It's for You
The Wedding Present Lyrics


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No, it's for you but then you didn't need me to say that
â??Cause you already knew, how many times is it today that
He's had to call? It's as if you're still together
I don't care at all, I'm just wondering whether

You think you and he will ever run out
Of things that you have to talk about
You said everything you will ever need so
Why can't you just let him go

OK I lied, sometimes it's like you never met me
Oh I've really tried, but all these in-jokes just upset me
Do you think you and he will ever run out
Of things that you have to talk about

You said everything you will ever need so
Why can't you just let him go
Just tell him â??goodbye' and put down the phone
And for once we can be on our own





You think I'm making this up but darling it's true
It just feels as if I'm sharing you

Overall Meaning

The Wedding Present’s song It’s For You is a painful exploration of a love affair that is not yet over, but has already begun to decay. The lyrics paint a picture of a man who is struggling to come to terms with the fact that his lover is still in contact with her former partner, and it’s beginning to have an impact on their current relationship. The singer is painfully aware of the number of times his lover has had to answer her ex’s calls and is frustrated that their ex-partner seems to be always present in their relationship, despite them being apart. The repeated calls are an indication of the hold that her ex has on her, and the singer is left wondering if they will ever run out of things to talk about.


The lyrics also suggest that the singer has tried to confront his lover about the situation, but his attempts to do so have had no impact. He feels as though he is being dragged into a relationship he never intended to be a part of, and the in-jokes that they share remind him that he will never be able to be fully part of this relationship. As the song progresses, the singer concludes that it might be time for his lover to finally let go of her ex-partner and move on with their relationship, but he remains unsure if she is ever capable of doing so.


Overall, It’s For You is a painful and emotive portrayal of a love triangle that is tearing apart a relationship. It captures the sense of frustration and loneliness that comes with being second-best, and the unending presence of an ex-partner in a new relationship.


Line by Line Meaning

No, it's for you but then you didn't need me to say that
I realize you already know this, but just to confirm, this song is for you.


Cause you already knew, how many times is it today that
I know you've heard it before, but how many times today has he called you?


He's had to call? It's as if you're still together
It seems like you and your ex are still in a relationship with each other.


I don't care at all, I'm just wondering whether
I'm not bothered by it, I'm just curious about something.


You think you and he will ever run out
Do you ever think you will run out


Of things that you have to talk about
Of things to talk about with each other.


You said everything you will ever need so
You mentioned that you have everything you need in a partner, so


Why can't you just let him go
Why can't you just move on from him?


OK I lied, sometimes it's like you never met me
I admit, sometimes I feel like you don't even know me.


Oh I've really tried, but all these in-jokes just upset me
I've tried my best to understand, but these inside jokes between you and your ex make me upset.


Just tell him 'goodbye' and put down the phone
If you could just say goodbye and hang up the phone,


And for once we can be on our own
We could finally have some quality time together.


You think I'm making this up but darling it's true
I know you might not believe me, but it's really true.


It just feels as if I'm sharing you
It just feels like I'm not the only one in this relationship.




Lyrics © O/B/O APRA AMCOS
Written by: David Lewis Gedge, Simon Christopher Cleave

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Comments from YouTube:

Giulio Stissi

No, it's for you but then you didn't need me to say that
'Cause you already knew, how many times is it today that
He's had to call? It's as if you're still together
I don't care at all, I'm just wondering whether

You think you and he will ever run out
Of things that you have to talk about
You said everything you will ever need so
Why can't you just let him go

OK I lied, sometimes it's like you never met me
Oh I've really tried, but all those in-jokes just upset me

Do you think you and he will ever run out
Of things that you have to talk about
You said everything you will ever need so
Why can't you just let him go

Just tell him a goodbye and put down the phone
And for once we can be on our own
You think I'm making this up but darling it's true
It just feels as if I'm sharing you

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