I Couldn't Cry If I Wanted To
The Temptations Lyrics


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You ask if I remembered, when we first met.
Girl, tell me how could I ever forget

There, you were standing there.
Aw, with ruby lips and the golden hair.
Your beauty seem to hypnotize me.
I had that feeling I was no longer free.
But when I ask you for a dance. (For a dance)
You wouldn't even give me a chance. (Me a chance)
And it hurt me through and through.
That was the first time I got over you.

You had my heart dingling,
Like a puppet on a string.
To you I meant nothing, darling.
But to me it meant everything.
Girl, you know since then through the years. (Through the years)
I've shed so many tears. (So many tears)
And all because of you, I couldn't cry if I wanted to.

I don't know why I still love you.
'Cause you don't even want me around.
Year after year it's the same o' thing.
You build me up, to let me down.

So go on and hurt me. (Hurt me)
Aw, like you did.
This time it'll be different.
Mmm, my tears you'll see no more.
'Cause I've cried so through the years. (Through the years)
Until I run out of tears. (Run out of tears)
And all because of you, I couldn't cry if I wanted to.

I'll never shed another tear.
I couldn't cry no more, darling.
Seems as though the pain
Have gone the tears from my eyes.
Never cry, never.




Never no more.
I'll never shed another tear.

Overall Meaning

The Temptations' song "I Couldn't Cry If I Wanted To" is a ballad about lost love and heartbreak. The song begins with the singer reminiscing about the first time he saw the woman who would eventually break his heart. He describes her beauty as captivating and the moment as feeling like he was no longer "free." However, despite his attempts to connect with her, she rejects him, causing him immense pain. The rest of the song focuses on the aftermath of their failed love affair, with the singer acknowledging that he still loves this woman even though she doesn't reciprocate his feelings. He ultimately resolves that he will never shed another tear for her, even though the pain of their relationship has left him unable to cry even if he wanted to.


"I Couldn't Cry If I Wanted To" is a quintessential example of the Temptations' classic Motown sound. The vocal harmonies are tight and soulful, and the melody is both catchy and emotionally resonant. The song was written by Miracles member Smokey Robinson, who was one of the most prolific and successful songwriters of the Motown era. The Temptations were one of the label's most popular groups, with a string of hits throughout the 1960s and 70s.


Line by Line Meaning

You ask if I remembered, when we first met.
Asking if I still remember the moment that both of us met.


Girl, tell me how could I ever forget
Of course, I remember that memory so clearly.


There, you were standing there.
You were standing there looking so beautiful.


Aw, with ruby lips and the golden hair.
With ruby lips and golden hair, you were looking gorgeous.


Your beauty seem to hypnotize me.
Your beauty was so mesmerizing that it completely hypnotized me.


I had that feeling I was no longer free.
I sensed that I was no longer free because I fell in love with you.


But when I ask you for a dance. (For a dance)
I asked you for a dance but you refused.


You wouldn't even give me a chance. (Me a chance)
You weren't even willing to give me a chance.


And it hurt me through and through.
It was really painful and hurtful for me.


That was the first time I got over you.
I got over you for the first time during that moment.


You had my heart dingling,
My heart was so strongly attached to you.


Like a puppet on a string.
It was like you were controlling me like a puppet on a string.


To you I meant nothing, darling.
I didn't mean anything to you, my love.


But to me it meant everything.
It meant everything in the world to me.


Girl, you know since then through the years. (Through the years)
Over the years, you know since then.


I've shed so many tears. (So many tears)
I have cried so much because of you.


And all because of you, I couldn't cry if I wanted to.
Now, I can't even cry, even if I want to, all because of you.


I don't know why I still love you.
I don't even know why I still love you.


'Cause you don't even want me around.
Because you don't even want me to be around you.


Year after year it's the same o' thing.
It's the same thing every year.


You build me up, to let me down.
You keep building me up just to let me down.


So go on and hurt me. (Hurt me)
So go ahead and hurt me if you really want to.


This time it'll be different.
But this time it will be different.


Mmm, my tears you'll see no more.
You won't see me crying anymore.


'Cause I've cried so through the years. (Through the years)
Because over the years, I have cried so much.


Until I run out of tears. (Run out of tears)
Until I completely run out of tears to cry.


And all because of you, I couldn't cry if I wanted to.
All of this is because of you, and now I can't even cry even if I want to.


I'll never shed another tear.
I will never cry again.


I couldn't cry no more, darling.
I can't even cry anymore, my love.


Seems as though the pain
It seems like the pain


Have gone the tears from my eyes.
Has taken away my ability to even cry.


Never cry, never.
I will never cry again.


Never no more.
Never again.


I'll never shed another tear.
I will never cry again.




Lyrics ยฉ Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: JR., EDWARD HOLLAND, EDWARD, JR. HOLLAND, NORMAN J. WHITFIELD

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Comments from YouTube:

Norma J.

I just love Paul's voice, I feel such a sense of sadness when I listen to him, I wish he had lived to a ripe old age loke Otis. Although I liked David Ruffin's lead I still wished they hadn't taken away the lead singing from Paul, maybe his life would have turned out better, aah well, one can only reminisce :(

Thankfulmom OO

Another great song with Paul Williams on lead. I love the power in his voice. He was an great singer and dancer. I love listening and watching him dance. He was a plus in the group and his talents is undeniable and unforgetable.

Letitia Betton

'I ๐Ÿ˜ this song I used to have it and i listened to it all the time i never never ever ever knew who the lead singer of the group was i still love it and i always will may they all rest in paradise their number 1 fan

Mary Denise

Paul is just amazing on this track he had a lovely voice...

Mark Jackson

@Malaki727 Not this song. It's Paul.

Lil Peaches Ali

@Malaki727 That' s Paul on lead & Al is clearly heard in the background

Malaki727

Not paul. This is Al Bryant

MotownMaster

Love this song, Paul is the man RIP Paul, Eddie, Eldridge and Melvin

John Omalley

Lil Peaches Ali so what other song is David on that album

John Omalley

Lil Peaches Ali David is only on one song and thats The Way You Do The Things You Do

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