That's My Girl
The Monks Lyrics


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Hey, fella,
What you doin' with that girl over there?
Well, that's a nice girl you got,
She sure looks good.
I bet you're gonna make love with her, huh?
Aren'tcha?
Yeah, that's a nice girl you got,
Hawwww!
Well, I bet you are gonna make love with her.
Well, that's a good lookin' girl you got fella!
Hey, haven't I seen her somewhere before?
She sure looks familiar,
I can't . . . uh . . . let me see, uh . . .
That's a nice girl!
Wait, that . . . that's my girl you got!
You can't have my girl!
That's my girl!




Nobody can have my girl, she's my girl!
Aw, you quit that! No!

Overall Meaning

The Monks' song That's My Girl is a song that is open to interpretation, but it appears to be about a possessive man who becomes jealous when he sees another man flirting with his girlfriend. The song starts with someone commenting on the man's girl and how good she looks, but the possessive man becomes increasingly irate, repeatedly insisting that the girl in question is his and that no one can have her. The song appears to be a commentary on the possessiveness that can sometimes be a negative aspect of romantic relationships, as the possessive man's behavior is clearly unhealthy and potentially dangerous.


The lyrics of the song That's My Girl by The Monks have a very repetitive and simplistic structure, which may be intentional in order to emphasize the possessive and jealous nature of the singer. The repeated insistence that the girl in question is "my girl" reinforces the idea that the singer sees his girlfriend as an object to be possessed rather than as an independent person with her own agency. This objectification is further reinforced by the way that the singer becomes increasingly angry as the song progresses, suggesting that he sees his girlfriend's behavior as something that he has a right to control.


Despite its simplistic structure, the song That's My Girl by The Monks remains a relevant commentary on possessive romantic relationships and the dangers of toxic masculinity. By portraying the singer as someone who wants to control and possess his girlfriend at all costs, the song highlights the importance of respecting the autonomy and agency of one's partner, and the need for healthy communication and boundaries in any romantic relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

Hey, fella, What you doin' with that girl over there?
A curious and confrontational inquiry about the man's intentions with the girl.


Well, that's a nice girl you got, She sure looks good.
Acknowledgement of the girl's attractiveness and suitability as a partner.


I bet you're gonna make love with her, huh? Aren'tcha?
Suggesting a sexual encounter between the man and the girl, and seeking confirmation.


Yeah, that's a nice girl you got, Hawwww! Well, I bet you are gonna make love with her.
Repeated affirmation of the girl's desirability and assumption of sexual activity.


Well, that's a good lookin' girl you got fella! Hey, haven't I seen her somewhere before? She sure looks familiar, I can't . . . uh . . . let me see, uh . . . That's a nice girl!
Commenting on the girl's appearance and expressing a vague sense of recognition.


Wait, that . . . that's my girl you got! You can't have my girl! That's my girl! Nobody can have my girl, she's my girl!
Suddenly realizing that the girl is the wo/man's partner and claiming ownership of her, declaring his possessiveness and denying access to her.


Aw, you quit that! No!
Exasperated reaction to the situation and the other person's advances towards the claimed girl.




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Written by: DAVE HAVLICEK, GARY BURGER, LARRY CLARK, ROGER JOHNSTON, THOMAS SHAW

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