I Don't Want You to Want Me
The Moffatts Lyrics


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Jump in, let's go
Sit back and enjoy the show
There are miles to go
There are miles to go

This could be the night
The only night
But something you should know

I don't want you to want me
'Cause I'll hurt you in the end
I don't need you to need me

Tonight, I'll hold you tight
But I won't come back again
Come back again

Don't think, it's wrong
I just need somebody
And life goes on
And life goes on

Stay with me tonight
This only night
Don't forget you know

I don't want you to want me
'Cause I'll hurt you in the end
I don't need you to need me tonight
I'll hold you tight
But I won't come back again

Stay with me tonight, this only night
Don't forget you know
I don't want you to want me
'Cause I'll hurt you in the end

I don't need you to need me
Tonight I'll hold you tight
But I won't come back again
Come back again

Yeah, well, I don't need you to need me




Tonight I'll hold you tight
But I won't come back again

Overall Meaning

The Moffatts's song "I Don't Want You to Want Me" is a poignant ballad that expresses the conflicting emotions of a person who desires a moment of intimacy and connection with someone but knows that their feelings will cause pain in the end. The lyrics are about wanting someone for one night only but not wanting them to have any further expectations from the relationship. The song opens with an invitation to jump in and enjoy the show, followed by an acknowledgment that there are miles to go. The singer suggests that this could be the one and only night, but then reveals a caveat: "I don't want you to want me, 'cause I'll hurt you in the end. I don't need you to need me." This means that they want the physical experience but don't want the other person to develop feelings, as they know they are not capable of reciprocating them.


The song's chorus repeats this message of love-as-cruelty, with the singer singing "I'll hold you tonight but won't come back again." They are telling the other person to stay with them for the night, but that it will end there. Despite these conflicted emotions, the singer begs the other person to stay, knowing that they can never be the partner they want. The song ends with a final repetition of the chorus.


The message within the song is quite poignant, and people interpret it in various ways. Some believe that the song speaks volumes to the present society's modern dating culture, where people enjoy casual dating and sexual relationships without having emotional attachments. Some believe that the song speaks to one's ability to recognize when to start or end a relationship without causing any harm. Whatever your interpretation may be, the Moffatts presented a touching and emotional song.


Line by Line Meaning

Jump in, let's go
Come on, let's get started


Sit back and enjoy the show
Relax and enjoy the experience


There are miles to go
There's a lot ahead to experience


This could be the night
This night has potential


The only night
It's the only one like it


But something you should know
I have a warning, though


I don't want you to want me
I want to avoid hurting you in the future


'Cause I'll hurt you in the end
I know I'll cause pain in the long run


I don't need you to need me
I don't require your emotional attachment


Tonight, I'll hold you tight
I will be close to you this evening


But I won't come back again
I won't revisit this


Don't think, it's wrong
Don't judge me


I just need somebody
I need companionship


And life goes on
Life continues to move forward


Stay with me tonight
Spend time with me this evening


This only night
It's the only chance we have


Don't forget you know
Remember what I told you earlier


Yeah, well, I don't need you to need me
Just to reiterate, I don't require your emotional attachment


Come back again
I won't revisit this experience




Lyrics © OLE MEDIA MANAGEMENT LP, Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: JEFF COPLAN, CHRISTIAN BERMAN, FRANK BERMAN, BOB MOFFATT, CLINT MOFFATT, DAVE MOFFATT, SCOTT MOFFATT

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