You Beat Me To The Punch
The Temptations Lyrics


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That day, I first saw you passing by

I wanted, to know your name but I was much too shy

I was looking at you so hard

Until you must have had a hunch
So you came up to me and asked me my name

Baby, you beat me to the punch

You beat me to the punch

You beat me to the punch, baby

After, I had known you for what seems like a long, long time

I wanted, wanted to ask you would you please, please be mine

Whenever you came around, my heart would pound

So you must have had a hunch

So you came up to me and asked me to be yours

Baby, you beat me to the punch

Beat me to the punch

You beat me to the punch

Since I loved you, I thought you would be true

And love me tender, I let my heart surrender to you, yes I did

But I found out beyond a doubt one day girl

You were a play girl to walk away and leave me so blue

So I ain't gonna wait around for you to put me down

This time I'm gonna play my hunch

And walk away this very very day

And beat you to the punch

Baby, I'll beat you to the punch





Baby, I'll beat you to the punch

Overall Meaning

"You Beat Me To The Punch" by The Temptations tells a story of a shy guy who admires a girl from afar and desperately wants to get to know her. However, he's too afraid to make a move. One day, she approaches him first, and he's overjoyed. He falls in love with her and eventually asks her to be his. Unfortunately, after he surrenders his heart, he discovers that she's not faithful and decides to break up with her before she has a chance to hurt him anymore. In the end, he decides to beat her to the punch and leave her instead of waiting around to be hurt again.


The lyrics of "You Beat Me To The Punch" reveal the all-too-familiar phenomenon of being too hesitant to take risks in relationships, which could result in missed opportunities. The singer in the song spends too much time gazing at the object of his affection, not realizing that she might have been interested in him all along. However, in the end, he learns from his mistake and decides to take control of his future by leaving her before he gets hurt.


Line by Line Meaning

That day, I first saw you passing by
The singer recalls the day they first laid eyes on their love interest


I wanted, to know your name but I was much too shy
Although the singer desired to discover their love interest's name, they were too nervous to approach them


I was looking at you so hard
The singer was intensely gazing at their love interest


Until you must have had a hunch
The artist believes that their love interest noticed their prolonged stare


So you came up to me and asked me my name
The love interest took the initiative to approach the artist and inquire about their name


Baby, you beat me to the punch
The love interest beat the singer to the punch by initiating conversation


After, I had known you for what seems like a long, long time
The singer has spent significant time with their love interest after the initial encounter


I wanted, wanted to ask you would you please, please be mine
The artist desired to ask the love interest to be their significant other


Whenever you came around, my heart would pound
The artist's heart would race when their love interest was present


So you must have had a hunch
The artist believes that the love interest could sense their feelings


So you came up to me and asked me to be yours
The love interest asked the singer to be in a relationship with them


Baby, you beat me to the punch
Again, the love interest made the first move, beating the artist to the punch


Since I loved you, I thought you would be true
The singer assumed that their love interest would be faithful since they loved them


And love me tender, I let my heart surrender to you, yes I did
The singer was vulnerable and surrendered their heart to the love interest


But I found out beyond a doubt one day girl
The singer had a realization, confirming that their love interest was not as devoted as they had hoped


You were a play girl to walk away and leave me so blue
The love interest turned out to be a player, leaving the artist feeling sad and abandoned


So I ain't gonna wait around for you to put me down
The artist is no longer willing to wait for the love interest to hurt them


This time I'm gonna play my hunch
The singer will trust their instincts and make a move for themselves


And walk away this very very day
The singer intends to leave the relationship immediately


And beat you to the punch
The artist will beat the love interest to the punch, ending their relationship before they can cause more hurt


Baby, I'll beat you to the punch
The artist reiterates their intention to end things before the love interest can hurt them again




Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Ronald White, William Robinson Jr

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