You Don't Know
The Rascals Lyrics


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It seems so hard to keep a smile upon my face
Pretending I'm happy that she's gone
I must admit it's getting harder everyday to carry on.

So if you see her, please don't tell her how I feel
I'd rather that she never knew we met no
It's better that she doesn't worry anymore, she gets upset.
You don't know what it means to say goodbye
Try to hide all the hurt that's deep inside
She said goodbye, made me cry, wanna die.

Woke up one morning and discovered she was gone
And a note she wrote in haste is all I found
Don't try to find me, don't try to bring me back, I'm leaving town.

Since that morning I just haven't been the same
I've got to find a way to bring her home
No matter how I try, I just can't seem to make it on my own no, no.

You don't know what it is to say goodbye
Nothing left but a teardrop in your eye
She said goodbye, made me cry, wanna die.

You don't know what it is to say goodbye
Nothing left but a teardrop in your eye
She said goodbye, made me cry, wanna die.





You don't know
You don't know, know.

Overall Meaning

The Rascals's song "You Don't Know" tells the story of a man who is struggling to cope with the end of a relationship. Though he puts on a brave face and tries to move on, he admits that the pain is becoming overwhelming, and he finds it increasingly difficult to carry on. Furthermore, he asks that if anyone sees his ex-partner, they should not tell her how he is truly feeling; he would rather she didn't worry about him anymore.


The song's lyrics describe the sense of loss and vulnerability that comes with the end of a relationship. The man wakes up one day to find that his partner has left him, leaving only a brief note behind. The sense of confusion and hurt that he describes is palpable; he feels as though he has lost a part of himself and can't seem to move forward without her. The chorus drives home the theme of the song, emphasizing the idea that the pain of goodbye is something that cannot be fully understood until it is experienced firsthand.


In all, "You Don't Know" is a poignant exploration of the human experience of struggling with the end of a relationship. Its lyrics acknowledge the difficulties that come with navigating such a painful and emotional time, and it stands as a powerful testament to the importance of love and connection in our lives.


Line by Line Meaning

It seems so hard to keep a smile upon my face
It is difficult to show a happy face because of the sadness of her leaving.


Pretending I'm happy that she's gone
Acting like I'm fine without her when in reality it hurts so much.


I must admit it's getting harder everyday to carry on.
It's becoming increasingly challenging to cope with her absence as time goes on.


So if you see her, please don't tell her how I feel
I don't want her to know how much I am hurting, so please keep quiet.


I'd rather that she never knew we met no
I don't want her to know that I am trying to find a way to bring her back, it's better if she never finds out.


It's better that she doesn't worry anymore, she gets upset.
I don't want her to worry or feel upset so it's best that she doesn't know about my feelings.


Woke up one morning and discovered she was gone
I woke up to find out that she had left without saying goodbye.


And a note she wrote in haste is all I found
All I had was a note she left in a hurry, which was the only thing she left behind.


Don't try to find me, don't try to bring me back, I'm leaving town.
She didn't want me to look for her or try to bring her back, she just wanted to leave town and start over.


Since that morning I just haven't been the same
Ever since she left, things have not been normal, and I have not been myself.


I've got to find a way to bring her home
I feel like I have to find a way to bring her back to me because I miss her so much.


No matter how I try, I just can't seem to make it on my own no, no.
Despite all my attempts, I am unable to function on my own without her, and it's causing me distress.


You don't know what it means to say goodbye
Saying goodbye is not easy, and it's challenging to move on from someone you love.


Try to hide all the hurt that's deep inside
It's hard to show how much it hurts when someone you love leaves, and it's easier to hide the pain.


She said goodbye, made me cry, wanna die.
Her goodbye hurt me so much that it made me cry uncontrollably, and I felt like dying.


Nothing left but a teardrop in your eye
All that's left after someone you love leaves is sadness and tears.


You don't know
It's impossible for someone else to understand the pain, heartache, and struggle that comes with saying goodbye to someone you love.


You don't know, know.
Nobody can ever truly understand the intense emotional pain that comes with losing someone you love.




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