Their debut album - All Eternity - was released in Finland by the end of that year and the band then signed contracts with Nuclear Blast (for Europe) and Pony Canyon (for Japan). In 2000, the band toured Europe together with Dark Tranquillity, Sentenced and In Flames. Epilogue was released in 2001 and was followed by a tour with Lacrimosa.
The album Jaded was released in 2003 and in August of that year, vocalist Jarno Perätalo left the band. He assembled a new band named Tiaga, integrated by former members of To/Die/For. However, in 2004, Jarno Perätalo and the band Tiaga took the name To/Die/For for themselves, releasing the album IV in 2005.
02. Died In Your Arms
To/Die/For Lyrics
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I just died in your arms tonight
It must've been something you said
I just died in your arms tonight
I should've walked away
I keep looking for something I can't get
Broken hearts lie all around me
Her diary, it sits by the bedside table
The curtains are closed, cat's in the cradle
Who would've thought that a guy like me could come to this
Oh, hug!
I just died in your arms tonight
It must've been something you said
I just died in your arms tonight
Oh, hug!
I just died in your arms tonight
It must've been some kind of kiss
I should've walked away, I should've walked away
Is there any just cause for feeling like this
On the surface I'm a name on a list
I try to be discreet, but then blow it again
I've lost and found, it's my final mistake
She's loving by proxy, no give and all take
'Cause I've been thrilled to fantasy one too many times
Oh, hug!
I just died in your arms tonight
It must've been something you said
I just died in your arms tonight
Oh, hug!
I just died in your arms tonight
It must've been some kind of kiss
I should've walked away, I should've walked away
It was a long hot night
Yes, she made it easy, she made it feel right
But now it's over, the moment is gone
I followed my hands, not my head
I know I was wrong
Hug!
I just died in your arms tonight
It must've been something you said
I just died in your arms tonight
Oh, I just died in your arms tonight
It must've been some kind of kiss
I should've walked away, I should've walked away
I should've walked away, should've walked away
The lyrics of "Died In Your Arms" by To/Die/For depict a man who has just experienced a tragic loss, both emotionally and physically – dying in someone's arms, possibly after having sex with them one last time. The singer suggests that his death was caused by something the other person has done or said, leading to the question, "Is there any just cause for feeling like this?" It is clear that the singer feels trapped, surrounded by broken hearts and unable to escape the situation, which is probably why he ignored warning signs.
He glances on the chair and sees the diary, symbolizing the fact that his lover was already wary or aware that something might happen but chose to indulge themselves regardless of the consequence. The singer also acknowledges that his behavior has contributed to his present state - he has lost and found, made many mistakes, chased fantasies and loved by proxy. He is aware that his inability to walk away is his final mistake.
Overall, the song portrays the downfall of a man, who although wishes he had walked away, could not resist the moment and the pleasure it brought, leading to his death. The lyrics of this song have been relatable to many individuals relationship-wise, particularly in their moments of vulnerability and desire. It has captured the heart of many rock and metal music lovers who adore the depth of its poetic lyrics.
Line by Line Meaning
Hug!
Addressing the person who he just died in the arms of, as if to get their attention.
I just died in your arms tonight
Expressing the feeling of emotional overwhelm and vulnerability that he is currently experiencing.
It must've been something you said
Attributing the cause of his emotional overwhelm and vulnerability to something the other person said.
I should've walked away
Regretting that he did not exit the situation earlier, believing that it could have prevented the emotional turmoil he is currently experiencing.
I keep looking for something I can't get
Conveying the feeling of searching for a desire or goal that is unattainable or out of reach.
Broken hearts lie all around me
Noticing that many others are also experiencing feelings of heartbreak and loss.
And I don't see an easy way to get out of this
Feeling trapped and without a clear path towards resolution of the emotional turmoil he is experiencing.
Her diary, it sits by the bedside table
Describing a physical object which appears to hold significant meaning or emotional value to the other person involved in the situation.
The curtains are closed, cat's in the cradle
Painting a picture of a specific setting or environment in which the emotional turmoil is taking place.
Who would've thought that a guy like me could come to this
Expressing surprise or disbelief that he has found himself in this situation, given his personal qualities or history.
Oh, hug!
Repeating the earlier phrase to continue addressing the other person involved in the situation.
It must've been some kind of kiss
Reflecting on the possible cause of his emotional state as being related to a single moment or interaction with the other person.
Is there any just cause for feeling like this
Reconsidering whether the intensity of his emotional state is justified or reasonable.
On the surface I'm a name on a list
Feeling like he is being reduced to a number or statistic rather than a complex, unique individual with feelings and experiences.
I try to be discreet, but then blow it again
Acknowledging a pattern or habit of attempting to conceal his true emotions or intentions, but ultimately revealing them anyway.
I've lost and found, it's my final mistake
Reflecting on a history of making errors or misjudgments in past situations similar to the current one.
She's loving by proxy, no give and all take
Describing the other person involved in the situation as feeding off of his emotions and giving little in return.
'Cause I've been thrilled to fantasy one too many times
Recognizing that he has perhaps placed too much emphasis on idealized or imagined versions of a romantic relationship in the past, leading to disappointment when those ideals do not align with reality.
It was a long hot night
Recalling the specifics of a particular moment or event that led to the bringing about of the current emotional turmoil.
Yes, she made it easy, she made it feel right
Remembering the sense of ease and comfort he felt in the past moment, which he now recognizes as perhaps unhealthy or misguided.
But now it's over, the moment is gone
Coming to a realization and acceptance that the past moment cannot be relived and is now irrelevant to the present emotional state.
I followed my hands, not my head
Acknowledging a history of acting impulsively or without self-control in moments of desire or emotion.
I know I was wrong
Taking responsibility for his own part in the situation and admitting fault.
I should've walked away, should've walked away
Repeating the earlier phrase as a final expression of regret that he did not exit the situation earlier.
Lyrics © Sony/ATV Music Publishing LLC
Written by: Nicholas Eede
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@numalord7
i can't belive this isn't on itunes, it's like the best cover of this song
@youvegotmysong
Most underrated band ever.
@xNovaDragonx
This is a surprisingly good cover.
@Pijaben
Amo este cover!
@Asztaroth
Buen cover. Ambas versiones son muy buenas.
@wildysary
I love this version!Great!!
@TDad90599
Awesome cover...
@speakingforthehated
HOLY SHIT!!! THIS IS REALY GOOD!!
@dkbeyreis
loved the original & this is a lot of fun.
@deixallescapdur
buenisima esta cancion. esta version es la mejor ke he oido de ella con diferencia :P 5 estrellas