The two related to each other by their own struggles and their subsequent recoveries. "Tim's a recovering alcoholic, I'm a recovering bulimic and we've both suffered with depression and suicidal ideation," says Rose, "Those dark years in our lives are ultimately what inspired our songs."
The full band album presents a short story and ten tracks that blend the duo's rock based influences (think Mayday Parade, Tonight Alive, Secondhand Serenade and Dashboard Confessional) in a dynamically-melodic style, guaranteed to capture your heart, imagination and full-attention. With a lyricism resonating from thought-provoking and emotive tales and an intricate and electrifying indie/alternative delivery, Them vs. Her’s sound has been perfectly tailored to tell their story.
The duo's debut release has been well received by critics and fans alike with Stitched Sound stating, "Swing Sets and Handguns magnificently…display(s) the band's vocal ability and technical skills. The album smoothly progresses from song to song, using consistent beats and melodies to tie things together."
"Conceptually, Them vs. Her hit the nail on the head when it came to deciphering a story through song," says music blogger Sunny Menagerie at Golden Mixtape. "They have a solid concept album with Swing Sets and Handguns for those who like their rock with a hint of indie pop."
"There are so many people that struggle silently; whether they have depression, an eating disorder, alcoholism, an addiction...or anything else that stops someone from truly living their lives," Rose says, "My ultimate goal for the band and the album is to connect with people that are hurting like Tim and I were. If someone hears one of our songs and can relate it to something they've experienced to the point where they don't feel so misunderstood, then we've succeeded in my eyes."
Don't Let Go
Them vs. Her Lyrics
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Still lost in a dream
Of seeing you and me
Together through everything
I puff on this smoke
To try n numb this pain
I'm running on cheap cigarettes
and bumps of cocaine
At such an delicate time
I must've of let it all go
The day I lost my mind
And then you showed up
With this love I've never known
So baby tell me how
And never let this go
Mmmm mmmm mmm
Tell me how
Mmmm mmmm mmm
Focus is lacking strength
And I can't tell if this is real
Not much is left but pain
And I'm learning how to heal
Suffering is my lane
And I don't wanna drag you here
So baby let me sink
Your heart is my last frontier
I'd hate to drop this off
At such an delicate time
I must've of let it all go
The day I lost my mind
And then you showed up
With this love I've never known
So baby tell me how
And never let this go
The lyrics of "Don't Let Go" by Them vs. Her convey a deep sense of emotional turmoil and struggle, with the singer reflecting on their past and present circumstances. The opening lines "I wake here asleep / Still lost in a dream" suggest a feeling of being stuck in a limbo between reality and fantasy, possibly hinting at a sense of emotional confusion or detachment. The mention of using substances like cigarettes and cocaine to numb the pain implies a coping mechanism to deal with the overwhelming emotions.
The singer expresses a fear of letting go, especially during a delicate time, which could signify a reluctance to confront their inner demons and face the challenges ahead. The line "The day I lost my mind" alludes to a point of personal crisis or breakdown, which may have led to a shift in perspective or a realization of the need for change. The entry of a new love interest brings a sense of hope and unfamiliarity, as the singer acknowledges experiencing a love they have never known before.
Despite this newfound love, the singer struggles with feelings of inadequacy and uncertainty, as indicated by the lines "Focus is lacking strength / And I can't tell if this is real." The reference to suffering as their lane and not wanting to burden their partner suggests a desire to protect them from the inner turmoil and pain the singer is going through. The plea for the partner to let them sink and the acknowledgment of their heart being the singer's last frontier signify a deep emotional dependency and vulnerability.
The repeated refrain of "So baby tell me how / And never let this go" encapsulates the longing for reassurance and stability in the face of tumultuous emotions and experiences. The singer seeks guidance and support from their partner, emphasizing the importance of holding onto this newfound love amidst the chaos of their internal struggles. Overall, the lyrics of "Don't Let Go" delve into themes of love, loss, resilience, and the complexity of emotional vulnerability, painting a poignant picture of a journey towards healing and self-discovery.
Line by Line Meaning
I wake here asleep
I feel like I am awake while I am actually lost in a dream
Still lost in a dream
I am still stuck in this dreamlike state
Of seeing you and me
Of envisioning a future with you and me together
Together through everything
Supporting each other through all hardships
I puff on this smoke
I try to cope with my pain by smoking
To try n numb this pain
To attempt to numb the pain I feel
I'm running on cheap cigarettes
I rely on cigarettes, which don't really help
and bumps of cocaine
And occasional drug use to escape reality
I'd hate to drop this off
I would regret losing this connection
At such an delicate time
Especially when things are so fragile
I must've of let it all go
I must have let everything slip away
The day I lost my mind
The day I lost control of my thoughts and emotions
And then you showed up
And then you entered my life
With this love I've never known
With a kind of love I've never experienced before
So baby tell me how
Please explain to me how this is happening
And never let this go
And promise me you won't let our connection fade away
Mmmm mmmm mmm
Melodic transition
Focus is lacking strength
My ability to focus is weakening
And I can't tell if this is real
I am unsure if this situation is genuine
Not much is left but pain
All that remains is a sense of hurt
And I'm learning how to heal
And I am in the process of learning how to recover
Suffering is my lane
I am used to enduring hardship
And I don't wanna drag you here
And I do not want to burden you with my struggles
So baby let me sink
Please allow me to be vulnerable
Your heart is my last frontier
I see your love as my final place of safety
I'd hate to drop this off
I would deeply regret losing this connection
At such an delicate time
Especially when things are so fragile
I must've of let it all go
I must have let everything slip away
The day I lost my mind
The day I felt overwhelmed by my emotions
And then you showed up
And then you came into my life
With this love I've never known
With a unique love that is new to me
So baby tell me how
Please explain to me how this love exists
And never let this go
And please promise to never let this love fade away
Lyrics © O/B/O DistroKid
Written by: Brandon Row
Lyrics Licensed & Provided by LyricFind
@thelastcowboyfaue256
Take it from me boy's, Don't leave her, if you can't let her go. Stomp out your foolish pride, and imagine what it would be like without her, because when she's gone, she ain't coming back.
@zacharymcbride5236
Man I wish someone would have told me this or I wouldn't have been so stupid god I miss her more then anything in this world and there is no bringing her back and I honestly don't blame her she deserves better then me I just wish I was a better man and didn't have my big ass head full of pride like I'm someone who doesn't make mistakes and not that she did anything vwrong other then try to help me become a better man I'm a pos who is actually trying to become abetter man a way better man then I thought I could be all I know is if I ever get the opportunity at true love again i won't let it go
@shannonrobinson6693
Amen
@jamesaubry9947
I feel that, I really do, I cant see my exes and not think about how they are doing. I know I should just walk away, but it hurts when I do
@carolinagirl7596
Truth.
@carmahuelsmeyer4594
@@zacharymcbride5236 my personal opinion and experience I still love my ex (RLB) til the end of time and have always thought anything can be worked out when u truly love..gotta leave the past in the past
@kelseymcgowan2538
Been in love with someone who doesn't love you back is the worst. Letting go really is the worst feeling.
@stacyweddington9264
Oh I know it heartbreaking
@amandacurns8409
Kelsey McGowan Ik how that well to well I’m in love with my best friend of almost 6 years it hard
@aprilgaines2132
Facts...please take good care of him