive to be in control and take charge


But the day has come when I must make my stand
I have reached a point where I must take action and stand up for what I want


Don't ever change
I want things to stay the way they were before


Change
I fear change and the unknown


If I can't get to you
If I can't have a relationship with you anymore


It's just the way you tried to hold me down
I feel suffocated by the way you tried to control me


You got a hold on me and I'm scared to make a sound
I feel trapped in the relationship and afraid to express myself


And you know everything I ever tried to say
You always understood my thoughts and feelings


Come on keep on coming please don't walk away
I don't want us to end and I want you to keep trying to make things work


You got a hold on me and I'm scared to let you go
I feel like I can't live without you and I'm afraid of losing you




Lyrics © DOMINO PUBLISHING COMPANY
Written by: JAMES MCLEISH REID, WILLIAM ADAM REID

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Most interesting comment from YouTube:

@Grichal1981

Well I guess I never saw her in that way
Well I guessed everything always ends that way
Oh I guess I should have tried to make her stay
Keep on coming
Keep on coming

Some people live their lives to understand
Some people live their lives to take command
But the day has come when I must make my stand
Keep on coming
Keep on coming

Don't ever change
Don't ever change
Change
Change
If I can't get to you

It's just the way you tried to hold me down
You got a hold on me and I'm scared to make a sound
And you know everything I ever tried to say
Come on keep on coming please don't walk away
You got a hold on me and I'm scared to let you go



All comments from YouTube:

@robgraham9947

This group has been with me most of my adult life. I couldn't imagine my life without their songs.

@ariel.mirabal.nigrelli

me neither 🧡 love to know people with the same feeling

@gabrielgabeira

Same here.

@MrSteniorod

Barbed Wired Kisses help me go through growing up gay, in the third world and in a recently deindustrialized city.

@ariel.mirabal.nigrelli

those melodies really touch my heart and soul. so many childhood memories and even memories I’ve never lived. hard to describe it, just feel it ❤️

@ducatione

After all these years, still my favorite band!

@number7gracestreet

Just Brilliant. They knew from their very own start that Rock and Roll was closed book, it had already done everything it was ever going to do (in terms of being new and rebellious). So they took the best pages from this sacred book of Rock and Roll that we all read as kids and took the best pages ---the looks, feels and sounds of the best: Dylan, Velvets, Phil Spector and so many wonderful others. Write songs about sex and death/decay and NEVER smile. Oh they were great, and I bet they were having a great laugh while doing it all. If it's not clear, I have always liked and listened to this band a lot. It's good they get so much late day recognition. They were always looking back themselves. Dog Bless Rock and Roll.

@KnuckleHunkybuck

lol. Dog bless Rock 'n Roll.

@Insp.CountMortisWinshipKlaw

The JMC were so unique and still are. The abyss walkers.

@Max404s

And 22 years later, the only band I will continue to love, perhaps for all my life. This is sad in reality, because the music is all about heartbreak, disillusionment, alienation and desire.

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