That's How Heartaches Are Made
The Temptations Lyrics


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Bring home the heartache, yeah yeah
Here comes the heartache, yeah
Is it true what I'm hearing?
You don't love me anymore
How could you do this to me?

They told me I was such a fool to love you
They say that you're the kind who'd never be true
And soon the day would come, I'll be the sorry one
I told them I was not afraid

That's how heartaches are made
(That's how)
That's how heartaches are made, ooh
(That's how, yeah, heartaches are made)

Come on

I went ahead and my heart opened the door
I gave you so much love no one could no more
You said you were all mine, now you're bein' so unkind?
I can't believe the way you played me

That's how heartaches are made
(Oh baby, heartaches are made)
That's how heartaches are made
(Baby, baby, i know you know it)

Come on

Here comes the heartache
(Comes the heartache)
Here comes the heartache
(Come on, come on, heartache)

I know you're not sincere and you'll never be
But still I want your kisses so desperately
I'll never let you go, girl, even though I know
Every rule of love you disobeyed

That's how heartaches are made
(That's how, I know it)
That's how heartaches are made
(That's how, are made, made)
That's how heartaches are made
(Yeah)
That's how heartaches are made
(That's how heartaches are made, oh baby)

That's how heartaches are made
(That's how heartaches are made)
('Cause I really, I really, really, really love you girl)
That's how heartaches are made
(That's how, that's how)
That's how heartaches are made
([Incomprehensible], heartaches are made, oh yeah)





Yeah yeah, yeah yeah

Overall Meaning

The Temptations’ song “That’s What Heartaches Are Made” is a classic soulful ballad about heartbreak and the inevitable pain that comes with it. The song speaks about the reality of a breakup and the difficult emotions that come with it. The lyrics describe the situation of a lover whose partner has fallen out of love with them. The singer is curious if the rumors that he has heard are true, that his lover no longer loves him. He can't believe he has been played, and he is heartbroken because he has given his all to this person who now doesn't feel the same.


The verses of the song speak to the truth that others have told the singer about his lover. They warned him that she was never the type to be faithful, but he foolishly ignored them. The chorus highlights the fact that heartbreak is inevitable when one chooses to love someone. The singer sings that heartache and pain are just the result of the choices one makes when they allow themselves to be vulnerable and open to love.


In conclusion, the song speaks to the universal experience of heartbreak and the struggle that comes with it. The singer portrays heartbreak as an unavoidable experience one must endure in order to find true love. The song is a poignant reminder that love can be both beautiful and painful, as it is how heartaches are made.



Line by Line Meaning

Bring home the heartache, yeah yeah
I am about to experience pain and sorrow that will shake me to my core.


Here comes the heartache, yeah
The moment of agony and despair is fast approaching.


Is it true what I'm hearing?
I am questioning whether the news I received about your lack of love for me is accurate.


You don't love me anymore
Your feelings towards me have dissipated, leaving me in a state of emotional turmoil.


How could you do this to me?
I am puzzled and disappointed by how you could intentionally hurt me by withdrawing your love.


They told me I was such a fool to love you
People warned me that falling in love with you was a mistake since you didn't have a reputation for being faithful.


They say that you're the kind who'd never be true
My confidants informed me that the chances of you being honest were slim to none.


And soon the day would come, I'll be the sorry one
I was warned of a time when I would regret ever loving you as I would bear the brunt of your infidelity.


I told them I was not afraid
I reassured my friends that my love was strong enough to withstand any challenges that arise.


That's how heartaches are made
I have come to the realization that the agonizing pain I feel is the result of loving someone who doesn't have the capacity to reciprocate.


(That's how)


Come on


I went ahead and my heart opened the door
Despite the warnings, I opened my heart to you, and love flowed out freely.


I gave you so much love no one could no more
I lavished you with an unconditional, immeasurable love that no one else could imagine giving.


You said you were all mine, now you're bein' so unkind?
You once professed your exclusive love for me, but now you are treating me cruelly and unfairly.


I can't believe the way you played me
I am shocked by how you manipulated my feelings for you and portrayed yourself to be someone you're not.


I know you're not sincere and you'll never be
I have come to accept that you are incapable of being truthful and sincere with me.


But still I want your kisses so desperately
Despite your disingenuous nature, I am still hungering for your affection and intimacy.


I'll never let you go, girl, even though I know
I am aware that you are not worth my time and emotions, but I still can't bring myself to let go of you.


Every rule of love you disobeyed
You have broken all the fundamental principles of love, defying the standards of how people should be treated when in love.


That's how heartaches are made
Once again, I have experienced the consequences of loving someone who cannot love me in return.


(That's how, I know it)


(That's how, are made, made)


([Incomprehensible], heartaches are made, oh yeah)


That's how heartaches are made
The song concludes by reiterating that the source of all my heartaches and pains is my love for someone who doesn't love me back.


('Cause I really, I really, really, really love you girl)


('Cause I really, I really, really, really love you girl)




Lyrics © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc.
Written by: BEN RALEIGH, BOB HALLEY

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Comments from YouTube:

Michael Dale

Love this version. .they did justice to it...would love to hear Smokey Robinson sing it...never heard him sing it

Benny Rodriguez

There are so many versions of this song , even Bette Midler took a take on this but I have to go with the original Baby Washington 1963 version đź–¤

Linda Wyche

OMG! Just beautiful! Loving the remake of this song! That Darn Terry Weeks, got one of the most inexplainable voices on the horizon! Come on Terry and Harry, My, My ❤️❤️

sugafoot820

I love love this remake thanks for posting

Ruthy Shelley

Sounds good to me 🥂🥂💚

Terry Sanders

Original singer female Baby Washington 1963. Here on YouTube. His name is Barrington. He came in after Ollie Woodson left. The mid 90s.

W. Roland Chambers

Correct. Last song Theo did was Stay. Bo get's the credit because by the time the album was finished Theo was gone.

Trevor Woodward

I agree - hers is a great version...wish someone would upload it.

Terry Sanders

Deniece Williams sung it in the mid-2000s.. And she did it beautifully..She's still the Songbird.

Kevin Harris

You're right, Terry. Barrington did arrive after Ali-Ollie Woodson and sounds like him, too. However, he actually replaced Theo Peoples, who in turn replaced Richard Street in the 90's.

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