The two related to each other by their own struggles and their subsequent recoveries. "Tim's a recovering alcoholic, I'm a recovering bulimic and we've both suffered with depression and suicidal ideation," says Rose, "Those dark years in our lives are ultimately what inspired our songs."
The full band album presents a short story and ten tracks that blend the duo's rock based influences (think Mayday Parade, Tonight Alive, Secondhand Serenade and Dashboard Confessional) in a dynamically-melodic style, guaranteed to capture your heart, imagination and full-attention. With a lyricism resonating from thought-provoking and emotive tales and an intricate and electrifying indie/alternative delivery, Them vs. Her’s sound has been perfectly tailored to tell their story.
The duo's debut release has been well received by critics and fans alike with Stitched Sound stating, "Swing Sets and Handguns magnificently…display(s) the band's vocal ability and technical skills. The album smoothly progresses from song to song, using consistent beats and melodies to tie things together."
"Conceptually, Them vs. Her hit the nail on the head when it came to deciphering a story through song," says music blogger Sunny Menagerie at Golden Mixtape. "They have a solid concept album with Swing Sets and Handguns for those who like their rock with a hint of indie pop."
"There are so many people that struggle silently; whether they have depression, an eating disorder, alcoholism, an addiction...or anything else that stops someone from truly living their lives," Rose says, "My ultimate goal for the band and the album is to connect with people that are hurting like Tim and I were. If someone hears one of our songs and can relate it to something they've experienced to the point where they don't feel so misunderstood, then we've succeeded in my eyes."
My heart
Them vs. Her Lyrics
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I take him to the ocean
and I pray and I thank
that he is with me
my precious my darlin'
you are my love
when I was born
and she kissed
and she cried my name
'cause she was
filled with love
She ain't feel lonely
my precious my darlin'
you are my love
I kept on thinking
why I am here
and what for
but I ain't have to
think that way anymore
think that way anymore
'cause I just feel
feel your love
feel your love feel your love
feel your love feel your love
feel your love
The lyrics of Them vs. Her's song "My Heart" explore themes of love, gratitude, and connection between a parent and child. The singer expresses their deep affection for their child, emphasizing the importance of their presence in their life. The reference to taking the child to the ocean symbolizes a place of peace and serenity, where the singer can reflect, pray, and give thanks for the bond they share with their child. The use of repetitive phrases like "my precious, my darlin'" and "you are my love" conveys a sense of adoration and devotion towards the child.
The second verse shifts the focus to the singer's own experience as a child, highlighting the emotional connection with their mother. The imagery of being taken to the ocean and receiving kisses and tears from the mother signifies a nurturing and loving relationship. The mother's expressions of love and not feeling lonely suggest a strong bond that sustains and comforts both the mother and the child. The repetition of "my precious, my darlin'" and "you are my love" reinforces the theme of unconditional love and emotional closeness within the family.
As the lyrics progress, the singer reflects on their existential pondering about the purpose of their existence and the meaning of life. However, the realization dawns upon them that with the presence of love, particularly the love they feel for their child, such existential questions lose their significance. The repetition of "feel your love" underscores the transformative power of love in dispelling doubts and uncertainties, bringing a sense of fulfillment and purpose. The reassurance and comfort derived from feeling the love of their child is portrayed as a source of strength and clarity in the singer's life.
In conclusion, "My Heart" by Them vs. Her is a heartfelt ode to the profound connections that bind a family together. Through the imagery of the ocean, expressions of love, and reflections on the power of love to provide meaning and purpose, the lyrics capture the essence of parental love and the enduring impact of such relationships. The song encapsulates the universal experience of finding solace, gratitude, and joy in the love shared between a parent and their child, highlighting the significance of these bonds in shaping one's understanding of self and life.
Line by Line Meaning
If I got my child
If I have a child
I take him to the ocean
I bring him to the ocean
and I pray and I thank
and I pray and give thanks
that he is with me
that he is by my side
my precious my darlin'
my precious darling
you are my love
you are my beloved
when I was born
from the moment of my birth
my mom' took me to the ocean
my mother brought me to the ocean
and she kissed
and she kissed me
and she cried my name
and she called out my name with tears
'cause she was
because she was
filled with love
filled with love for me
She ain't feel lonely
She didn't feel alone
I kept on thinking
I continued to ponder
why I am here
about my purpose
and what for
and for what reason
but I ain't have to
but I no longer need to
think that way anymore
dwell on those thoughts anymore
'cause I just feel
because I simply feel
feel your love
feel your affection
feel your love feel your love
feel your love, feel your love
feel your love feel your love
feel your love, feel your love
feel your love
feel your affection
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Written by: higurashi ai ha
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