You Don't Have to Camp Around
Todd Rundgren Lyrics


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Daddy don't like it but Mommy still wonders, Sweet Boy
But you're allowed to try it and I point no fingers
Sweet Boy, but I'm still wonderin' what it means, boy
You hold your wrist so limply
You don't have to camp around
Save all your money, go confess on Sunday, Sweet Boy
And you get your copy of "Honey,"
Back on the street by Monday
Sweet Boy, but tell me where does that leave me, boy




Save the satin undies, don't pluck out your eyebrows
Stow the mincy lisping, you don't have to camp around

Overall Meaning

In Todd Rundgren's song "You Don't Have to Camp Around," he is addressing someone he refers to as "Sweet Boy." The lyrics suggest that there is some controversy or judgment surrounding this person's behavior or lifestyle, particularly with regards to their sexuality or gender expression. Despite disapproval from some (specifically, "Daddy"), Rundgren asserts that there is no need to hold back or hide who you are. He encourages this person to be themselves and not feel the need to conform to societal expectations or norms ("You don't have to camp around, save all your money, go confess on Sunday...save the satin undies, don't pluck out your eyebrows, stow the mincy lisping").


At the same time, however, Rundgren acknowledges the complexity of this situation. He admits that he himself is still "wonderin' what it means" and unsure of how to react or offer support ("Sweet Boy, but tell me where does that leave me, boy"). It is clear that this person's identity is at odds with some deeply ingrained ideas about gender and sexuality, and Rundgren is grappling with what it means to be an ally and offer genuine support.


Overall, the message of the song seems to be one of acceptance and encouragement. Even if society or certain individuals disapprove, Rundgren is telling this person that it is okay to be themselves and not feel the need to hide or conform. At the same time, he is acknowledging that it may not always be easy or straightforward to be an ally, and that even well-meaning individuals may struggle to fully understand or support those who are marginalized.


Line by Line Meaning

Daddy don't like it but Mommy still wonders, Sweet Boy
Your father disapproves, but your mother is curious, my dear


But you're allowed to try it and I point no fingers
I'm not judging if you want to experiment


Sweet Boy, but I'm still wonderin' what it means, boy
I'm still trying to understand what you want


You hold your wrist so limply
The way you hold yourself suggests insecurity


You don't have to camp around
You don't need to conform to stereotypes


Save all your money, go confess on Sunday, Sweet Boy
Don't waste your money, instead seek redemption


And you get your copy of "Honey,"
And you'll receive a copy of a magazine called 'Honey'


Back on the street by Monday
In time for it to be available by Monday


Sweet Boy, but tell me where does that leave me, boy
I'm curious about how this affects our relationship


Save the satin undies, don't pluck out your eyebrows
Don't change your appearance to conform to society's expectations


Stow the mincy lisping, you don't have to camp around
Don't succumb to traits deemed effeminate




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Written by: TODD RUNDGREN

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